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Was Abraham Misogynistic?

Posted: 11/14/10 08:55 AM ET

When Richard McBee talks about Abraham and Sarah's marriage, he calls it "a deeply problematic human relationship," which leads him to ask, "Do we look at biblical figures as paradigms of behavior?"

McBee is not a therapist who thinks he is living in biblical times, nor is he an anti-theist seeking to undermine the bible. McBee, a painter, identifies as both a feminist and an Orthodox Jew, and as such, he is very concerned about how Abraham treated -- or rather mistreated -- his wife.

McBee is the first to admit that his biblical analysis is not original -- not by several centuries. "I don't believe for a moment that my 'problems' with the biblical text are unique," he says. When he painted Sarah in a box being smuggled through Egyptian customs, he was quoting from a midrash that states that Abraham hid Sarah in a box to protect her.

McBee's innovation is wondering how Sarah felt to be locked up inside of a chest, as well as shifting the conversation from a literary understanding to a visual one. "That's a shift that I think I wouldn't necessarily expect someone to do unless they are a visual artist," he says.

A series of 16 paintings of McBee's on this subject was recently on exhibit in Sarah's Trials at the Jewish Community Center of Manhattan.

McBee says he received "an extraordinary amount" of feedback about the show, some of which came from people who were disturbed.

One work that particularly disturbed some people (and which made me laugh when I first saw it in McBee's studio a few years ago) is "Isaac Comforted" (pictured).

"After Abraham buried me," McBee writes in the caption to the work, which is expressed in the voice of his protagonist, Sarah, "he sent to his family in Haran for a child-bride for Isaac."

In case you missed that point, the young girl in yellow holding Isaac's hand is his wife, Rebecca. Before yielding to the temptation to report McBee to To Catch a Predator, consider that the interpretation comes from the medieval commentator Rashi in his interpretation of Genesis 25: 20.

According to Rashi:

  1. Abraham heard about Rebecca's birth when he came to Mount Moriah.
  2. Isaac was 37-years-old when Abraham nearly sacrificed him (Sarah died at 127, had Isaac at 90, and she died just after the near-sacrifice)
  3. Isaac got married at 40.
  4. If Isaac was 37 when Rebecca was born, and he married her at 40, she was 3 at the time.

"He waited for her until she would be fit for marital relations -- 3 years -- and then married her," says Rashi, quoting from the Midrash Genesis Rabbah 57:1.

To the best of my knowledge, despite this midrash, McBee is the first artist to depict a 3-year-old Rebecca with a 40-year-old Isaac. He also decided to included the seated Abraham, mourning the death of his wife Sarah. In what he describes as a "totally atextual" move, McBee's Abraham turns back and looks at his son and his new bride.

"This pushes him to say, 'I have to see what my life is going to be about,'" McBee says of Abraham's revelation, "And he goes and marries this funny woman named Keturah, i.e. Hagar."

In the next painting, McBee depicts Abraham walking down some stairs to meet his own younger bride, Keturah, whom the midrash identifies with his previous wife-servant Hagar, mother of Ishmael. Nowhere does it say in the text that Abraham thought for a moment about Sarah when he married Keturah, but McBee paints the cemetery with Sarah's tomb in the background.

It should be clear at this point that the Sarah series is all about women -- and all about sex.

Another innovation of McBee's in the series comes in the first painting in the series (perhaps the prelude), where McBee reinterprets another midrash, this time about Abraham smashing all the idols in his father Terah's idol store. The young monotheistic Abraham, the Midrash says, decimated all the idols except one, and put a club in the hand of the sculpture that was still standing. When Terah demanded an explanation, Abraham said the idol, not he, was the culprit. Terah could hardly counter and say that idols couldn't possibly do such a thing without compromising the integrity of his products.

McBee's first painting shows Terah's idol shop stocked with sculptures of nude Venuses, as well as far eastern nude female figures and some Gothic Madonnas-with-children. In the second painting, McBee depicts Abraham smashing one of the Venuses.

This move of showing Abraham's struggle against idols representing the nude female form as foreshadowing and explaining Abraham's later marital problems is totally original on McBee's part.

It also explains the next two paintings in the series, where Abraham -- dressed as a Hasid-- sees no problem putting his wife in a box, and where an angel intervenes to protect Sarah from Pharaoh. According to the midrash, Sarah instructed the angel to whip, and it whipped Pharaoh.

Not only has McBee sexualized the angel (who wears a mini-skirt), but he shows Sarah recoiling as the angel faces the tuxedo-clad king.

"That wasn't something that I said 'Aha, I want her to recoil.' In trying to make her as a figure, she ended up pulling back a little bit, and only in retrospect did I say, 'Aha, it's not so easy,'" says McBee, explaining that Sarah might not have been able to so seamlessly assume a position of power.

"She's a woman given a very powerful tool to use at her own will, but I'm saying in fact it's more subtle than that," he says. "She's not that woman with her hands on her hips in total control. Maybe that kind of control provides its own problems."

In the interests of full disclosure, I co-write a weekly column on Jewish arts with Richard McBee at The Jewish Press, where we have worked together for more than five years. This article first appeared on my Houston Chronicle blog.

 

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When Richard McBee talks about Abraham and Sarah's marriage, he calls it "a deeply problematic human relationship," which leads him to ask, "Do we look at biblical figures as paradigms of behavior?" ...
When Richard McBee talks about Abraham and Sarah's marriage, he calls it "a deeply problematic human relationship," which leads him to ask, "Do we look at biblical figures as paradigms of behavior?" ...
 
