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Joe Paterno: The Clock Has Run Out

Posted: 11/10/11 11:09 AM ET

Sometimes life comes down to a few key moments. A path taken--or not taken. Sadly for Joe Paterno, a life richly filled with good choices will forever be stained with one, inconceivable decision. For the Trustees of Penn State University, the decision to fire Paterno and school president Graham Spanier was the first step in making the right decision for the school and the victims of this tragedy.

As the wife of a Notre Dame alum and huge football fan, I've always been in awe of school athletic programs like Notre Dame and Penn State that manage to focus on not just athletics, but academics and character development. It's a select group of admirable universities. In the case of Penn State and Joe Paterno, that storied history must sadly be rewritten. Reading the coverage of all that's happened in the child molestation scandal that is unfolding, it is impossible not to be furious and demand, "How could this happen?" These men have an obligation -- a duty -- to protect their students and all children. Where was the one voice of reason to say, "Whatever it costs us on the field, we must take drastic action?" Where was a single man or woman in authority (incidentally, there's been scant mention of women in the school's chain of command) who was willing to put the safety of children ahead of the false gridiron piety and morality for the TV audience watching on Saturdays.

Sadly, Joe Paterno is right -- he should have done more. He most certainly did not do enough. I'm a believer that you must always try and make things right, accept responsibility, and change. Last night, the University Trustees recognized what Paterno and his supporters could not: his actions and those of others around him meant his career had to end immediately. Allowing him to step on the field for one more Saturday would have been a further outrage to the families of the victims who will be dealing with the ramifications of the case long after Penn State's football team has moved on.

As we find ourselves surrounded by the photos of Jerry Sandusky in hand cuffs, JoePa with microphones in his face, and stunned townies and students gathering outside Coach Paterno's home - all we can do now is pray that this ugly storm will hasten the time when no one will ever again remain silent from a horror observed. This story, like so many others, reminds us all we have a responsibility to check our moral compass daily in big and small ways. In the end, no win, trophy or touchdown can possibly replace the loss of what's most fundamental about our own time on life's playing field.

 

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Sometimes life comes down to a few key moments. A path taken--or not taken. Sadly for Joe Paterno, a life richly filled with good choices will forever be stained with one, inconceivable decision. F...
Sometimes life comes down to a few key moments. A path taken--or not taken. Sadly for Joe Paterno, a life richly filled with good choices will forever be stained with one, inconceivable decision. F...
 
 
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09:31 AM on 12/13/2011
The Problem about this so call crime it did not happen. Yes their was a lot of horse play, that is what it was horse play. I feel so sorry for Sandusky and his family an all his friends who have got caught up in this mess. I wish we would go back to the day you are innocent until proven guilty. I do not know Sandusky personally just what I read and hear on TV But usually I right about People. It will be very hard to prove he his not Guilty. I pray that he can.
12:47 AM on 11/14/2011
but I agree with all of your points here
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12:24 AM on 11/14/2011
Not only do I not understand how they could not have done more in terms of reporting (or in the case of McQuery, physically stopping) the molestations, but I also wonder how they could have continued to stomach being around Sandusky themselves?

I'm sorry, but if I had a coworker who I knew was raping children, there is no way I could just go about business with him like nothing happened, my regular pal, it's all good, and etc. That whole gang of them must be a seriously sick bunch.
10:12 PM on 12/11/2011
Exactly!! I really can't imagine anyone just taking a look in a shower to see this horror and then doing nothing more than "reporting" to the other coaches. Same with Paterno's taking the position that he followed protocol by his reporting to one person, so his duty was done. Our college kids are in sad shape if these are the kind of men they see as role models. And I'm really disgusted by those who feel so, so bad for Mrs. Paterno not being able to use the pool!!! Who cares? Kids were being molested while these big salary guys purposely looked the other way. If most of us made the laws, they all would be charged with a crime---not just loss of pool privileges.
10:57 PM on 11/13/2011
Who says this is about one inconceivable decision by Paterno? This may involve multiple inconceivable decisions by Paterno, the local police, PN ST administrators and employees, Second Mile, the local school system, etc. It's way too soon to reduce the culpability of any of these entities to one decision.
10:34 PM on 11/13/2011
I am glad Notre Dame is mentioned but how about the young girl raped by a Notre Dame football player. Nothing is done, the game goes on with the football stud but the girl commits suicide. It is all too much part of the Catholic answer to sexual crimes.
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10:14 PM on 11/13/2011
The only ones NOT to blame are the children involved, ALL of the others carry some guilt (some more then others) but non the less, all are guilty of not doing enough. It does not matter when you learn it, once you learn it , you report it and do not let drop it on the next guy in line and expect him or her to report it. Once Joe knew nothing was being done, he should have gone to the police if they would not do anything, but NO, out of fear of loosing his cushy job he chose to say "I did report it" and then turned his head. He most certainly did not do enough, but neither did the school officials or even the DA!
10:13 PM on 11/13/2011
College Football programs are really about staggering amounts of money.

My guess is that the staggering amounts of money drove the coverup and status quo.

