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Tim Tebow: Keeping the Faith

Posted: 12/12/2011 1:50 pm

Is Tim Tebow a great quarterback? I have no idea, but it sure looks like it.

There is a lot of controversy over Tebow's faith and whether a divine intervention is helping him win football games. But what I think is really happening is that, like every great leader, he has instilled in each teammate a faith in himself.

After watching my husband Phil shake his head when his beloved Chicago Bears became the latest victims of Tebow and the Broncos, what I do know is that Tim Tebow is one of those rare individuals who make everyone around him better, and who inspires his teammates and fans to dream big. Whether or not he ever wins another game, this is something to celebrate.

The last time I wrote about sports, it was with sadness about the misdeeds of Joe Paterno and the culture of football at any cost at Penn State, which led to the awful sex abuse scandal that is still playing out. Every day we read about the sports world's contract fights, the big salaries, the fistfights, suspensions and steroid abuse.

Well, for these last few Sundays, we have had something refreshing and uplifting. We have seen grit, determination, joy and the simple belief, that no matter what the score -- no matter how little time is left on the clock -- there is still hope if you dream big and believe in yourself.
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As a country, we are facing some pretty tough times. The Tim Tebow story has captured our attention because it helps us remember that, like that favorite teacher told us when we were kids, we all have the power to reach our dreams and make the people around us better.

I can't say I am a big football fan, and I can certainly tell you that I have never rooted for the Denver Broncos. But you can bet that, like a lot of other people, I will be watching to see how this turns out!

At the final whistle, the score doesn't really matter. Tim Tebow and the Broncos are already winners.

 

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12:59 PM on 12/19/2011
Thank you, Marlo, for a breath of fresh air from the Left!
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desertdweller
I didn't know him but he knew me.
08:46 PM on 12/13/2011
Until an atheist or an agnostic athlete can speak his or her mind without fear of retribution, I could do with a little less Tebow.
12:45 PM on 12/19/2011
Tebow fans and those with Christian faith could use a little less of empty people like you. Next time you find yourself in real trouble or have a catastrophe befall you, I'll bet the first words out of your mouth will be, "Oh, God" not "What would RFK do," as referenced in your screen name.
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Turtleposer
I have micro-bios in my tummy.
10:11 PM on 12/19/2011
Yeah, but even if an atheist said "Oh, God" an expression drilled into us over and over again, it wouldn't mean anything.

By the way, is "God" the name of your "God?"
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desertdweller
I didn't know him but he knew me.
12:37 PM on 12/20/2011
If jesus healed the lame, he must have passed you by.
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Anne B. Kelly
Founder, femalepersuasion.net
02:28 PM on 12/13/2011
I'm a little surprised to see this point of view coming from such a strong advocate for women's reproductive freedom and gay rights. The phrase the "personal is the political" comes to mind. No one is condemning Tebow's ability to play or rally on the field. As a female football fan, I believe what is most disturbing is his mixing proselytizing with the sport. Winning games = winning culture wars, according to him. You mentioned writing about the sadness surrounding the Penn St. scandal. What about the sadness surrounding hate crimes and bullying towards the LGBT community, and the chipping away at women's rights? As long as it's ok to be winning football games then it's ok to condemn equal rights? To spread hatred? To recruit anti-choice evangelicals? To decided what is best for a woman's body and to allow Focus on the Family's anti-choice ads to play during the games? This is not refreshing or uplifting but rather very narrow and unfortunate in an athletic organization that has been very unbiased and neutral regarding politics in the past. Keep in mind while you cheer on, Tebow is not a believer in the "Free to be You and Me" dogma.
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Jean Bastien
Fear is the game of the Powerslave
02:12 PM on 12/15/2011
That is just unfair. Tim Tebow is hardly the first person to "mix proselytiz­ing with the sport." He is a victim of a unrelenting media and people like you projecting all of these ideas onto him. He does not seek out the attention. For the most part, he just quietly goes about his business. Please look elsewhere when trying to find a scapegoat for all the world's problems.
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02:03 PM on 12/17/2011
Starring in an anti-choice ad to be aired during the Super Bowl in my eyes qualifies as 'seeking out attention'.
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Anne B. Kelly
Founder, femalepersuasion.net
09:34 PM on 12/17/2011
I do not consider paying for an ad during the Superbowl "quietly going about his business," and "not seeking out the attention." Focus on the Family is relentless in pushing their agenda. And I hardly consider him a scapegoat for all the world's problems, I wouldn't give him that much credit.
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Dots
The shadow of God is beauty.
12:27 PM on 12/13/2011
I can't help but notice that there is very little difference between a huge football stadium full of fans and the huge churches, like crystal cathedral, full of a different kind of worshiper.
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iskra
Natural enemy of sharks and tro//s
12:24 PM on 12/13/2011
I'd prefer that a role model for my kids focus on hard work and perseverance instead of proselytizing on behalf of imaginary sky gods. 

