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Why Jesus Loves LGBT People and Gay Marriage Doesn't Exist

Posted: 07/31/2012 12:00 pm

I'm in London right now during the worldwide celebration of the Olympics. I am out of my comfort zone and surrounded by every race, creed, gender, religion and possible amalgamation of human being possible.

All the while, my Facebook is BLOWING up with Chick-fil-A beliefs left and right. I usually stay away from most debates of a political nature, but gay marriage is one I must stand up for. Why? Because it's not a political issue, it's a civil rights issue. And not only that, but because I love Jesus, and the way that many Christians are responding to the idea that gay people should be able to marry makes me cringe.

There are all kinds of places in the Bible that can be quoted to support "traditional marriage," New and Old Testament. There are also places in the Bible that can be quoted to support stoning your son to death if he is rebellious (Deuteronomy 21: 18-2). There are also places in the Bible that say that male and female have no boundary within the body of Christ (Galatians 3:28).

But as far as I can tell, there is nothing in the Red Letters of The Bible where Jesus preaches against homosexuality. It's just not there. If it is, please show me so that I can stand corrected.

What I DO know is this... Jesus DID give his TOP TWO Commandments, in fact, Jesus says that "All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments" (Matthew 22:40).

So, what are these top two Commandments? As a Christian, a lover or follower of Jesus, wouldn't you want to know what these top two commandments? ESPECIALLY if "ALL THE LAW and the Prophets" hang on them?

Now, by Law and Prophets, I can only accept that Jesus meant for us to forget EVERYTHING else that we've heard, no matter who said it or what the Law says. This MUST include everything in the Old Testament and everything that every other prophet or disciple wrote BEFORE or AFTER Christ's death. These are his TOP TWO irrevocable commandments that PRECEED and HOLD DOMINION over ALL OTHER LAWS and PROPHETS!

So... what are they?

Simple... Read in Matthew 22:36-40. Here goes:

36 "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" 37 Jesus replied: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.'[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'[b] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."

Now, Jesus didn't stutter. He did not say, "Love your straight neighbor as yourself," or "Love your gay neighbor as yourself," or your "white neighbor," "black neighbor," "Christian neighbor," "atheist neighbor," etc. He said it PLAIN, SIMPLE and without stuttering: "Love your neighbor as yourself."

If you are a Christian or a lover of Jesus like I am, then it BEGINS and ENDS here. Why? Because Jesus said in His own words that these are the TOP TWO commandments that EVERYTHING else lay upon.

This is not out of context. This is not to be subverted because Paul said something, or another Prophet said something else in the Old Testament. Jesus was VERY clear that these two commandments TRUMP everything and everyone else and what they said.

So, if that is the case my Christian friends, let me ask you a question: If you are a straight Christian, do you want the right to marry? Yes, or no? Do you think as a straight person you have that right? Would you want that right? How would it feel to not be able to marry the person that you love? If someone said that they supported you not being able to marry the person that you Love, how would that make you feel?

Jesus calls us to have empathy, compassion and an open heart for all human beings. Not just people who follow Him. Not just Christians. Not just believers. Not just straight people. BUT EVERYONE. And this includes gay people. They are your neighbors, too. So if we are to follow what Jesus is asking of us, we MUST demand that gay people have the right to marry. Why? Because to NOT do so would not be loving them as we love ourselves. And that would make us hypocrites pretending to love Jesus.

Christians and lovers of Jesus should be the first people to allow people who love each other to get married, regardless of their sexual orientation. Jesus was all about Love, not rules and regulations. But LOVE.

It's that simple. Based on these top two commandments, I believe that Jesus would support gay people getting married.

On top of that, the idea of gay marriage is absurd. We live in a time where we are being asked to open our hearts, expand our minds and step into a larger world view. Marriage isn't gay or straight, any more than voting is male, female, white, black or yellow. There's just the right to vote. The right for every HUMAN BEING to vote. And the same goes for two consenting adults who want to get married.

Calling it "gay marriage" is akin to "separate but equal." It's still not fully recognizing the closed mindedness of such a label.

If we love Jesus, if we call ourselves a Christian, then we must follow these top two commandments above all else and rise to the occasion so that every consenting adult has the right to Love and be Loved as they please.

It's that simple.

 

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gloriaswanson43
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07:42 AM on 08/15/2012
Very well said.
11:00 PM on 08/08/2012
By the way...when you play the game of "I think Jesus believes", you fall prey to the same circular arguement perpetually. "I don't know what he believes, but I believe" is better context for stating your opinion. There are millions of people that read cryptic passages and then define the belief structure upon others that suits their gain. You're gay, so god's gay...You're not...so god's not, though in reality, we are all selling ideology using an invisble 3rd party as the absent arbitrator.

