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"The Worst Feeling"

Posted: 11/24/11 03:40 PM ET

“Being hungry is possibly the worst feeling anyone could ever experience, and honestly, when you’re hungry, you can’t be productive, and you can’t really do anything. And I just remember, sometimes in school I would definitely be hungry,” said 17-year-old New York City high school senior Ninaad Dave. During the recession, his father had to close the small business he’d successfully run for 25 years but found another job after nearly nine months of unemployment. “Now, when I am able to have a nice meal or eat, I’m just always thankful that there is food on the table, there is food in my stomach. I’m just always considerate, and I always think back when I was hungry and how privileged all of us are to eat.”

So many American families, including my own, celebrate Thanksgiving Day with a traditional feast and an overabundance of food. In many homes, the sight of a table with enough food for everyone to eat and to get seconds and even thirds is actually nothing special. The tablecloths and menu might be a little fancier on Thanksgiving but every night there’s something in the house for dinner and everyone goes to bed full. For some families Thanksgiving may be the only meal of the year where they pause long enough before eating to truly give thanks for the food in front of them. But for millions of our neighbors -- including Ninaad Dave and children like him -- they cannot always count on the next meal.

Sixteen million U.S. households are food insecure -- struggling to afford food their family needs. With record numbers of families living in poverty and unemployed and food prices increasing, one in seven Americans rely on the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP), or food stamps. The overwhelming majority -- three quarters -- are families with children. The latest data showed that in August nearly 46 million Americans relied on food stamps to eat -- the 37th straight month the number has increased, and the highest number since food stamps began in 1939. These families do not take any meals for granted.


Like so many American children, Ninaad knows what it’s like to feel hungry. He recently told the Children’s Defense Fund, “I’ve always tried to do what I could to help my family out and achieve the American dream.” For most of his childhood, that meant being helpful with his mother’s health problems at home and a good student at school. But when his father was struggling to keep his business afloat and it became harder for his family to make ends meet, Ninaad found a new way to help: “It was very visible that the business wasn’t doing as well. So I would just try to help alleviate the problem by just making a note to eat at school, to take advantage of school meal programs, eat breakfast at school in the morning, eat school lunch, and then come home and have just, you know, a small meal... I just felt that there should be enough food to go around for everyone, and that my dad was just doing the best he could, so I shouldn’t have to be burdensome.” After his father became unemployed, Ninaad really learned what it was like to go hungry --- “possibly the worst experience anybody could ever go through.”


On December 14th, Ninaad is being celebrated by the Children’s Defense Fund-New York City’s Beat the Odds® program as one of five exceptional high school students who have overcome tremendous challenges to excel academically and give back to their community. They will receive a scholarship, college counseling, a laptop computer, and an invitation to join CDF’s youth leadership training ladder to help pave the road to college and a successful adulthood.

Hunger and food insecurity are particularly devastating for children and Ninaad and millions of young people like him will never forget how it feels to be hungry. Proper nutrition is essential to a child’s health, development, and well-being. Hunger and poor nutrition are linked to low birthweight and birth defects, obesity, mental and dental health problems, and poor education outcomes. We know safety net programs like food stamps, WIC—the Women, Infants and Children -- nutrition program, summer feeding and school food programs work to combat child hunger. In the current recession they have proved to be indispensable lifelines for the millions of jobless families with no cash income in our rich nation.

During this Thanksgiving week, I hope those political leaders who refuse to invest in creating new jobs to help struggling families while protecting tax breaks for the richest Americans and corporations and refuse to ask the privileged to contribute their fair share in this difficult economic period will reflect on what their and America’s true values are. I believe it’s morally unconscionable that the rich should keep getting richer while the poor get poorer—and hungrier.

 

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“Being hungry is possibly the worst feeling anyone could ever experience, and honestly, when you’re hungry, you can’t be productive, and you can’t really do anything. And I jus...
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Dragoon
Got Liberty? Legalize Freedom!
05:20 PM on 11/25/2011
Giving more money to the government will not solve this problem. It will only give useless politicians the opportunity to grand stand about how much they care and, oh yeah, vote for me. Plus, they'll give the money to a agency run by their kid and 3/4 of the money will never trickle down.

If taxes are the solution, then I suggest a 100% value added black friday tax. Remember a $200 laptop is more important than people.

