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Three Cups of Humble Pie

Posted: 04/21/11 04:24 PM ET

In my country (New Zealand), we get well-schooled in the dangers of getting "too big for our own boots." We call it the "tall-poppy syndrome": the risk that any flower who stands above the rest will have its head lopped off.

I know some people who suspect this is what's going on for Greg Mortenson this week.

"No good deed goes unpunished," said Clare Boothe Luce (or Billy Wilder, depending who you ask).

But that's not all there is to this.

I've just finished reading the impressive report "Three Cups of Deceit" by Jon Krakauer. It is a carefully researched and well-written expose of what I hope will become a cautionary tale about the perils of the cult of personality in aid work.

1. The Perils of Telling the "Truth"

As someone who has just finished writing a memoir about my work in Afghanistan, I confess, this topic makes me nervous.

In an interview with Outside magazine, Mortenson talks about how he worked with his editor and writer to agree on "compressions" in the story: combining two or three trips to the same place into one trip for the sake of actually fitting it all into one book.

I do that in my book. I combine two different trips to Qala-e-Naw town in Badghis province into one visit. Both trips did in fact happen, each contained one event relevant to the overall story and timing didn't seem to be critical.

Do these changes make my story less true?

And what about that police chief who -- if asked -- will almost certainly accuse me of lying about his collusion with drug traffickers? What if 60 Minutes ever interviewed him about the veracity of my book?

It's a minefield, writing a nonfiction book about a place like Afghanistan. And yet, I can stand behind every story in my book. I may have changed names, changed ethnicities and compressed events. But I have not claimed that the mob of angry men banging at my gate were Talebs trying to kidnap me. I have not exaggerated for dramatic effect. I have not invented.

And although I think "truth" is a slippery word, I also think that those of us who tell our readers that we are reporting life as we experienced it, rather than fiction, bear the responsibility of the trust our readers then place in us to report that life as carefully, mindfully and -- yes -- truthfully as we are able.

If we plan to then leverage our story to encourage our readers to donate money to our cause then we bear an even heavier responsibility not to mislead them in any way. Greg Mortenson appears to have taken this responsibility too lightly.

2. The Perils of Amateur or DIY Approaches to Educating Girls: The Empty School

Without teachers or ongoing operating budgets, perhaps built in the wrong place in the first instance, the image of Central Asia Institute (CAI) schools being used as warehouses or sitting completely empty has shocked many people.

During my two years in Afghanistan, I saw my fair share of empty schools built by well-intentioned foreigners (ranging from the U.S. military to a group of wealthy women from Germany).

Effective education programming requires a comprehensive approach. Teacher training, community engagement and consultation and -- in the ideal scenario -- effective government oversight to ensure that there is some kind of sensible strategy about which schools get built and where. Which brings me to my next point.

3. The Perils of Hero Worship

Greg Mortenson has been turned into some kind of hero. Many of us wanted to believe in the story as it was told. We wanted a hero.

The real story of girl's education in Afghanistan is even more inspiring than the Mortenson story. It is the story of men and women all over Afghanistan -- employees of the Ministry of Education, of large NGOs like CARE and local community members sitting on village school boards -- who work tirelessly to build an education system that meets the needs of as many of Afghanistan's children as possible.

But that wasn't the story the West wanted to hear.

We wanted the story of a single heroic individual doing battle against, or simply doing better than, big institutions.

But what if those big, clumsy, flawed, bureaucratic institutions are the real story? What if, as I believe, a national education strategy led and monitored by the Ministry of Education is the only long-term solution to education for girls in Afghanistan.

I am not alone in this conclusion. Back in July 2009, Mosharraf Zaidi said much the same thing about Pakistan.

To educate almost 70 million children, the only "cup of tea" that will do is the one that is served by the state. The state is not only ultimately responsible -- legally, morally, and politically -- for educating Pakistan's children. It is responsible, and internally wired, to ensure Pakistan's survival.

So I'm not surprised CAI schools are standing empty. But perhaps Mortenson's most important work was educating his readers about the importance of education for girls to effective development and security in the region. But that was not what donors thought they were funding and it brings me to the next set of questions, about governance and financial management at CAI.

4. The Perils of the "Founder Syndrome"

From all accounts -- and to be fair this is one of the few criticisms of him that does come through in the first book -- Mortenson resists any kind of management or oversight. Of all the accusations leveled against him, this is the one that stops me in my tracks. This is the one that makes me want to take him by the collar and say, "Greg, dude, what are you doing?"