Time for a grand jury with a team of accountants to find out what has really been going down.
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Democracy Is Worth The Effort
10:07 PM on 11/13/2011
Until child molestation is reclassified in the criminal justice system as a capital offense, we will continue to have these perpetrators operating in the shadows, and their co-conspirators feeling more embarrassed by their knowledge of the crime, rather than possibly duplicitous of the crime they shelter.
09:47 PM on 11/13/2011
Paterno is 84. He's from a different generation. He reported it, but honestly, do you think your great-grandfather or grandfather would call the cops after telling the authorities he was supposed to tell? (I am saying this based on Paterno not seeing the event, but having it reported to him. If I am wrong, tell me please.)

Go after Sandusky.
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newhouse1
Democracy Is Worth The Effort
10:14 PM on 11/13/2011
Paterno was only 74, and possibly younger, when he knew his friend had "issues" and the crimes are reported to have first come to light. Paterno put friendship to Sandusky and perhaps loyalty to the school over doing what was right. He was not alone. Institutionally, the president of the school, the athletic director, Paterno, Sandusky, and others all knew. This is textbook conspiracy to conceal knowledge of a crime. Paterno is not alone. But his current age does not excuse his past actions to crime(s) for which the victims received neither justice, nor a public airing of their pain. Not to mention the therapy and mental anguish they have carried around for nearly 10 years.
11:00 PM on 11/13/2011
Letting Paterno off the hook for age is not going to fly. If you don't understand why, that's because you don 't want to. And he wasn't 84 when the incident occured.
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09:17 PM on 11/13/2011
I've always been in awe of school athletic programs like Notre Dame and Penn State that manage to focus on not just athletics, but academics and character development. It's a select group of admirable universities.

This entire scandal just proves these features are just brands for these programs. The people involved are just selling us this garbage so they can make money and boatloads of it.

I have seen countless references to how great a man Paterno was because he gave the university $4 million over a 68 year career. The last 20 or so where he was likely getting paid by Penn State that much in a season or two. Again, it turns out that was just the cost of doing business for Paterno. More legend building than sincere.

His lack of concern for Sandusky's victims is apparent through his actions. paterno is not, nor has not been a good man, he just played one on TV. I am not sad about, I am angry.

Our society today is riddled with this attitude. Heck I work at a non-profit that is riddled with power games and politics where the truth is something to be feared and manipulated carefully. It is endemic in our society today. This is just the most most grotesque mirror on the larger issues we face as a nation.

Send Ohio State President Gordon Gee an email and ask him to cancel the Penn State game at gordon.gee@osu.edu
iridium53
Semper Fi
08:50 PM on 11/13/2011
Excuse me? One decision?

Each day, Paterno got up and decided, once again, to not report his boy buggering buddy.
That's nine years of daily decisions.

Thousands of decisions to protect the PSU football program over protecting innocent boys.

That Catholics, Notre Dame graduates, choose to minimize this depicable behavior is not at all surprising.

But, the reality is that Paterno decided, thousands of times, that protecting his institution and his boy buggering buddy was more important the the legal and correct moral choice.
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09:19 PM on 11/13/2011
Great point.

Not only that, but the power culture of his organization probably intimidated McQweary into silence. A culture carefully cultivated by Paterno over 68 years.
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dee544
e pluribus unum
11:24 PM on 11/13/2011
Sho u right!!!!
08:45 PM on 11/13/2011
Joe Paterno has known about this ever since that grad student reported it to him -- and possibly before then. According to one report I read, Sandusky has been the Penn State campus up through his arrest and was even recruiting for Penn State. So Paterno had no problem letting a known child molester still work for him.

I still think the police gave Paterno and the university one more pass. October 29, was the Saturday that Paterno set a record for the most wins. If they had arrested Sandusky one week earl.ier, he wouldn't have been that record. I wonder if they waited until he got that record and then arrested Sandusky so that Paterno could have one last day of glory before all hell broke loose.

Second, would McQuery gotten a job on the Penn State coaching staff with his experience if he HADN'T seen Sandusky in the shower with that boy? He was a quarterback, but did he have any coaching experience before he joined the Penn State crew - and would that have been normal? I don't know what his background is - it could have been legit, but I can't help but wonder if that was part of a thank-you for his silence.
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09:21 PM on 11/13/2011
I am with the people who think Joe Paterno's record should be erased from the day McQweary reported the abuse until now.

I would probably go further and say the man should be removed from any record book of the NCAA at all. I am not saying this incident should be forgotten, but any of Paternos "accomplishments" should be obliterated from memory.
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dee544
e pluribus unum
11:31 PM on 11/13/2011
Absolutely! He wanted to beat Coach Eddie Robinson's record at Grambling University.
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Edward Watters
If voting changed anything, they'd make it illegal
08:08 PM on 11/13/2011
The media loves to 'pile on', especially when it's a celeb and a hot button issue involved, but a closer look at the facts - omitted and distorted by the media - indicates that Paterno was lynched.

First of all, Sandusky retired from Penn State's football program in 1999, yet media accounts imply that Sandusky was working under Paterno. Sandusky was given free-rein on campus because the Penn State administration decided to give him an honorary office after the DA declined to press charges after the 1998 incident.

