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Stiletto Stoners -- Making the Safer Choice

Posted: 10/02/09 11:30 AM ET

Yesterday, on the Today show, Matt Lauer interviewed the editor of Marie Claire magazine and another woman about the use of marijuana among female professionals. This interview was inspired by an article on the same subject in the current issue of Marie Claire entitled, "Stiletto Stoners."

Neither the interview nor the story contained any serious "reefer madness" claims, as mainstream articles about marijuana use usually do. Rather, these were straightforward conversations about women who simply use marijuana at the end of the day to unwind and relax, either by themselves or with their friends or families.

Interestingly, there was a common theme running through all of the interviews in the article and on the Today show: these women not only enjoy using marijuana, but they consistently described it as a preferred alternative to alcohol. In a sense, they were saying, "Society accepts that people are going to have a drink -- or many drinks -- after work to unwind. I don't want to do what society suggests I do. I find marijuana to be a more enjoyable and less detrimental alternative, and that it is why I use it instead."

It is hard to overstate the importance of this burgeoning "Stiletto Stoner" movement. Of course, for decades there have been hard-working professionals who would hit a joint or a bong after work or on the weekend. Perhaps you knew people like this yourself, but considered them to be more of an exception to the rule. Or you thought they were hiding some "dirty little secret." Maybe you had your own dirty little secret.

The zeitgeist-shifting aspect of this media coverage is not simply that these women are "coming out of the closet" -- although that is great on its own; it is that they are uniformly asserting their desire to use marijuana instead of alcohol because of its relative benefits. One woman noted that she feels better the next morning when she uses marijuana instead of alcohol; another mentioned that marijuana is cheaper than alcohol.

You see, if we are going to change marijuana laws in this country, we need the public to see marijuana for what it is: a relatively benign intoxicant that millions of Americans use instead of alcohol for recreation and relaxation.

As things stand, despite the fact that marijuana is objectively less harmful than alcohol, we steer people toward alcohol instead. We do it through our laws, as well as through employment policies and professional licensing standards. The disincentives to using marijuana openly, in a manner similar to alcohol, are evident in the Marie Claire article itself. The women in that piece may have come out of the closet, but they did so using fake names. And the "stiletto stoner" interviewed on the Today show did so in the dark to conceal her identity.

It is time for people to stand up and defend the right of all Americans to use marijuana instead of alcohol, if that is what they prefer. That is the underlying motivation behind Marijuana is Safer: So Why Are We Driving People to Drink?, a book I co-authored with Steve Fox of the Marijuana Policy Project and Paul Armentano of NORML. The book not only includes background information about marijuana and alcohol, but also includes talking points useful in convincing friends and family members that people should not be punished for making the safer choice.

Whether you are a stiletto stoner, briefcase bong-hitter, or sympathetic abstainer, it is time to bring this entire conversation out of the shadows. Thanks to Marie Claire and the Today show for getting this ball rolling. Now, let's keep the momentum going.

Mason Tvert is the executive director of Safer Alternative for Enjoyable Recreation (SAFER) and the co-author of Marijuana is Safer: So why are we driving people to drink? (Chelsea Green, August 2009).

 
 
 

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06:04 PM on 10/08/2009
Throughout college, when going to the bar was a pretty regular occasion, I noticed a huge difference the next morning in the way my brain adsorbed information & processed it. The weed only movie nights left me much more refreshed and able to function properly than did the YeeHaw bar nights. After a night at El Rancho, I'd have to read (or type) each paragraph 3 or 4 times to understand it. I did enough research to figure out it was best to just not drink the night before having to write something quickly or proofread & rewrite. Have you ever heard anyone say at work, " Man you look like Hell. Did you burn a bunch of weed last night, or what?"
The image of the useless stoner is overplayed n the media, because the truth is many of your coworkers who kick ass do so because they think outside the box. Some of these folks find Mj to be a perfect way to wind down after a good day, because it's be a perfect compliment to their storming brain. Their OTB doesn't revolve around artistic creativity, as the stereotype goes, but creativity it is. Ever wonder about that person who came up with that algorithm that highlighted a new tend in the data, the one that made the company lots of money? Maybe they do, maybe they don't; who cares, because he or she is brilliant. You get the idea.
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12:56 PM on 10/02/2009
Part II....(again..I still believe marijuna needs to be legalized...heck..we need the revenue! as a nation..cheaper than prison...)...but I recently read a study..that indicated a higher rate of testicular cancer in young men who were regular uses of pot...yes..chronic users...let's remember..it CAN be addictive..just like alcohol. Well..the guy mentioned in PART One...DID get testicular cancer...and it spread to his lymph nodes...nasty nasty chemo...thank God he's "cancer free" today...but...is definitely addicted...tokes before going to work...tokes at work (an industrical electricial for god's sake)...and tokes a LOT after work.... So...once it's legal...if....how do you propose letting the naive know..yes..like anything..there ARE associated risks? Thanks (p.s. I had cancer...got some medical marijuana..but in pill form..as I lost a LOT of weight...well.unlike my mild pot of 1973...it didn't make me hungry at all..yes..it was a very pleasant "buzz"...but that's it...(oh..still have a pot muffin in my freezer...just in case :-)...
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12:50 PM on 10/02/2009
I do think Marijuana should be legalized and, yes, regulated (sorry teenagers!)..."but"...while one does NOT ever inhale 20 "reefers" a day...you are still putting stuff in your lungs...and..I wouldn't want a pregnant woman to smoke pot..anymore than she should have a martini. I MISS the pot (I'm a boomer) of MY day...my stage was around 1971-1973...it DID make you laugh (and yes...grab the closest bag of muchie stuff...but a mango would due just fine)...Today's pot is so STRONG!..last time I smoke (at least 5 years ago)...my gawd....I've never done heroin...but didn't like the overpowering feeling one bit (this will be two parts...because I want the author to address another concern of mine)..it's been so "bred" to be strong..yes..one hit will do it..and then some.. my concern is that it IS addictive for some and can be abused (maybe not by stilletto ladies)..but I've a couple friends who HAVE TO HAVE a hit several times a day...one even shipped his in a materials box (for a job in Puerto Rico)..because he could not fathom 2 weeks without pot...now...THAT's a problem..what if a DOG sniffed it out for god's sakes... on to part II
11:47 AM on 10/02/2009
Beats "soccer mom"!
11:22 AM on 10/02/2009
Rich White women smoking weed are given sexy names like Stiletto Stoners. Let it be a minority and they'd be looked down upon.
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01:10 AM on 10/09/2009
Seriously? Give it a rest. Minorities wear stiletto's!
11:17 AM on 10/02/2009
We have fought the un-winnable war on some drugs for too long and only rhetoric and outright lies about cannabis have been used to demonize a benign substance with known medical benefits. For too long special interests have been allowed to dominate the discussion, forbidding real science and facts to steer the debate towards legalization, control and a fair tax.
The US, which makes up 4.53% of the world's population is home to over 25% of the world's prison population, an increase widely spurred by the largely privatized Prison-Industrial-Komplex. These corporate owned prisons benefit from incarceration rates that have become astronomical and are funded by tax payers dollars, which could be better spent elsewhere.
According to a Zogby poll released in May of 09 shows that 52% of Americans support legalization of cannabis for adults and this number would undoubtably be higher were the public informed about the facts, rather than the propaganda and fear mongering practiced by mass media. (And please, can we call the mass media, rather than Main Stream as they don't represent main stream, in this and so many other subjects they cover.)
As far as addictiveness of cannabis is concerned, check this link:
http://www.procon.org/viewbackgroundresource.asp?resourceID=1492