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Matt Titus
Matt Titus is a nationally recognized matchmaker, author, public speaker, dating and relationship coach in New York City. He works with singles to help them find true love and couples to help them keep the passion alive.

Matt Titus is the co-author of two top-selling dating and relationship advice books: Why Hasn't He Called? and Why Hasn’t He Proposed?

Matt was the star of Lifetime’s hit reality series Matched in Manhattan, which chronicled Matt helping Manhattan singles find love and couples strengthen their relationships. Matt starred in NBC’s Match Off, a matchmaker competition show in which two matchmakers were challenged with finding the perfect match for one client.

Matt has been a regular guest and relationship expert on the CBS The Early Show, Good Morning America, The Today Show, Fox Business News, The Wendy Williams Show, Dr. Drew on Call, CNN, The Style Network, E! and The Rachael Ray Show.

Matt is a regular contributor to The Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan Magazine, OK! Magazine and has been featured in Elle, Men’s Health, Time Out New York, Forbes and Life & Style as the publication’s “Love Doctor.”

Entries by Matt Titus

Confessions of a NYC Matchmaker

(6) Comments | Posted November 17, 2014 | 7:03 PM

It seems that on a weekly basis, the media decides to "lynch" a matchmaker. The noose is a heavily promoted article focusing on the "victims" of matchmakers. The media seems to relish in painting these so-called victims as baby lambs who were innocently in search of their soul mates and...

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Don't Be His 'Bed Cred'

(2) Comments | Posted February 26, 2011 | 1:22 PM

You remember the exact moment. You were both hot and heavy and the camera was an arm's length away. He was a stud. But now, six months later, the dude has been flashing nude pictures of you for all his bros to see.

It's called "Bed Cred" in guy talk....

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Get Him to Commit... For Real

(3) Comments | Posted February 21, 2011 | 3:54 PM

Passion so intense the sheets are smoldering. He's begging for more. You are in total control, pushing him, and you, into a state of ecstasy both of you have only dreamed.

Sex with your guy has always been great, but this time you rocked his world like no other woman...

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How Do You Define Cheating?

(2) Comments | Posted December 14, 2009 | 11:15 AM

Justin Timberlake. He is a superstar. He is handsome (according to the ladies I know). He is extremely successful. And, he has a beautiful girlfriend. But, according to today's New York Post he was seen as he "partied and flirted with a gaggle of gorgeous girls." So, with such...

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(1) Comments | Posted September 8, 2009 | 7:48 PM

Sex and The City had it wrong. It's not that he's just not that into you, it's that when he is, you mess it all up. Before you start hating me, I want to say, it's not me declaring this truth, I am simply the messenger.


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Don't Kill The Messenger

(1) Comments | Posted January 19, 2009 | 4:48 PM

New York, New York. It's the big city of dreams, but is it what it really seems? Well, as a New Yorker and a guy who works with thousands of single woman who live here, I'd have to say absolutely not. On the surface, New York City seems to be...

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It's About the Relationship Stupid

(8) Comments | Posted February 17, 2008 | 4:30 PM

I don't spend a lot of time worrying about politics, I have my opinions and hopes about the country and where it should go in the next number of years, but quite frankly, I also know at the end of the day nobody cares what a matchmaker thinks about the...

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How To Be Faithful

(54) Comments | Posted December 3, 2007 | 7:02 AM

She walks into the coffeeshop and our eyes immediately meet. I almost fall off my chair because this woman is gorgeous. And to make matters worse the universe is definitely trying to screw with me because judging by the look and smile she just gave me, she's interested.


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Why Hasn't He Called?

(4) Comments | Posted October 4, 2007 | 10:01 AM

Here's the situation: you went on a date with a relative stranger and had an amazing time. The conversation flowed as effortlessly as the wine, and the evening ended with a passionate goodnight kiss in front of your door. You're aching to see him again, but now it's Wednesday, and...

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