CTD-circling the drain
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chlai88
Change is the only constant
06:10 PM on 11/25/2011
Corporations aren't gonna hire the unemployed out of any altruism. In the meantime, somebody need to temporarily solve the problems of survival for those who're struggling. This is also why we have govt, not just to fight wars and secure the homeland so you can enjoy your black friday shopping.
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04:45 PM on 11/25/2011
There are many parents who work hard and make sacrifices to make good with little and there are many crappy parents who don't . But its the little ones who suffer and that's what sucks.
03:37 PM on 11/25/2011
Proof is in the Pudding . . EXPOSED!!! . . the Progressive "War On Poverty" . . Cat 5 FAILURE . .
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03:15 PM on 11/25/2011
The simple reason that many of us starve is that we killed off most of the American Indians, later called aboriginals, and later called indigenous people. They are the cause of the original thanksgiving because they brought turkeys and other foods to the settlers who were close to starving. Once they fed the settlers and gave them some veggies and turkey eggs, the settlers went forward and invented thanksgiving. Not in honor of the kind indigenous people who taught them kindness and generosity, but in furtherance of a gluttonous feast. If we had let these kind people live, they would still be here to hunt down and feed those who remain hungry on this bilious occasion. As we sit on giant couches, belch and break wind while we watch grown people on television run back and forth on a grassy field, crashing into one another with intent to do bodily harm.
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Dutchman79
Never leave a fallen comrade...
06:34 PM on 11/25/2011
Well, glad we won.
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08:59 PM on 11/26/2011
Sometimes in our desperation for victory in life, we can manufacture it out of the meanest ingredients, like for instance, killing off the people who fed you when you were starving.
02:46 PM on 11/25/2011
This story puts lie to the notion that the world is overpopulated, with not enough resources to feed everyone. 30% of the food produced is thrown away annually and, according to the UN, the amount of food produced each year is enough to feed double the current population.

The US is neither a poor nor an overpopulated country, and yet there are families here struggling to put food on the table. The resources are abundant, but not distributed quickly or evenly. The real culprits causing hunger are politics and racism.
03:41 PM on 11/25/2011
Huh? . ., ever heard of a Supermarket . . I mean really . . get a Clue . .
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Dutchman79
Never leave a fallen comrade...
06:35 PM on 11/25/2011
What you mean to say is that we should go back to the tradition of the first Thanksgiving and redistribute the resources according to the needs of the people.
12:17 PM on 11/25/2011
i think it is funny how she talks about kids being hungry[which is a valid point] to creating new jobs,give me a break
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Dutchman79
Never leave a fallen comrade...
06:37 PM on 11/25/2011
It isn't about the kids, it is about redistribution. The reference to children is a tool used to get people to feel badly. Really, is it worse for a kid to starve who may not know better of for a grown-up to starve who has tasted a feast?
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christina444
One must tremble indignation at every injustice...
02:19 PM on 11/26/2011
You really don't understand the correlation???
11:37 AM on 11/25/2011
Socialist propaganda! NOT BEING RICH is the worst feeling in the world- EVERYBODY knows that! (sarcasm)
11:29 AM on 11/25/2011
This Ninaad is a whiny little baby. When I was in high school, I worked 30 hours a week in a restaurant. I was able to eat, bring food home, and have plenty of money. He's giving back to the community? He should be giving back to his family. To heck with the village, he needs to help his family.

I was at a supermarket this year. I passed by a table where they were collecting money for children to eat. When I passed (without contributing) the woman behind the table said "...Well the children have to eat". I said to her "that's what they have parents for".

She looked at me as though I was speaking in tongues.

That's what it has come down to. No self reliance. No initiative. Just welfare, food stamps, and whining. This is a free country. Don't want to work? Don't eat. Either way, I don't care.

Need a job? Get off your butt and go to North Dakota. 3.5% unemployment and they are looking for workers. What's stopping you Ninaad?
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giftsthatpurr
zestful life
12:15 PM on 11/25/2011
You have obviously lost touch with empathy, compassion and interconnectedness. I am very sorry you live in such a private little hell.
01:05 PM on 11/25/2011
How dare you criticize others. Many of us take food to the local food bank once a week. Life is not fare, that is why I give to others. On the other hand there are no shortcuts to success.
02:26 PM on 11/25/2011
I agree that empathy and compasion is very needed in this economy at this time in our history. Sad for the few people who think one is "lazy and that's why they don't have enough food or money. Shame on you that you have no feelings for those who don't hve jobs or enough money.
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RS
I think, therefore, I don't listen to Limbaugh
02:00 PM on 11/25/2011
"Need a job? Get off your butt and go to North Dakota. 3.5% unemployme­nt and they are looking for workers."