I prefer they understand that being great at something isn't magic, it's work.
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Jean Bastien
Fear is the game of the Powerslave
05:29 PM on 12/18/2011
Don't get it twisted...there is alot of hard work going on in Tebow's regimen. He is not one of those guys that relies on talent alone. Of course he has to work hard...he has alot to learn!
Of course it doesn't help when people walk all over one's belief system with your "smarter than thou" attitude.
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iskra
Natural enemy of sharks and tro//s
09:11 AM on 12/19/2011
Then he should highlight his hard work instead of his faith no?
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Turtleposer
I have micro-bios in my tummy.
10:12 PM on 12/19/2011
Hey, we're just trying to give credit where credit is due - Tim Tebow, not Jesus.
12:54 PM on 12/19/2011
You're perfectly free to pick the role model for your children. Others should be free to have their choice as well.
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terramartom
People for the people. Revolution.
10:37 AM on 12/13/2011
Religion has completely ruined politics in America, and when we see religion in Sports the only outcome will be negative!
06:12 PM on 12/15/2011
why not just round up everyone who believes in Jesus and put them in special communities where "work makes free"? or better yet, hope that they will all be taken away from the planet in a global "rapture". i'm being sarcastic of course.

misapplied religion or misplaced zeal does muddy up the waters. i agree. but just wait until islam becomes a part of the political landscape. you haven't seen fanaticism yet. and it's coming.

Tebow isn't a saint. He's just a guy trying to do a good job and who also has a strong faith. I applaud Marlo Thomas for not being bigoted, biased and unfair.
06:53 PM on 01/11/2012
Tim Tebow's religion is Christianity and a firm and faithful belief in THE ONE and ONLY GOD of the universe and what is completely ruining America is the attempt of clueless people like you to remove God from everything, when in reality He is in everything for without Him, there would be no America or no 'YOU'!!!!!
03:18 PM on 01/17/2012
AMEN GRANDMA
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terramartom
People for the people. Revolution.
10:31 AM on 12/13/2011
Perpetuating religion, and a fictional God is perpetuating Human ignorance for generations to come with war, greed, intolerance, environmental degradation.
How nice.
09:44 PM on 12/13/2011
You know im agnostic and all I can say to you like all other atheists is, " how the hell do you know god is fictional?" I feel the same with people who are absolute believers and think im crazy to not have faith, but the reality is none of us know the truth. You are not so enlightened to understand or possibly fathom the answers to the universes' most impossible questions. At least he seems to be a positive influence in his attitude, and in this day and age and with everything we see on a daily basis maybe a little optimism wouldnt hurt us.
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Jean Bastien
Fear is the game of the Powerslave
02:17 PM on 12/15/2011
By provoking people with your smarter than thou attitude, you are worse than any bible-pusher knocking on doors at 7am on Sundays...Atheists who shove what they believe down people's throats are just as bad as any religious fanatics. Learn up or shut up.
10:08 AM on 12/13/2011
Sure, seeing the underdog rally his underdog team to last second victories is a staple of movie sports stories and we love it. But how things will ultimately play out remains to be seen. Will the public attitude change toward Tebow and the Broncos if they're trounced in their remaining games?
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FTracy3
My micro-bio is as empty as the rest of my life.
10:05 AM on 12/13/2011
I don't understand the Tebow hatred, it's all out of proportion to anything he has ever done. He believes what he believes and isn't afraid to say it but he's very polite and not in your face about it (unless you're so threatened that even having him comment when asked or taking a quiet prayer is "in your face"). I'm not especially religious, but would someone explain why Desmond Tutu, Jimmy Carter, Barack Obama, Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, and other liberal Christians get a pass (not to mention any other player dancing in the end zone jumping up and down thanking God and pointing to the sky), while Tim Tebow (who as near as I can tell is fairly apolitical, at least in public) inspires such contempt?
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skylover
I want my country forward!
10:54 AM on 12/13/2011
He's an activist, trying to influence legislation. That sure is "in your face".
01:58 PM on 12/13/2011
He's an activist because he made a benign Pro-Life commercial? And how exactly is influencing legislation?
02:02 PM on 12/13/2011
He's an activist because he was in a benign pro-life commercial? And how exactly has he been influencing legislation?