Again, the strange thing is that both sides of the arguement play out on an unstable or 'assumed' belief that the whole thing is in fact the truth and light of the lord...when there are 31 flavors of Jesus in the Baskin Robbins of Religion. I like Superman Jesus personally. 6lb 8oz tiny Krypton Jesus in assorted bubble gum flavors. The gum, ice cream, and the cape alone would bring in all the kids that the priests need into the halls of our beloved lord....and you could fortify it with vitamin D...oh wait..they already did.
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EHRose
in diversity there is beauty and there is strength
08:32 AM on 08/09/2012
Love this. I'm your first fan...and working on a good name for my "flavor" of Jesus.
09:16 PM on 08/09/2012
Thank you! Come again!
03:13 PM on 08/07/2012
Part 1:

"I don't know what Jesus thought about gays and all, but he did hang out with a dozen dudes and have a hooker on standby.

Besides, isn't good old Jesus just a passover from Egyptian Religion...since he's the 'sun' of god? And the 12 diciples are re-representations of Egyptian / Roman / Greek star formations for each month representing the earth's swatch? That's the latest internet crackpipe i've b...een smoking.

I get too caught up with religion and it's tones. If I want scaffolding in my brain, i'll just open up my skull and diy. God is always there, becuase God to me is simply existance, and existance exists. That helps me take one topic off the table for procrasterbation.

Continued on Part 2
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Mastin Kipp
02:02 PM on 08/08/2012
There's a lot when you look back in the history of all the ancient civilizations. This blog assumes the contemporary understanding of Christ as portrayed in the modern day Bible meant for Christians who operate from this perspective. I totally hear you though, since none of us where there, it's all on FAITH.
11:55 AM on 08/07/2012
I'm with you half of the way Mastin (by the way I do love you and I follow your blog so this post is not an attack just my opinion)
I don't really believe that Jesus supports gay marriage, no more than I believe he supports drinking, smoking, adultery, the list could go on and on.... All of these things are ways that humans fall short of Gods desires for us. BUT the thing is that we ALL fall short all the time, so we cant judge each other... Christ is pro choice though and not about condemning his children in any way. So just like adultery, and hanging out at a friends house on a Saturday night getting wasted is not illegal (though not right in the sight of God) why should "gay marriage" be illegal?...... I actually don't believe that we as people should decline other people the right to marry who they want...In my opinion its a freedom of choice. Jesus loves us all the same, we should just focus our lives on loving each other, looking past our differences, and realizing we are really all the same. #peace

..... *grabs mic and shouts---> "Only God Can Judge Me!!* {in my Tupac voice} lol *drops mic and exits stage left*

Blessings to you all :)

~JazzyPhae
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Mastin Kipp
02:00 PM on 08/08/2012
Thanks for your comment Jazzy - you and I have a fundamental disagreement, which is that homosexuality is a sin. Getting wasted, adultery, etc is a choice, People are born gay, as God made them. This is no different than the 60s during the civil rights movement. So I can't agree with you that Jesus loves gay people but disapproves of what they do intimately. I am a progressive Christian! I do agree that in the end of God can judge us! thank you for commenting!
11:10 PM on 08/08/2012
I so totally agree with you. I'm so glad that someone sees the light cause there's a lot of blinded people out there that wants to make sense on how the Bible is in their own little way, but really, it is what it is, there's no changing it. God is our Heavenly Father and he loves us all, we are his children, he disagrees of things people does, but the door is always opened for whenever we are ready to serve him :)
08:29 PM on 09/21/2012
So really you just like the label Christian and believe in a god and Jesus, but don't actually want to follow them or accept what they say?
10:55 AM on 08/07/2012
Thank you Mastin for this love you spread! :)

Paige
09:43 AM on 08/07/2012
Thanks Mastin for living a unconditionally loving life. This to me is living the way God would want us to. To live any other way, is to be judging, not loving. I love you man! If this makes me gay, so be it! Soul to Soul, Love is Love!
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KarenJewel
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11:17 AM on 08/04/2012
The words of Jesus on law and marriage. "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them." Matthew 5:17
“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:4-6