When Paterno heard about the incident with victim #2 in the shower with Sandusky, he notified his immediate superior, the school's athletic director and the campus police who had jurisdiction. What more was Paterno expected to do - deputize himself and arrest Sandusky? Run for DA so that he could do what should have been done after the 1998 episode of abuse came to light?

Paterno didn't do anything to shield Sandusky and, tellingly, Paterno has not been charged with any 'failure to notify' statute. This was a failure of law enforcement but our society loves to idolize people at the top - and slice them to pieces when given half a chance.
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08:32 PM on 11/13/2011
Your post reflects your lack of understanding of both the case(s) and Paterno's role.

There was a criminal conspiracy to cover up Sandusky's crimes and Paterno will probably be charged, too.

When a child is RAPED you don't "notify your supervisor". You dial 911.
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08:45 PM on 11/13/2011
Paterno wasn't notified of the locker room sodomy until the next morning. In case you didn't know, the 911 system is for on-going emergencies. Even if he had called, he would have benn told that he needed to contact the authorities, which is exactly what he did.
What specifically do you think Paterno did to 'cover up' Sandusky's actions?
10:01 PM on 11/13/2011
Highly doubtful there is any legal proof of a "criminal conspiracy." Moral lapse, terrible judgement, misguided effort to protect the football program, stupidity, nonsensical desire to not believe it possible....maybe. In reality, an individual who is subject to mandatory reporting of abuse suspicions reports them according to the law- if the law says call 911 that's what you do; PA law does not say that; it says report to supervisors- that was done. Now, the issue of whether that was sufficient or moral is valid as is the question of whether Paterno (and the PSU administration AND board of trustees) enabled continuation of the use heinous acts. What is much more likely is additional firings and civil liability.
08:49 PM on 11/13/2011
He was still recruiting for Penn State - one of his picks for next year just declined.

As for shielding, Sandusky was still operating his charity and openly having these kids with him at Bowl games -- Paterno knew that -- it wasn't like he went underground with his behavior. Twelve years -- and he didn't say anything to Second Mile - and he didn't do a thing to see if Sandusky would seek professional counseling.
09:22 PM on 11/13/2011
Think , True and anyone with half a brain knows these people dont stop with one child,,Paterno knew he was still raping these boys and year after year he kept his mouth shut and let the kids be raped! If this is not a crime it should be!
07:36 PM on 11/13/2011
Ignoring the football becuase this is not about football I think this is a shame that this man will forever be remembered for one mistake in a lifetime of doing good.

This man helped shape hundreds of young men for what 40 years as a head coach. This man provided an identity to a community that had none.

While Joe had a lapse of judgement here, it should not define him. Its a shame. I hope as this passes he will be honored as the man he was and not the single poor decision he made.
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08:31 PM on 11/13/2011
One mistake? That mistake was repeated every day, day after day, year after year, that he did not call the police. That's not one mastake--that's a lifestyle choice from a guy that preached the opposite.
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MsLizabeth
Flaming liberal, burned out attorney
08:50 PM on 11/13/2011
I've never been to the campus, but I bet there is plenty of non-Paterno identity there.
10:03 PM on 11/13/2011
And 50,000 students plus faculty, researchers, staff, employees all working hard to get an education, do research, contribute to society and all not involved in any of this!
NeapTide
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07:32 PM on 11/13/2011
Joe Paterno had all the prestige and authority a person could get. He could have used it to do the right thing, but did not. If he had acted on the side of right, protecting a child (or many), the intitution would have been better, actually living up to the ideals they purport of have. How many others, in similar positions in the sports pantheon in our country, put the system first when periodic moral challenges to decide right and wrong come along??
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Edward Watters
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09:17 PM on 11/13/2011
Things are never as simple as the media portrays them: all Paterno had was second hand knowledge of the crime. That Sandusky was a pederast, was common knowledge from the 1998 incident. The whole campus knew about that, including the administrators that gave Sandusky an office on campus and free rein on the campus AFTER the 1998 allegations. Ironically, the administrators were the ones who fired Paterno because he didn't 'do more'.

The administration could easily have 'done more'. Everyone's saying that Paterno should have 'done more', but notice that none of the arm-chair editorialists are saying exactly what he should have done. The only options open to Paterno were have himself deputized, ran for DA, turn vigilante or start a public campaign against Sandusky, thereby opening himself up to legal recourse by Sandusky.

This was a failure of law enforcement and the Penn State administration set against the backdrop of a country that can't even discuss consensual sex between adults openly. Paterno, as the public face of Penn State, took the fall.
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lcr999
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09:56 PM on 11/13/2011
I am quite sure Joe had absolute say over who had access to PSU football facilities, who was part of the official bowl entourage, etc , etc. And yet he continued to allow it even though "it was common knowledge".
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dee544
e pluribus unum
11:41 PM on 11/13/2011
The reason people are focusing on Paterno is because there are so many folks trying to say that he needs to be excused from his culpability. Both the Administration and the Athletic department needs to be cleaned out. Anybody who knew, needs to go including Joe. And they need to face the justice system in what ever way it is appropriate and legal..