Oh yeah? Hey Big Totti -- I'll bet the house the two major employers in ND that are in need of workers are Wal-Mart and McDonald's. If you honestly think anyone (including Ninaad) can support themselves or a family working LONG hours (i.e. at least 60 hrs./wk) for VERY PUNY wages then WHY DON'T YOU LEAD THE WAY? It's time for cold-hearted, perennially selfish folks like you to PUT UP OR SHUT UP!
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Dutchman79
Never leave a fallen comrade...
06:57 PM on 11/25/2011
Actually, the largest employers aren't as you ignorant folks might think. the largest employers are actually

Bobcat Company
Butler Machinery
Dakota Gasification Co. & Great Plains Synfuels Plant
Great River Energy - Coal Creek Station
Imation Corp
Goodrich Corp

there are plenty more where those came from. I chose the largest, but there is a booming healthcare and insurance industry as well. With the increase in companies moving there and the relatively small population, I would bet that the unemplyment rate will stay low and may even go lower.

by the way Mr. smarty pants, if BigTotti is fine where he's at, why should he lead the way. Heck you could lead the way and put your money where your big mouth is.
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skeeterandbucky
Rebel with a cause. Or six
09:28 PM on 11/25/2011
Thanks for writing this. Sadly even if Ninaad found a job in N.D. he'd probably get nowhere near 60 hours a week.
11:29 AM on 11/25/2011
Wonderful observation and excellent reading, but awake America, once before it was thought this was exciting to know about our fellowman and hear O' Israel.
“And Jesus answered him, saying, it is written,.... In Deuteronomy 8:3
that man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word of God; When American's expense justice and truth amongst the suffering and poor in spirit alike, the true bread of the Gospel will be served, but to the suggest whereby a meal is sufficient over that when it is the will of God that we value truth and that we expense justice and mercy "the sufferings will continue". Cultures as well as the human nature may be maintained by the influence of divine power, without the use of ordinary means; and that bread itself, without a divine blessing, would not support life; and so not this stone, or stones, if turned into it: The influential American, knows it is the heart of his existence, "it became him", as man, to depend upon God, submit to his will, and wait the issue of providence, who had brought him thither, and not take any such steps to remove his hunger; and especially at his solicitations, who had no other end, but to have him, if he could, at his beck and will. By "every word of God", is not meant all Scripture, and every part of it, which given by inspiration of God, and may be said to proceed out of his mouth;
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tinyrainbows
10:41 AM on 11/25/2011
My table is full on Thanksgiving because I bust my *ss all year working 80-100 hours a week. My wife works full time and I pay cash for my kids' college education. We have plenty to be thankful for. Mostly that I earn my keep and don't think I'm entitled to another's wealth.
10:50 AM on 11/25/2011
Tiny rainbows---Thank you for this comment --It covers the whole spectrum-
I could not add nothing-Spoken like a true American--
11:31 AM on 11/25/2011
Congratulations on the abundance you have acquired through your success and hard work. I hear your anger and your pride in your words. But does the pain of your "hard earned" self righteous entitlement extended into compassion at all? Have you begun to hate everyone who has not suffered working as much as you? I dig ditches and build rock walls for a living, I am also college educated. My body is tired and achy, should you resent me too because my best efforts have not produced the same good fortune as you? As far as entitlement, after 34 years of paying taxes, now the $157 per month I receive as food assistance I consider MY MONEY, when I most need it. Do you actually believe that America's most wealthy who exploit the tax system, have scads of lobbying power, have used public resources like roads, airways, police, and other services at a far larger scale than you or I do, and who pay far less as a percentage of income are ENTITLED to it? I do not disrespect your achievement or opinion nor your right to have them. Yet, I confront you on the shoddy reasoning, resentment and superiority for which you assert your claim. Continuing down the road of hate, anger, and self-righteousness will lead to implosion.
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giftsthatpurr
zestful life
12:18 PM on 11/25/2011
Stephen - many thanks for confronting self absorbed "I am better than you" attitudes. Well said! F/F
01:08 PM on 11/25/2011
Well you either voted for REEP or a DEM. Result; status quo. Time for a reality check.
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09:55 AM on 11/25/2011
anyone think congress is going without?
they earn six figures with full benefits while wrecking the economy for us and legislating everything for us while exempting themselves....WHY?????
is this okay with everyone???
what can we, collectively, do about it???
11:33 AM on 11/25/2011
Do you think any of the congressional members would be earning less outside of Washington? The real problem with Washington is all the "insider trading" which is illegal on Wall Street but perfectly legal in D.C. They go there and earn $100K + but retire as millionaires. How?
09:55 AM on 11/25/2011
Being "hungry" especially applies to people in developing countries.Even in this recession people here in the US have it GREAT compared to the average person in a developing country...
10:53 AM on 11/25/2011
How long are they going to be in development? They have been doing it for centuries--
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giftsthatpurr
zestful life
12:20 PM on 11/25/2011
Well that sure is a good reason to let thousnds upon thousands of kids under 5 die of starvation when $10.00 feeds a child for 3 weeks!
01:34 PM on 11/25/2011
I don't understand you. You ignore the fact that people are having a hard time by saying they are better off than people in poor countries.