FTracy is correct, the hatred towards Tebow seems to be of the knee-jerk variety, built on an instant suspicion of anyone who expresses Christian/conservative beliefs. Personally, I'm a non-believing Libertarian, but I have no beef with Tebow because he doesn't judge people based on the fact that they may disagree with him.
12:31 PM on 12/13/2011
This is the thing that drives me crazy: "The Tebow hatred?" 99 out of 100 things said about him are glowing in praise, yet his most ardent supporters always point to a supposed bias against him. What is driving some pigskin followers nuts is that A) Kyle Orton was scapegoated and treated very unfairly by the Tebow fan base, and B) Tebow is really not deserving of the on-field credit that he is getting. Tebow deserves credit for managing a game and not turning the ball over; he does not deserve credit for beating a winless Miami team because the Dolphins failed to cover an onsides kick in a game where Tebow was truly awful - a game in which the Broncos won despite their QB play, not because of it. Orton won the job in camp, Brady Quinn won the backup job, but fans chanted Tebow from minute one. When Orton finally played bad enough to get yanked, they went to the #3 QB to appease the chanters... then, the schedule gets much easier, the defense gets healthy and starts playing great and they get some incredible breaks in a few games. A-Ha, we were right all along, not the football professionals.
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terramartom
People for the people. Revolution.
10:05 AM on 12/13/2011
People are being massed murdered on the planet, and yet God has time to watch Tebow play football?
Really?
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Jean Bastien
Fear is the game of the Powerslave
02:23 PM on 12/15/2011
You serious right now? You seriously asking that?
Really???
09:56 AM on 12/13/2011
It just seems so blasphemous for a Christian to invoke Jesus Christ's name for something as insignificant as a Proffesional Football game. Talent, and the fact that Tebow beat my beloved Bears, aside ~ just the thought that all of the human suffering going on is ignored on a Sunday afternoon by the "savior of humanity" so that an entitled proffesional athlete can come away victorious in a sport that is violent at its core and based on territoriality and war ~ it's cringe inducing. Plus, you might want to investigate Mr. Tebow's rigidly held views about women and other religions before holding him up as some sort of role model.
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skylover
I want my country forward!
10:54 AM on 12/13/2011
Very well said.

Fanned and faved.
02:07 PM on 12/13/2011
Do tell, what are Mr. Tebow's "rigidly held views of women"? You can't just be referring to his more than innocent pro-life commercial at last year's Super Bowl as your only evidence, because that would be lame.