Yes, He did say that we must love God with all our heart, and our neighbor as our self. To love God means to obey Him. Obeying Him means I must stand by what He has said regarding marriage. Marriage that He ordained as between one man and one woman. To love my neighbor means to speak truth in love. It does not mean to support and condone that which is wrong. If my neighbor is an alcoholic, I could love him, but would it be love to also buy him alcohol?
Jesus was quite clear on marriage. Since God's plan is clear, it is also clear that to support anything other than His plan is not to act in love, not for Him nor for my neighbor.
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Mastin Kipp
04:52 PM on 08/04/2012
I'm so sorry Karen, but being gay and an alcoholic are two majorly different things. People are born gay, alcoholism is a disease... it doesn't work. When Jesus says he came to fulfill the law, it is the Law of Love that we had not yet learn. He asks us to Love our neighbor as ourselves and his last request is to Love others has He has Loved us. It's an upgrade from the thinking of the OT.. which endorses slavery, stoning your rebellious son to death and many other things that are vile, evil and violent. Please open your heart and see the message of Love in His message... Every consenting adult deserves the right to Love whom they choose.
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KarenJewel
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10:24 PM on 08/04/2012
Alcoholics are born with the disease. You did not respond to the words of Christ that I shared in my post. His words regarding marriage between one man and one woman. His words on this subject are so clear. I agree that we have a lot to learn about love, but we also have a lot to learn about obedience. You also did not respond to His words about not coming to abolish the law, but to fulfill the law.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
04:32 AM on 08/15/2012
I love how so many of these fundie types LOVE to conflate homosexuality with things like adultery, stealing, etc. The difference is that homosexuality harms no one and the behaviours so many opponents love to post DO harm those who are the victims of those who perform those actions.
11:44 PM on 08/03/2012
This might well be the best article I've ever read on equality! We have continued to state, "it's not gay marriage... it's marriage equality, and we don't have it!" Thank you!!!
07:23 AM on 08/08/2012
"Marriage equality" - You hit the nail on the head. The irony in this ridiculous mess is that gay couples so dearly want to be married to the one they love, and straight married couples are divorcing at record numbers.
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Ioan Lightoller
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04:35 AM on 08/15/2012
Fanned and faved. It is sad, isn't it. Straight married couples are throwing away their marriages at unp[recedented levels, and yet, in most of this country same sex couples cannot marry. Pathetic.
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Quislet
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04:48 PM on 08/03/2012
"On top of that, the idea of gay marriage is absurd. ... Marriage isn't gay or straight, any more than voting is male, female, white, black or yellow. ... Calling it "gay marriage" is akin to "separate but equal." It's still not fully recognizing the closed mindedness of such a label."

In the eyes of the law and government there is only "marriage". But in the debate over marriage equality, the term "gay marriage" is no more of a separate but equal thing than talking about inter-racial marriage or inter-faith marriage. Now civil unions would be because you are having the government distinguish between two relationships and saying one is more valued than the other.
03:27 PM on 08/03/2012
All this banter has proven more evidence God’s word has become so irrelevant in today’s church. One can not take it in parts/pieces. That is not congruent. Jesus is the WORD. He is on every single page. Alpha, Omega, Beginning and End literally and figuratively. The argument of reading the words of Jesus (in red) doesn’t work. Does not Jesus himself quote and refer to OT many times over that you have rejected? Would that not be Jesus saying "just kidding I lied"?

The Bible is the unfolding of God’s plan to restore His Kingdom on earth and all that it entails. It also reveals the character of God: complete, holy, just, sovereign and yes, love. Why? He wants us to know all of Him.

Some refer to Christians as not loving all people and not accepting those for who they are. Well if you pick only certain attributes of God that you agree with leaving out the rest are you not doing the same thing?

Amen that God doesn’t think the way we do. He loves us unconditionally even though it seems we love ourselves & sin more than Him.

Mastin you are great at encouraging people and seem to strive to grow. Seek to study the full council of God to rightful divide the word of truth. It is the true bread of life.
01:09 PM on 08/03/2012
All this banter has proven more evidence God’s word has become so irrelevant in today’s church. One can not take it in parts/pieces. That is not congruent. Jesus is the WORD. He is on every single page. Alpha, Omega, Beginning and End literally and figuratively. The argument of reading the words of Jesus (in red) doesn’t work. Does not Jesus himself quote and refer to OT many times over that you have rejected? Would that not be Jesus saying "just kidding I lied"?

The Bible is the unfolding of God’s plan to restore His Kingdom on earth and all that it entails. It also reveals the character of God: complete, holy, just, sovereign and yes, love. Why? He wants us to know all of Him.

Some refer to Christians as not loving all people and not accepting those for who they are. Well if you pick only certain attributes of God that you agree with leaving out the rest are you not doing the same thing?

Amen that God doesn’t think the way we do. He loves us unconditionally even though it seems we love ourselves & sin more than Him.