According to Krakauer's report, Mortenson resisted accounting in any detail for any of the money he spent from CAI. One by one, CAI Board members and senior staff resigned as a result. And yet -- somehow -- this all remained unreported in the media until now.

This is the part of this whole scandal that shocked me.

Desiree Adaway has written a very good post about the basics of effective governance and oversight of a not-for-profit and she makes what I think is an essential point: beware of any organization dwarfed by the profile of its founder.

5. The Perils of Being Human

When my mother first told me about Three Cups of Tea, I was living in Afghanistan. Everything she told me about the book pissed me off. I was tired of the cult of the white/Western hero. I was tired of seeing well-intentioned individuals start projects that were unsustainable or, worse, harmful.

The title of the post I wrote when I finally read Three Cups of Tea was "What Greg Mortenson Taught Me About Aid and Humility." That could easily have also been the title of this article too.

Aid is complex. Anyone who wants to be of service in this field needs lots of humility. And, although it doesn't absolve him of his responsibility to account for his actions, Greg Mortenson gets my gratitude for teaching me this yet again, and -- simply because he is human -- he gets my compassion.

 

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alahnar
A strange bedfellow indeed
06:37 PM on 04/22/2011
Great article, filled with compassion, which is a nice change of pace.
My only confusion is your refusal to acknowledge that there is a truth, without putting quotations around it. Fact is fact is fact, and the *fact* is, he lied. Taking creative liberties with the truth to tell a good story isn't lying to a point. But lying the way he did takes away any truth. There is truth, no need to bend around it and put quotations there.
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AwShucks
Obama-Biden 2012 Let's Do it Again
03:47 PM on 04/22/2011
Funny, how as I read Greg's books, I worried about his safety.

I never saw him as the "great white hope". Simply as a man trying to do a huge job on his own for a good bit of the time.

I still admire his work.

Yes, he is disorganized.

But he sure could have taken all of his energy and gone some where safe and comfortable to attempt to do good.

But he didn't and now all of the "johnny come lately s" are on his back and/or covering their selves now by offering up how they are doing some of the same things with their writing while plugging their own books.

To err is human, to forgive divine.
01:06 PM on 04/22/2011
"No good deed goes unpunished" would apply if Mortenson's motivation was to do good, as opposed to making a buck off suckers.

You write, "Do these changes [compressing two visits into one] make my story less true?" Yes, they do. There is a category for what you have written: fiction. A story of a man freeing himself from the Taliban is not inspiring if that man is Arnold Schwarzenegger or Sylvester Stallone: it is inspiring if we think it actually happened.

"[E]mpty schools built by well-intentioned foreigners" also seems to be an inaccurate phrase. The 60 Minutes report said many of the schools Mortenson claimed he built did not exist. A "well-intentioned" foreigner does not collect money to run schools that he never even built in the first place.

You write, "[P]erhaps Mortenson's most important work was educating his readers about the importance of education for girls..." Well, I've done that.
http://www.stanford.edu/group/gender/Events/MathForum.html
Give me $50 million.

The main lesson to draw from the story is: Why does the media not check anything?
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MamaBird62
02:05 PM on 04/22/2011
Well it's the "media" we have to thank for bringing this story to light. Were it not for serious investigative journalism by 60 Minutes, Jon Krakauer, and others, we wouldn't be having this conversation, and CAI would still be pulling in lots of money from the unsuspecting. Charity watch dog groups have been issuing warnings for some time, but they were largely ignored. The unraveling of Mortenson's web has been going on for some time (60 Minutes says they have been investigating for 18 months,) but it took a national news show to put it front and center. There's a fairly simple explanation for how it went on so long: lack of accountability and transparency in the operations of CAI. Charitable givers: as always, beware.
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bolivare
IT'S SO FLUFFY!!
03:43 PM on 04/22/2011
Point is, it took 60 minutes to do it. The msm should be covering this type of stuff rather than bleet all day about what outrageous thing Charlie Sheen said on some pointless interview, being asked pointless questions by a pointless "journalist". Our problem with our media is that it is profit driven, not truth driven. The truth is short and to the point, but doesn't make profit. Dragging out bs from our politicians and these little "Charlie Sheen" stories draws the mentally lazy in for a ratings extravaganza.
60 minutes takes how long to come up with an expose? Week? Two weeks? Months? By the time we get the facts from 60 minutes, the deed has been done and we are late to the party ...again. And not even fashionably late.
Regards.
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bolivare
IT'S SO FLUFFY!!
06:11 PM on 04/22/2011
Apparently your comment back to me was scrubbed. In answer, you miss my point. You didn't know about this until this story, just like the rest of us. So, you are not well informed.
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Marianne Elliott
04:07 PM on 04/22/2011
Thanks for your comment. The empty schools built by well-intentioned foreigners I saw in Afghanistan were not built by Mortenson. Most, in fact, were built by the US military so perhaps the phrase 'well-intentioned' in innaccurate at least at the institutional level. At the level of the individual service-men and women who were responsible for the buildings, I am certain intentions were mostly very good.