Is it that cut & dry that if you are pro-life you are in turn anti-women? That seems to be a pretty, er, rigid stance to have.
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BornOKtheFirstTime
pedicabo ego vos et irrumabo
05:04 PM on 12/13/2011
He made a commercial for FRC, a certified hate organization with a rabidly anti-woman anti-gay agenda.
09:54 AM on 12/13/2011
Tim Tebow does not win because he has faith in his god and I don't think that is the point of the piece. Tim Tebow wins because he believes in his ability to make it happen. He probably believes that it all, his drive and his ability, are gifts from his God. He is and should be free to have that faith. I am an agnostic who is not insulted that he does. I am a long time football fan who thought from the start that this guy just wins and deserves a chance to see if his "intangibles" translated into the NFL. As some, rightly, point out, he hasn't proven he can win "the big game". But...he is proving week after week that he can win the small games that you have to win to even get to a "big game" and that is more than the majority ever thought him capable of.
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terramartom
People for the people. Revolution.
09:53 AM on 12/13/2011
Religion is a fraud. It is all make believe in the same way you could believe that there were Monsters under your bed. That is until you learned that was never anything under your bed ever!
Religion is more about fear.
For those like Tebow to claim that his God looks down on him with favors in a football game, more than the next religious believer is why religion is a joke to the knowing..
Today millions on Planet Earth starve, Females are raped, tortured and killed, there are wars for profit, greed, Environmental degradation, yet God has time to watch Tebow play football?
You people who believe in religion will always believe in the Monsters under your bed!
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Jean Bastien
Fear is the game of the Powerslave
02:32 PM on 12/15/2011
You probably don't like people shoving religion down your throat...But I am telling you that you are just as bad as any bible-pusher knocking on doors at 7 am spreading "the word". I don't step on anyone else's beliefs by making the claims you do. Your smarter-than-thou attitude makes you just as bad or worse than the so-called fraudulence you go after. Atheists are just as bad when they shove their beliefs down people's throats. Ironic? Hardly, actually.
01:31 PM on 12/19/2011
Yes,religions can be fraud. Being spritual and religious are two different concepts. I don't believe in monsters under my bed but I do believe there is an evil force in this world that drives people to do unspeakable things to others. There is a healthy fear of God that helps bring knowledge of who HE is. Just like your parents correcting you. You had some fear knowing if you did something wrong there were consequences but yet you loved them. That is your choice to say it is all make believe but must you be so harsh to those who believe ?
09:51 AM on 12/13/2011
Wasn't it Jesus that once asked who the more faithful was, the man quietly praying in his room or the one yelling it on the street?

Tim Tebow gets a lot of coverage of his beliefs for his public praying. Troy Palamalu prays just as much as Tebow and is at least equally strong in his beliefs but very little attention is given to Polamalu. Why? Is it that Polamalu is quieter about his praying? Troy Palamalu is a pro bowl, Super Bowl winning safety. The argument could be made that he is a better football player than Tebow. Where does that place each player along the strength of faith correlating to football ability continuum?

If we are going to continue covering professional athletes praying, why don't we see the photos or video of every NFL team praying together at the 50 yard line after every game?

As someone else put it, If God does exist he wouldn't care less about which athletes or teams win or play better.
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Stupid is as stupid does
02:34 PM on 12/13/2011
I agree with what you said except for " Is it that Polamalu is quieter about his praying? Troy Palamalu is a pro bowl, Super Bowl winning safety. The argument could be made that he is a better football player than Tebow." The word "could" should be replace with "should" or "need not even be" as it is not even close. Tebow is striving to be a mediocre NFL QB, while Troy has been one of a top two or three safety for about 6 or 7 years.
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Jean Bastien
Fear is the game of the Powerslave
02:37 PM on 12/15/2011
And how quiet is Ray Lewis about his faith during games and especially after games with the reporters on tv? Ray is one of, if not the most outspoken on God and belief, yet all the Tebow haters are afraid to go after him...Why is that???
And you're right...I've seen teams praying together...both teams hand in hand , praying after games , so why does Tebow garner such hate all of a sudden?
06:55 PM on 12/15/2011
I would assume that Ray Lewis doesn't get as much attention for his beliefs because he has had his run-ins with the law. If and or when Tebow does something stupid and ends up in hot legal water the whole praying thing will be washed over. Roethlisberger was another one who often prayed in public and pointed to the sky after a touchdown. He has toned that down since his run-ins with the law (and collisions with cars).
09:50 AM on 12/13/2011
Turning athletes into role models is ridiculous and as much as I enjoy watching him play I never lose sight of the fact that he is just an entertainer and nothing more. I couldn't care less about his born again nonsense and I certainly don't think he is teaching anything.
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terramartom
People for the people. Revolution.
09:59 AM on 12/13/2011
He is teaching the ignorance of religion vs. the progressive reality of Science, knowledge, facts, reason.
redonthehead
Winning trophies for my game face alone
10:03 AM on 12/13/2011
Athletes can't be role models? Google Rocky Bleier.