Mastin you are great at encouraging people and seem to strive to grow. Seek to study the full council of God to rightful divide the word of truth. It is the true bread of life.
03:40 PM on 08/02/2012
sooo... since we are making the bible the end-all to our legal standards, does that mean we get to have slaves again?

the OT says we can have hebrew slaves for a period of time...
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Mastin Kipp
11:21 AM on 08/03/2012
this isn't about making the Bible a legal standard, this blog is a plea to th Christians of the world to Love like the Jesus they say that they follow. :o)
03:00 PM on 08/02/2012
Check out Matthew 5:17-18 for Jesus's take on the law of Moses.

Some more words of Jesus... "Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery." Mark 10:11-12 If my husband and I get a divorce and I meet the "love of my life", I am NOT free, as a straight person, to marry the person I love. "Love the Lord your God with all of your heart"? How do you love God? By OBEYING Him. Was it such a big deal that Adam and Eve ate a piece of fruit when they were told not to? By human standards, no. By God's standards? It's what screwed over all humanity and caused God to have to come HERE to die. Think about it. GOD left PARADISE to come.... here. A world filled with death and corruption. But He loved us enough to die so that we wouldn't have to. The caveat? We have to die to this world. We are in it, but not of it. We have to take up our crosses and follow Him. So, if you were born gay, and I do believe that some people are, then, if you actually claim to love the Lord your God with all of your heart, you are called to live a chaste life. Like it or not, that's the way God rolls.
08:32 AM on 08/22/2012
Re: "So, if you were born gay, and I do believe that some people are, then, if you actually claim to love the Lord your God with all of your heart, you are called to live a chaste life."

Where is this 'call' in Scripture? Perhaps it can be found in someting Paul might have said, but no one here is calling themselves a 'Paulian'. (Wasn't Paul the one who told slaves to obey their Masters? And women to "keep silent, not to preach"?)

But I've never seen this "God's call" for gay people to be celibate anywhere in Scripture.

Besides, America is not a theocracy.
01:19 PM on 08/02/2012
I think you mistake where our rights come from. In a way I agree with you but I also disagree. The government should basically get out of marriage. Allow anyone to enter any kind of contract they want (call it whatever you want to call it) and be done with it. Everyone is then given equal protection under the law and no one's beliefs are infringed upon.

You also forget that Jesus didn't come to do away with the law but fulfill it (Matt. 5:17). Just because Jesus died for our sins doesn't mean we get a free pass to sin (it just alleviates us from the eternal consequences of it.)
08:41 AM on 08/22/2012
jim,

Re: "The government should basically get out of marriage."

You're welcome to your opinion, but if you want others to agree with you, you should tell us WHY you think that way.

The government is NOT - EVER - going to "get out of marriage". Like it or not, the government governs. That is, they pass and administer (secular) laws that govern "the effects that flow from marriage". That is its very job. Government was in the business of regulating marriage many centuries before any Church got involved. (And I sure wouldn't want "The Church" to be deciding on things like inheritance rights, child-custody, alimony/support payments, immigration sponsorship, pensions, etc. We'd have to agree on WHICH Church would get to administer such laws, and that ain't ever gonna happen.)

You see, the only purpose of marriage in the eyes of the law is to establish legal kinship where none previously existed. No church can terminate a marriage contract, so maybe we should urge The Church to get out of marriage, and stick to performing the religious Rite of Holy Matrimony. Remember, it is only because the State grants clergy the authority to perform marriages on behalf of the government that The Church can perform marriages in the first place.

And, we let atheists marry, do we not?

P.S. Homosexuality is not a "sin" in my religion.
10:01 AM on 08/23/2012
Read my comment again because I'm actually agreeing with you as far as the government's role.

We apparently just disagree over defining the term "marriage" which I'm saying is defined within the religious Rite of Holy Matrimony (where the term "marriage" comes from).
12:21 PM on 08/02/2012
Where do I begin Mastin? I will start with I admire your heart and compassion for what you perceive as an injustice. However, I believe we should evaluate the use of God’s word and allow it to stand for what it says and not for private interpretation.

While your thesis has several logic issues I will focus on one. Wait, make that two. I will state your use of Gal 3:28 is out of context as it speaks of salvation through Christ alone and the relationship believers have within the Body Of Christ, the spiritual Church.

You have established your argument with what Jesus said in Matt 22. What are your thoughts on what Jesus said three chapters previous in Matt 19:4-6? “And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made [them] at the beginning made them MALE and FEMALE, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Hmm, this is also written in the book of Mark 10 as well the very foundation Gen 2:24. Marriage defined in God’s word in the very book use for your argument.
08:43 AM on 08/22/2012
"The use of God's word" is irrelevant to the institution of civil (i.e. secular) marriage.

And you have done exactly what Karen does - pull-quote a reference to Christ's response to whether or not heterosexuals should be allowed to divorce, and tried to make it somehow pertain to same-gender couples getting married.

do better.