But good intentions are not enough, certainly not in development. And well-intentioned amateur aid efforts often end up doing more harm than good.

Was Mortenson's original intention to do good? Or to make a buck off suckers? I don't know and so I choose not to comment on that. But I agree that if the original intent was good, things seem to have gone very far off track.

As for whether combining events from two trips into one (with a note in the foreword that this has been done) makes the story fiction, I guess we'll each have to make up our own mind on that. What matters to me is that I'm transparent about it so that readers can make an informed decision for themselves.
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Richard McRae
04:18 PM on 04/22/2011
"Combining two trips into one" falls into the same category as "misremembered" and "misspoke." They are all justifications of not being honest with the purpose of creating a better story. As an author I completely understand WHY someone would do it - but I also see it as being an after-the-fact excuse for a lie they assumed no one would ever investigate. I could invent a father figure right now and make him into whatever I wished with the purpose of selling more books and teaching me valuable lessons. But if he never existed and was just an amalgamation of a million other people I've known then my story stops being true and becomes fiction.

They do have a genre for stories that are not true and it is, as you said, fiction.
12:03 PM on 04/25/2011
Really interesting points being raised in these threads, Marianne. As a nonfiction author like you and Richard below, l also know why a writer would compress time or create a composite character, mainly because readers won't stick with a 700-page book that recounts every moment as it actually unfolded, and sometimes under pressure by editors for valid legal reasons or to protect real people's privacy. But I think there's a big difference between small choices made to shape a story into a manageable package while being honest about it with publisher and reader and flat-out invention. One is an artistic choice--story is an artistic product after all--but the other is a willful deception and unfair to readers who believe they're reading a story that adheres to actual, verifiable events. Especially when they're asked to give money in support.

Also, there's a pretty big distinction between memoir (which relies on conventions of fiction and is based on memory which is frequently imperfect and subjective) and long-form third-person narrative, which is typically held to more journalistic standards of objective truth. Three Cups of Tea read to me like a hybrid of the two. That's complicated, because the legal and artistic guidelines of one don't always apply to the other.

Still, when some events in an otherwise nonfiction work are made up for purposes of story and passed off as fact without a disclaimer, I wouldn't call the whole work fiction. I'd just call it dishonest.
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Richard McRae
11:07 AM on 04/22/2011
"Greg Mortenson has been turned into some kind of hero. Many of us wanted to believe in the story as it was told. We wanted a hero. .
But that wasn't the story the West wanted to hear. "

That's a ridiculous and pandering justification. America didn't go to Mortenson and beg him to be their hero. His foundation has openly said that they put him forward as a figurehead and encouraged him to sell as many books as possible because it helped them raise money. They may have had good intentions with their charities, but the fact is that they were collecting amounts of money that FAR FAR exceeded the amounts they were spending on "improvements" to schools in these areas. In fact, most of the schools were simply token buildings thrown up in areas that wouldn't require it to need continued funding in the future.

Add on top of that the fact that Mortenson has become extremely wealthy off of this whole debacle without seeming to care whether or not the organization was doing what they were collecting money to do.

You may think "Truth" should be in quotations, but I don't. I find it disappointing and deplorable that you'd try to justify his mismanagement of funds, misrepresentations, and unethical money-chasing like you have. He LIED many, many, MANY times in an effort to get rich. Why would you defend that?
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Ocheco
12:13 PM on 04/22/2011
Well said! I too am sick of quotation marks around the truth. That mindset has become quicksand in our culture. While I understand Ms Elliot is trying to avoid being painted with the Mortenson brush. I do hope she included some statement in her preface about compressing the story of detail, & changing names.

Though I bought Three Cups, I did not make any progress reading it. For me there is a disconnect with people who write books about how wonderful they are. Another book I had trouble with was written by a man claiming to be a horse whisperer to the Queen. Every paragraph of the book started with I...I ....I. He claimed to know the Dorrance brothers, but later I met another cowboy sort who worked for them, a singer & poet, I'll not name here, & he quotes Bill Dorrance, "MAYBE he came up here with his Dad to cut firewood".

