Mary L. Pulido, Ph.D.
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Mary L. Pulido, Ph.D., currently serves as the Executive Director of The New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, the first child protective agency in the world. She has held senior management positions at the Child Protection Center of Montefiore Medical Center, a certified Child Advocacy Center; The Children’s Village, a long-term residential treatment facility for abused children; and at Covenant House/Under 21, a crisis shelter for children.

In addition to her role as the Executive Director of The NYSPCC, Dr. Pulido serves as a private consultant, lecturing and training nationally on the prevention and management of Secondary Traumatic Stress (STS). Following the terrorist attacks of 9/11, she provided consultation and training to the Mental Health Association of New Jersey on successful strategies for managing and preventing STS, and conducted two series of statewide trainings, one focused on front-line responders, the second focused on managers and agency executives, providing the tools they needed to reduce STS levels among their clinical and casework teams. Following the devastation of Hurricanes Katrina and Rita, Dr. Pulido served as a consultant for the Texas State Department of Health to provide training to hundreds of first responders and the management teams of the Katrina Crisis Counseling Program on both STS and grief and loss issues of the evacuees. She regularly provides consultation on these issues to CPS staff, hospital providers and foster care agencies.

Dr. Pulido also provides consultation for trauma recovery program planning and development. Her research interests include trauma due to violence and terrorism, the detection and prevention of domestic violence, child abuse and neglect prevention, and the management of secondary traumatic stress in the mental health field. She has also developed a protocol, entitled Restoring Resiliency Response (RRR) for crisis debriefing following child fatality, that is currently utilized throughout NYC for child protective services staff.

Dr. Pulido is a member of the Medical Reserve Corps. of the NYC Department of Health and Mental Hygiene, the NYC Family Court Advisory Council and the Advisory Council to the Commissioner of the NYC Administration for Children’s Services. In 2006, Mayor Michael Bloomberg appointed Dr. Pulido to the New York City Child Fatality Review Team (CFRT). The CFRT has responsibility for examining all deaths of children up to age 12 whose deaths are categorized as unanticipated, the result of trauma, or the circumstances of which are suspicious, obscure, or otherwise unexplained.

Dr. Pulido holds a Ph.D. in Social Welfare from the City University of New York and Masters Degrees in Social Work and in Teaching. Dr. Pulido enjoys teaching and is an Assistant Professor at the Hunter College School of Social Work. She has published in the areas of detection and prevention of domestic violence and child abuse and neglect, providing supervised visitation services, and preventing secondary traumatic stress.

Blog Entries by Mary L. Pulido, Ph.D.

Summer Camp Safety: Essential Questions Parents Should Ask

(2) Comments | Posted May 23, 2012 | 4:42 PM

Kids love summer camp: Day camp, overnight camp, camps for swimming, sailing, hiking, biking, tennis, theatre, outdoor cooking, bird watching and more. Summer camp brings a boost of independence for children. As a child protection expert, it also brings to mind thoughts of safety procedures, medical protocols and emergency aid...

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My Child is the Bully: Tips for Parents

(2) Comments | Posted April 19, 2012 | 11:05 AM

Having just seen the powerful documentary "Bully" that depicts the horrific tragedies that befall innocent children by bullies teasing, humiliating and assaulting them, I felt compelled to ask "What about the parents of the bullies?" How do they get support? What can they do to recognize and stop the harmful...

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Protecting your child after a disclosure of sexual abuse: What parents need to know. By Mary L. Pulido, Ph.D.

(1) Comments | Posted March 20, 2012 | 10:50 AM

Since the Penn State scandal, questions about protecting children from sexual abuse seem to be on parents' minds all the time. I am thankful for the media's spotlight on these issues. I tell my friends and family to use these stories as "teachable moments." Sit your kids down and talk...

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Is My Child Being Bullied? Action Steps for Parents

(4) Comments | Posted January 12, 2012 | 3:24 PM

Most adults can recall a time when they, or someone they know, were bullied. It usually was a humiliating experience that they preferred to forget. The "school yard bully" was avoided at all costs; rarely did adults get involved. Well, the times have changed. My career has been devoted to...

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Infant Sleep Safety -- What Parents Need to Know

(2) Comments | Posted October 28, 2011 | 12:14 PM

Infant sleep safety recommendations have certainly changed since I was a parent of a newborn! Bumpers -- out, stuffed animals -- out, fluffy blankets -- out! I'm referring to "out of the crib." These items, once regularly placed in a crib, should not be near a newborn. As a member...

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Protecting Kids First! A Safe Halloween -- Five Tips That Parents Should Know

(0) Comments | Posted October 4, 2011 | 6:38 PM

It's that time of year again. Pumpkins, apple cider, autumn leaves -- and -- trick or treating! Halloween should be a fun-filled day and night for children. Parents should take precautions to make sure that their little goblins and princesses have a fantastic time. It's one of my favorite nights...

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9/11 Anniversary Reactions -- What Should I Expect?

(1) Comments | Posted September 9, 2011 | 2:32 PM

A few days ago, in late August, I was in Mexico on vacation, calm and happy. I was in an elevator, the doors opened and a man walked in with a cut-off t-shirt. He turned around, and on his arm was a detailed tattoo of the World Trade Center with...

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Talking to Your Child About 9/11: What Do You Need to Know?

(3) Comments | Posted August 17, 2011 | 5:12 PM

As the tenth anniversary approaches, parents may worry about how to have a conversation with their child about this sad event. I recommend that you frame it in such a way that you're not producing unnecessary anxiety for your child, but providing them with enough detail to satisfy their curiosity...

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Home Alone: Is Your Child Ready?

(0) Comments | Posted July 14, 2011 | 11:42 AM

You hear stories in the news, a child home alone died in a fire -- or -- two children, ages, 6 and 8 were placed in protective custody after a neighbor reported them home alone. It can be tempting, particularly if a family has financial stressors, to rationalize that children...

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How to Talk to Your Child About Sexual Abuse

(6) Comments | Posted April 29, 2011 | 2:00 PM

If you are like most parents, you're likely to think that sexual abuse can never happen to your child. It's someone else's nightmare that you occasionally hear about on the news. When you do hear these horror stories, you're just thankful that your own child is safe. However, parents should...

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Child Abuse: See Something? Hear Something? Please, Say Something!

(29) Comments | Posted April 7, 2011 | 11:51 AM

See something? Hear something? Please, say something! No, this is not a terrorist alert warning about a strange package on a subway platform; it's for another type of terrorism: physical and sexual abuse of children. For the past 25 years, I have dedicated my career to trying to make New...

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