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Melissa White

Melissa White, CEO of Lucky Bloke*, is a consultant and researcher advocating a positive approach to sexual safety, health and pleasure.

She spearheads a frequently updated site featuring international consumer reviews of every brand of condom worth attention. Melissa's work supports those who don't want to compromise their health or pleasure, in order to find the safer sex option that works best for them. Her team recently launched SaferSex.Education an online resource providing accurate, progressive advice from leading sex educators –created to support everyone navigating sexual relationships and choices.

*Lucky Bloke is committed to empowering the sexually active by dispelling widespread myths and negative attitudes surrounding condom use –empowering people to enjoy more satisfying experiences in safer sex. Lucky Bloke offers guidance and education on condom fit, along with a carefully curated assortment of quality condoms and lubricant from across the globe.


Melissa is on twitter: @awaytofindme | Lucky Bloke: @theLuckyBloke

Entries by Melissa White

Size Does Matter, When It Comes to Condoms

(0) Comments | Posted October 1, 2014 | 12:13 PM

"I peeled open the condom and as I rolled it on him, his shaft instantaneously went soft, softer. Limp. "Urgh, I hate condoms!" He exhaled. "I never had to use them in my last relationship. I'm not used to them."

My story isn't rare. I've encountered different versions by my...

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Find the Best Condom Size and Save Your Sex Life

(45) Comments | Posted April 10, 2014 | 10:43 AM

It's simpler than you may think. If you or your partner really dislike condoms, it's likely that finding the right condom size will dramatically improve your sex life.

While the concept of correct condom size is rarely taught in schools, it is the most critical factor to both increasing your...

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Scarleteen: Sex Ed for the Real World -- Fun, Fresh and Non-Judgemental

(2) Comments | Posted March 25, 2014 | 12:00 AM

A few months ago, in He Said, She Said: 10 Things We Wish Sex Ed Taught Us, I explored the current state of sex ed with 10 of my favorite sex educators.

I readily admit, before launching Lucky Bloke, I had assumed that (aside from misinformation generously offered...

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Wetter is Better: How to Choose the Best Lube

(0) Comments | Posted January 21, 2014 | 5:23 PM

Last week, I shared the expert lowdown on How to Choose the Best Condoms for You and Your Partner.

This week, I'm back to empower you with a sexy lube primer. If you've ever wondered about how to choose the right lube to take sex to new levels...

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How to Choose the Best Condoms for You and Your Partner

(1) Comments | Posted January 6, 2014 | 2:06 PM

I'm sure I don't have to tell you that when you don't like condoms, you probably don't use them as consistently as you should. No, not at all.

Nowadays, condoms come in a mind-boggling variety. That may sound daunting, but finding that perfect one for you is worth it since...

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He Said, She Said: 10 Things We Wish Sex Ed Taught Us

(177) Comments | Posted October 21, 2013 | 3:14 PM

In a recent Huffington Post article, "So, You Think You're Cool Because You Hate Condoms?," I cavalierly stated, "No matter how high the stakes, most adult attitudes surrounding safer sex are formed (and stuck) back in high school." Which is true.

However, more often than not, what is...

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Smaller Package, Better Lover?

(36) Comments | Posted September 26, 2013 | 5:55 PM

It truly is all about the size of the package -- but not in the way that you might think.

It's time to take a stand: regarding penis size, and what it means to be a sexually desirable man.

A large penis doesn't make a man a great kisser, fill...

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So, You Think You're Cool Because You Hate Condoms?

(170) Comments | Posted September 18, 2013 | 3:23 PM

"I can't feel anything, it's like a paper bag."

"I'm too huge for condoms -- they always break."

"Other girls never make me use them."

It might be understandable if these excuses were coming out of the mouths of teenagers, but as most sexually active women know,...

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