Just my way of saying sometimes I get the full circle effect of knowing my gut feeling was correct. The guy's a liar!!
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Richard McRae
12:19 PM on 04/22/2011
I agree with what you said about "truth" being quicksand in our culture. People don' t lie anymore, they 'misspeak' or 'misremember' or whatever. There are a million reasons why it's okay to outright lie to people. It wasn't like he accidentally stretched the facts a little - he fabricated experiences and stories out of thin air and sold them as truth for the sole purpose of raising money. And even if it started out with a "good reason" to lie in the beginning, he's let it go on for years now without ever stopping it.

He's not a good guy, he's not a misunderstood hero, and he's not some poor philanthropist with love in his heart who was taken advantage of by an evil charity. He has scammed the system for years and he got caught. We shouldn't be defending him, we should be questioning how we can prevent this from happening in the future.
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bolivare
IT'S SO FLUFFY!!
03:48 PM on 04/22/2011
Well said to both of you and I couldn't agree more.
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Marianne Elliott
03:59 PM on 04/22/2011
My observation that many of us wanted to believe the story of 'Three Cups of Tea' as it was told was not a defense of Mortenson. I don't believe I'm defending him at all.

My view is that he failed in his responsibility to tell the truth - or ensure the truth was told - in his book and he failed in his responsibility to account for the money raised as a result of those books. The points I make about the role our collective love for the 'individual hero' story played in this situation doesn't, in my view, reduce Mortenson's personal responsibility for his actions. But it is an important factor in how and why this happened the way it did.

It's not a justification, and it is not offered as a justification, but it's a part of the picture and it's timely that we examine it because Mortenson is not the only great White hero being lauded for his humanitarian efforts. This has happened before and part of what needs to happen to prevent it happening again is that we become more discerning readers & donors.

As for 'truth' being in quotations, I stand by my comment that it can be a slippery fish to catch. But I also reiterate my point that this doesn't absolve the non-fiction writer from persevering until they are confident they've caught it.

As Steve Almond said over at The Rumpus, creative non-fiction is a radically subjective account of events that objectively took
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Richard McRae
06:55 PM on 04/22/2011
This I completely agree with. It's unfortunate that the tone of the article was so different from this explanation. I think that will keep the majority of readers from grasping your intended meaning.
03:50 PM on 04/25/2011
Who did you work with in Afghanistan? Are you familiar with PARSA?

As for truth -- Truth can be a slippery fish. Truth is often deemed relative. Truth is not easy to find or uphold. But "truth" is always relative, slippery, and very likely not true.
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TooLooze
Someone should do something about all the problems
09:12 AM on 04/22/2011
Very insightful and thought provoking article. Thanks!
08:48 AM on 04/22/2011
Brava! A wonderful little essay.

And special kudos to you for taking the time to express compassion for Mortenson. It's not too late for him to do the right thing with CAI: resign and express support for a new management regime which operates ethically and transparently.
07:57 AM on 04/22/2011
Your insight as a human rights advocate in Afghanistan and other conflict zones is unique and valuable, particularly to those who have little knowledge or understanding of the situation on the ground. Thanks for your wise, compassionate and sensitive assessment. Let's hope the charity in question gets itself a good accountant and all funds raised are used to help those most in need, rather than for "marketing" and/or enriching the founder's bank account.
07:26 AM on 04/22/2011
Good article!

How do we reconcile "the desire to give" that is often stirred in us, in response to hearing an emotional and moving story, with "what is actually effective and helpful"?

On a very small scale, I have been dealing with this in the personnel realm lately, as so many people in my sphere have lost their jobs and fallen on hard times. While facing my own financial challenges, I was confronted with the question of "what do I have to offer?" in response to my friends' struggles.

What I arrived at was this: Connection. I could check in on them regularily. I could return their calls promptly. I could listen to their problems, and be encouraging and non-judgmental. And this, most important one, I could reflect back to them a vision of themselves at their best, as whole and radiant, despite their immediate circumstances. This has seemed to be helpful. And it was free.

So often we tend to "avert our eyes" to the suffering of others, because we feel powerless, or because it reminds us of our own fagility.

This scandal is disappointing for sure, but through it, perhaps more people are learning more about the plight of children in distant lands, and the complexities of "giving".

Maybe this will somehow lead to a "net gain" for humanity.
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Marianne Elliott
03:42 PM on 04/22/2011
I agree - the question of how we can translate our 'desire to give' into action or support that is actually effective and helpful is critical.

