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Melissa Chapman blogs about her marriage and everything in between at www.marriedmysugardaddy.com.
She is currently a writer for Lifetime Moms and her work has appeared in The Staten Island Advance, Care.com, ABC News,BlogHer, Baby Center, Momtourage, Babble, The Washington Post, Time, Out NY Kids iVillage and The Staten Island Family.

Blog Entries by Melissa Chapman

3 Gifts I Hope My Husband Doesn't Get Me for Mother's Day

(6) Comments | Posted April 29, 2013 | 2:23 PM

I get quite a few gift pitches, especially when a national Hallmark-sanctioned holiday is right around the corner, and Mother's Day is no exception. I guess because I write a blog about relationships, with the occasional story or two about my offspring thrown in for good measure, companies are sending...

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4 Things Every Woman Should Do Before She Gets Married

(13) Comments | Posted April 19, 2013 | 2:12 PM

I recently attended an event called "The Baby Issue" (formerly known as The Boom Boom Room) in a Manhattan hotel room filled to the BRIM with everything and anything a pregnant woman or mama to a little one could ever need or want. As I'm hustling through the space, trying...

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The Case for Procreation, or Why Having Kids Keeps Me Married

(5) Comments | Posted March 7, 2013 | 9:44 AM

I have to be honest; I look at couples who have managed to stay married sans kids and am mystified by what keeps them bound in matrimony. Not that I'm in any way implying that a couple should or could not get married if they don't intend to have kids....

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Loving Your Spouse More Than Your Kids: Giuliana Rancic Is Not the First or Last Wife to Admit This

(12) Comments | Posted March 5, 2013 | 3:17 PM

Giuliana Rancic's admission that "My husband comes before my baby," is ALL.OVER.THE.NEWS. But this whole loving-your-spouse-more-than-your-kids... wasn't Ayelet Waldman, many moons ago, RAKED over the coals when she penned a New York Times "Modern Love" essay in which she unapologetically confessed that she loved her husband...

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Growth Hormone Injections: Should I Subject My Son to Them?

(11) Comments | Posted March 1, 2013 | 11:17 AM

I am four feet, eleven and three-quarter inches tall. There is NO DENYING the fact that I am short -- I get it -- in fact, shave a few inches off my height and I'd qualify to join the ranks of "little people." I'm not in any sort of denial,...

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Happy Birthday, Daddy -- Wherever You Are

(11) Comments | Posted January 24, 2013 | 4:15 PM

I want to write something really profound today. I want to convey just how unique, impactful and truly lovable my father was on this day that he would have turned 70. I'm also smack in the middle of a family vacation with my brood, having road tripped for 15 hours...

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What Goes on Inside the Mind of a Married Man

(8) Comments | Posted December 31, 2012 | 11:27 AM

I write about my marriage on a daily basis on my blog, Married my sugar daddy, and I've always felt like I had a grasp on the mind of the married man. I mean I literally grill my husband for his thoughts, opinions and ideas before I write...

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3 Tips to Help Your Jewish Kids Survive the Christmas Season When Adam Sandler's Hanukkah Song Just Won't Do

(24) Comments | Posted December 8, 2012 | 1:02 PM

I am a member of the tribe -- a.k.a. a Jew. Which means that while December is afloat in all things jingle bell and merry ho ho's, my kids and I are not able to revel in all its glory without feeling guilty that we're forfeiting our religion for another,...

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Are Any of Us Ever Really Ready to Say Goodbye to Our Fertility?

(16) Comments | Posted November 26, 2012 | 12:27 PM

I am pushing 40, and based on all the intervention it took to have a second child, I'm pretty confident squeezing out another one would be close to an act of God. Still, I can't seem to quiet this nagging voice in the dark recesses of my mind which seems...

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Older Women, Younger Men: Is There a Double Standard?

(7) Comments | Posted October 25, 2012 | 4:27 PM

I'll admit it -- I've always had a sugar daddy complex. I've actively dated men who were at least 10 years older than me in the hopes that I'd meet the one who would ultimately become my husband. I know what you're thinking... I'm a gold digger who...

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When You First Meet Your Spouse, Who Thinks About the Possibility of Breast Cancer?

(12) Comments | Posted October 15, 2012 | 3:41 PM

So I had my annual OB/GYN pap and boob check yesterday -- fun stuff, I know -- and my beloved gynecologist (who actually reminds me of my dad, which makes me adore him that much more) gave me some sobering food for thought. He said he was reviewing my medical...

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In Every Marriage Someone Is The Dream Maker And The Other Is The Dream Receiver

(10) Comments | Posted October 10, 2012 | 2:13 PM

Here I am in my marriage -- and I think I'm finally getting it -- the fact that both my husband and I CANNOT be the dream receivers simultaneously. What is a dream receiver you ask? It's the person in the marriage/relationship who gets to live out their dream, their...

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Lessons I've Learned From my Shih Tzu

(5) Comments | Posted September 28, 2012 | 3:23 PM

As I sit here about to type this post, I can feel the hot breath on my leg of a companion who has been with me on a daily basis and has sat through EVERY article I have ever written since March 1999. She has weathered the births of both...

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3 Tips To Cheat-Proof Your Marriage No Private Investigator Needed

(581) Comments | Posted September 22, 2012 | 10:02 AM

My one deal breaker with my husband, which I've been very vocal about throughout our relationship, has been infidelity. I could forgive a thousand other things -- the dirty clothes, forgetting my birthday, calling me a nag, telling me I'm crazy, and yes the worst of them all telling me,...

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I Don't Think You Ever Get Over the Loss of Someone You Love, You Just See Things Differently

(1) Comments | Posted September 18, 2012 | 2:10 PM

Since my father passed I try really hard to not allow these overwhelming feelings of sadness to envelop me during random moments. It's so strange how a song, a picture or yes, even the monumental birth of my father's grandson, a child born to his only son, can stir up...

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I've Decided to TRY to Be More Like My Husband

(2) Comments | Posted September 12, 2012 | 2:15 PM

I admit it. I'm anxious. I'm a bit of a hypochondriac ( for which I blame my mother) and I get heart palpitations at the thought of letting my kids take public transportation without adult supervision.

In fact, my 11-year-old recently had two of her friends over for a play...

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The Upcoming Jewish New Year Has Me Questioning My Faith Yet Again

(45) Comments | Posted September 5, 2012 | 3:52 PM

We'll be celebrating the Jewish New year this month -- my second since my dad's passing --and being that it's a time for reflection, I'll admit that I'm finding it increasingly harder to believe that life continues after the physical one ends. Of course my husband's insistence that...

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If You Have to Fight with Your Spouse NEVER Say These 4 Things

(9) Comments | Posted August 29, 2012 | 11:24 AM

In a perfect marriage and a perfect world, my husband and I would never fight. If we found ourselves in the midst of a disagreement, we'd let cooler heads prevail. We'd take a deep breath, look into one another's blue eyes (yes we both have blue eyes) and realize whatever...

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On Why My Husband Will Never Be My World

(153) Comments | Posted August 25, 2012 | 9:47 AM

We lost my father a little over a year ago and since his passing my mother has effectively disappeared. She is a mere shadow of her former self and has spent the past 365 days crying uncontrollably, mired in a haze of grief from which she is unable to emerge...

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