Why are you comparing America to those countries? The people in this wonderfully rich country SHOULD be better off than what they are experiencing...this article points out that altho. a man may own a business and work very hard, his family can go hungry.....
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24hourrifle
A time comes when silence is betrayal
09:49 AM on 11/25/2011
The priorities of the U.S. and our Congress and yes,our President,are seriously out of whack.

Despite the boohoo whining from The McCains and Grahams and Panettas about how ANY cuts in defense would lead to Al qaeda storming the borders and our military immediately becoming McHale's Navy....

anyone being honest and rational knows that we could and SHOULD make serious cuts in defense spending,and even more importantly,we should eliminate an enormous amount of foreign aid....

the idea that we are giving billions and billions of dollars to other countries-ANY other country-while there is still even one single starving American child,seems wrong.

Im not advocating complete isolationism,however....

homelessness is still a SERIOUS problem;hunger is still a SERIOUS problem and healthcare is still a SERIOUS problem.

both parties insist that we simply cant afford to provide enough hc to American citizens to keep them even reasonably healthy-we MUST cut medicare and ESPECIALLY medicaid,yet we can still afford to provide billions of dollars to other nations?
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09:56 AM on 11/25/2011
so what's the answer?
I think it's the congressional reform act of 2011...but they wouldn't submit and pass it...it takes away their power and money. what to do?
02:05 PM on 11/25/2011
You are right that defense could be cut without giving up national security and cutting it would greatly reduce our deficit spending. Howevewr, while aid to foreign countries may not always be applied properly, eliminating it would do almost nothing to reduce the deficit. Besides, properly applied, foreign aid does help to realize foreign policy objectives and can even help our economy with trade agreements and thereby indirectly boost federal revenues.
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24hourrifle
A time comes when silence is betrayal
08:23 AM on 11/26/2011
sorry if I wasnt clear....

I definitely am not suggesting we eliminate foreign aid.It is crucual for any number of reasons-including the point Michelle Bachmann made about Pakistan in the last debate(even a broken clock is right twice a day)....I completely agree that it is necessary.I just meant that a great deal is UNnecessary.

and as long as pols insist that we cant AFFORD to invest in education,infrastructure-which is bad enough,but also that we cant even afford to work harder towards improving things like healthcare,homelessness and hunger in our country-I have a huge problem w/ any foreign aid not absolutely crucial.
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Denalidog
09:42 AM on 11/25/2011
every time people ask us to recall Thanksgiving memories, the most memorable one for me actually was negative. We had very little. My employer had given each of us a small turkey, so two of my coworkers and I gathered our families at the largest home for a feast, each contributing the turkeys we had been given and side "fixin's" The plan was we would divide up the leftovers. But I had to work the evening shift, so I said I would drop back in in the next day to collect my share of the leftovers. the other family involved took theirs home with them that evening. when I returned the next day, I discovered the host family had devoured EVERYTHING. "we got hungry again, and what we all ate was turkey" was the explanation. I was devastated. We were counting on the leftover turkey to eat for the rest of the week. My husband & I had 2 very young children and no meat in the house. I became a workaholic as a result, a veritable Scarlett O'Hara, swearing "as God is my witness, I will never be hungry again." It was an incentive to work harder.
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gloriaswanson43
Ask and you will get more info.
10:17 AM on 11/25/2011
That was just rude of them. No matter how hungry you get you don't eat food meant for someone else. That's why cereal was invented: get hungry, have a bowl of Special K.
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Dutchman79
Never leave a fallen comrade...
07:24 PM on 11/25/2011
Oat meal is pretty good too. Lord knows I've eaten enough of that stuff.
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pahpah25
09:26 AM on 11/25/2011
THANKSGIVING has become a day of GLUTTONY, for some....followed by a day of greedy shoppers...i watched a tv show on couponing, and these people were so proud of themselves for their stacks and stacks of goods they had stashed in their closets...my question is, when did hoarding become a 'life style' promoted on tv?
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Dutchman79
Never leave a fallen comrade...
07:26 PM on 11/25/2011
I guess we still have it pretty good in this country.