There are many reputable, experienced organisations doing effective (if not perfect) work in places like Pakistan and Afghanistan. CARE, CRS, World Vision, Save the Children, the Aga Khan Foundation and IRC are all organisations I saw in action on the ground in Afghanistan.

If you are interested in supporting education for children in Afghanistan (or anywhere for that matter) then I'd recommend looking for organisations committed to international best practice for the provision of education in conflict settings and to the protection of children's rights.
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sunbury girl
06:20 AM on 04/22/2011
Bravo. And thank you for reminding us of the hidden heros working tirelessly in places like Afghanistan such as the NGO workers (of which I am one, albeit in Nepal), local school boards, and the Ministry of Education (not all of whom are corrupt). I, like you, didn't read 3 Cups of Tea until recently. The main reason was the whole idolisation of this one man bothered me. When I thought of the real heros in the many years I've worked in development in South Asia (mostly in Nepal), they were people, both Nepali and western, who didn't do it for acclaim but for the joy of seeing the lives of so many positively changed by our work. The "great white saviour" in the form of Greg Mortenson story was too much for me to bear.
03:52 AM on 04/22/2011
Marianne,

Very well written, nuanced, thoughtful, balanced.

I got sucked in by the hero worship. Very easy to do when we are confronted with difficult issues in Central Asia. I now see where I was romantic and naive, drawn into a comforting myth. I am learning some important things about aide and development. I have learned once again there are no miracles, no quick and easy answers.

Where I am stuck is the alleged financial improprieties, I just can't see anyway around that issue. Charities have to be transparent and accountable for the money we entrust to them.

I want to feel compassion for the man and his family, while not excusing the alleged behavior.

Very well said!

MaraRose
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Marianne Elliott
03:32 PM on 04/22/2011
There are very few quick and easy answers when it comes to development generally, even less when that development is taking place in the context of a complex ongoing conflict.

The lack of financial management is, to me, the most damning of all the allegations and is the one concerning aspect of Mortenson's character that is foreshadowed in 'Three Cups of Tea'.
01:01 AM on 04/22/2011
First time, read something from attorney, human rights advocate and researcher, an unusual trinity. That's why it is making lots of sense. Well written with right information at right time.
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Marianne Elliott
01:35 AM on 04/22/2011
If I added yoga teacher and writer into the mix (both also and equally true) would that be more or less unusual? Thanks for your kind words.
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samtee
Shankapotomus.
10:15 PM on 04/21/2011
How can we donate when Obama is taking all our money?
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Ocheco
12:22 PM on 04/22/2011
Obama paid nearly half a million in taxes. What did YOU pay? Come on now fess up!
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samtee
Shankapotomus.
12:41 PM on 04/22/2011
Why didn't he pay more?
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alahnar
A strange bedfellow indeed
06:35 PM on 04/22/2011
Even though he's lowered taxes for 90% of Americans? (Yes, this is a fact. Look at your paycheck from these last few years and then go back 10 years. We're paying less in taxes.)
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Cecelia Nunn Haack
09:56 PM on 04/21/2011
Well written and thought provoking.
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MamaBird62
09:07 PM on 04/21/2011
He deserves compassion to be sure. No joy in seeing this man fall.
11:03 PM on 04/21/2011
You're right--he started with good intentions and things definitely got away from him (perhaps they eventually had to, given his management style).

After this story broke, I've been feeling like the kid who was just told Santa Claus isn't real.
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Marianne Elliott
01:34 AM on 04/22/2011
No joy in seeing anyone fall, really, is there? There's an interesting tension in this situation between my desire to extend compassion to Mortenson and my sense of the harm he has done to many and the need for that harm to be accounted for and - in whatever way possible - put right. The latter doesn't prevent the former, but it calls for both needs to be recognised at once.
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Richard McRae
11:14 AM on 04/22/2011
There are plenty of times when we should have joy in seeing someone fall. In this case you have a man who is getting rich off of the charity and good-will of others, while outright lying to fans of his books. I'm happy that the truth has come to light and he can be stopped. Maybe the people donating to him can now put their donations to a cause that will actually do some good and help someone.

It's a joy to see an unethical and dishonest organization fall.
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MamaBird62
11:32 AM on 04/22/2011
I agree completely Marianne. Thanks for your thoughtful blog.
07:18 PM on 04/21/2011
Spoil sport! Next you'll tell us that Operation Iraqi Freedom had nothing to do with freedom and Operation Odyssey Dawn is actually carried out at dusk!