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Mark Radcliffe
Mark Radcliffe is a writer and singer/songwriter living in New York City. He has a weakness for bourbon and girls who can drive stick. You can learn more about him here: and here:

Entries by Mark Radcliffe

If You're Not Saying 'I Love You' After Six Months, Move On

(5) Comments | Posted April 14, 2015 | 2:45 PM

I have a simple theory about the world. The reason why more people aren't ending up in wildly enthusiastic relationships is simply due to one thing: they're not getting out of bad relationships soon enough. They stay in something "ok" for months and even years on end, preferring the safety...

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12 Reasons Why Divorced Women Rock

(39) Comments | Posted November 13, 2014 | 11:24 AM

A female friend of mine got divorced recently, and confessed to me how much she dreaded now having the "divorced" label hanging over her head as she re-entered the dating pool, as if it were some modern day version of the Scarlet Letter. That she, too, had failed to make...

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In Defense of Divorce

(6) Comments | Posted November 5, 2014 | 4:34 PM

The other night a friend of mine confessed he was thinking of getting a divorce. After hearing his reasons why and finding them plausible, I bluntly asked him what was holding him back.

"Really?" he quipped. "Because I don't want to ruin my life. Not yet, anyway."


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Becoming a Better Man Through Meditation

(3) Comments | Posted July 24, 2014 | 4:19 PM

Every once in a while in life, you realize you're stuck. You're not evolving. You're caught in a bad pattern. And you know you'd better do something about it quick or your life is going to be on replay for the next 30 years.

A little over a year...

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Your Soulmate Isn't Who You Think It Is

(27) Comments | Posted February 28, 2014 | 7:42 AM

We all have our own romanticized notions of what it will be like when we find true love.

We imagine how it'll go. What it'll feel like. What he or she will look like, sound like, act like. Even kiss like. And every once in a while, we actually...

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When Men Waste Women's Time

(2) Comments | Posted February 14, 2014 | 3:26 PM

There are tons of ways men can screw a woman over, even if unintentionally. We're exceptionally talented at it sometimes.

But one of the least-addressed is when men simply sit too long on the emotional fence, wasting precious years of their partner's time before ultimately heading for the door. And...

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17 Reasons I'm Still in Love With You

(0) Comments | Posted January 23, 2014 | 10:05 AM

Believe me, I don't want to be.

It would be a lot easier if I wasn't.

You've got another life now. I'm long out of it. You had another path to pursue and I even encouraged it.


Your voice. Ugh. It slays me. I still have five of your...

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16 Sätze, die Ihr von Eurem Liebsten hören solltet

(7) Comments | Posted January 21, 2014 | 10:55 AM

Liebe Mädels, denkt ihr manchmal darüber nach, ob der Typ überhaupt eure Zeit wert ist? Der, der euch immer als selbstverständlich ansieht? Ich habe ein paar Dinge aufgelistet, die er euch irgendwann sagen sollte - bestimmt nicht sofort, aber nach ein paar Monaten schon. Ansonsten heißt es: „Der Nächste, bitte!"...

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16 Things Your Boyfriend Should Be Telling You

(75) Comments | Posted December 31, 2013 | 12:13 PM

Dear Ladies Who Are On The Fence About Whether Or Not to Dump The Guy Who's Taking You For Granted: Here's what you should be hearing from the guy who's worthy of your time. Maybe not right away, but within, say, three to six months. Otherwise, hit the "next" button....

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