 
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KeithClark
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06:00 AM on 11/23/2010
I think the paintings were amazing, and Abraham was simply following the customs of the times.
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Cranmer1549
Fear is your only god on the radio.
02:06 PM on 11/22/2010
Everyone 4,000 years ago was misogynistic! What's the point of singling Abraham out?
12:59 PM on 11/21/2010
The better question is "did Abraham really exist"? Debating this stuff reminds me of a couple of guys arguing about Star Wars at a comic book convention.
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insidious
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11:11 PM on 11/20/2010
All the Bibles are misogynistic...Here's a good read on the subject:

"Woe to The Women, The Bible Tells Me So" by Annie Laurie Gaylor

Another good book on the above topic is "The Red Tent" by Anita Diamant
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c-tom
Badges we don't need no stinking badges
12:52 PM on 11/20/2010
Aren't Rashi and the other writers of Midrash the ones who are misogynistic in their interpretations of the Bible. The Bible doesn't say Isaac was middle aged when his dad took him up the mountain to sacrifice to god.
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04:52 PM on 11/19/2010
Maybe the question ought to be whether Abraham's god is misogynistic.
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Milash
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02:07 PM on 11/19/2010
Hello, the entire bible is anti-woman.
recless
Evidence first. Believe later. Maybe.
10:59 PM on 11/19/2010
Meaningless statement.
01:13 PM on 11/19/2010
Abraham hailed from an era and a culture that were both deeply misogynistic. The people who wrote the stories about him, generations later, probably held similar views. It's not surprising that the stories reflect poor treatment of women and a lack of consideration for their feelings and personhood.

I'm glad that some people are starting to reflect on what these stories mean, but there's still a struggle for modernity going on in most religions. While it's good to see that people like McBee are starting to think about old stories in modern ways, it's an attitude that's changing very slowly among highly conservative or orthodox believers, who are often among the people who most need to change their ways.
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1jurisdiva
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08:58 PM on 11/16/2010
Why is this even a question? Name a man from 2000 years ago that wasn't a misogynist.

The sky is blue too.
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ItsBarranti
07:30 AM on 11/17/2010
Hypatia's father and teachers?
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c-tom
Badges we don't need no stinking badges
12:52 PM on 11/20/2010
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06:23 AM on 11/16/2010
"idols couldn't possibly do such a thing without compromising the integrity of his products." Nonsense! A real pagan would never be so dumb as to think that an idol can smash other idols. Clay and stone, wood and paint, they represent the deity, a meditative device and nothing more. Pagans no more worshiped their idols then Christians worship a statue of Jesus. Whoever wrote that bit did so to make pagans appear naive at best and ignorant at least.
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09:59 AM on 11/16/2010
That's unfair, you have no idea what those pagans (there is no religion called "paganism") believed or thought. Living statues are not too far-fetched compared to various pagan mythologies.
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FredBrighton
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07:23 AM on 11/17/2010
Nothing "unfair" about it, Max. And of course I know there is no religion called "Paganism", I AM a pagan. But pagans are simply non-YHWHists, that's all. A Buddhist is a pagan. No, I base my comment on the fact that I have never read anything in the period literature about the statues in the temples moving or being "alive". The Greeks sometimes animated their statues or had special tubes to allow voices to flow from the statue. But the priestesses never thought the statues were alive, they were meditation objects to focus their attention. Figurines were like, in a way, walkie-talkies direct to the deities. They also serve to identify a site as being dedicated to one of the pagan deities.
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ItsBarranti
07:34 AM on 11/17/2010
Oh sure they can. A Ken Hagee (or one of his ilk) disciple once went to Asia and studied Buddhism and claimed that when he went around back of one of the gold statues, he found a hole that amplified the voice of whoever spoke into it that made it seem like their god was speaking to them, oh those silly easily fooled Idol-worshiping Buddhists, doing whatever their statue tells them to!
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Soma99
09:52 PM on 11/15/2010
The story of Adam and Eve was specifically contrived to attack the existing Goddess religion(s) that we had for 7000 ears. The serpent, the tree of knowledge, the fig leaf clothing, and the successful tempting of Eve were all aimed at commonly recognized aspects of that earlier religion.

The civilization that worshiped the Goddess for thousands of years, bringing with them in the earliest times knowledge of agriculture, medicine, architecture, metallurgy, wheeled vehicles, ceramics, textiles and written language were gradually stamped out because the northern invaders wanted to control the paternity of children, and land that the priestesses of the Goddess temples controlled. The legends were re-written to disgrace the sacred sexual customs of Goddess worship, and because of that, all females were regarded as sinful and blamed for the downfall of man.
05:12 AM on 11/16/2010
Really fascinating post. Any books to recommend?
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FredBrighton
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06:33 AM on 11/16/2010
Anything by Joe Campbell or Marija Gimbutas. But also: When God Was a Woman, Merlin Stone...The Serpent and the Cross, Alan Morrison... The Golden Bough, Frazer... Gods of the Ancient Northmen, Dumezil... The Great Mother, Neumann
These will get you started. I highly recommend Gimbutas and Neumann for scholarly, yet understandable writing. Campbell is vital for comparative analysis. The Serpent and the Cross is great for understanding the Church's assault on the Old Faith. After reading literature from the region you should re-read the OT for some reflection. So many women in the OT were hurt or killed as casually as you might kill livestock. What did Lot's wife ever do to deserve her fate? She was female. Note how the OT attacks sentiment or empathy. This happens with an unbalanced male God. Once the Jews took His wife away YHWH was never the same.
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Soma99
08:33 AM on 11/16/2010
Dominick

"When God was a Women" by Merlin Stone and 'The Living Goddesses' by archeologist Marija Gimbutas.

Merlin Stone's book is partially based off of Marija Gimbutas's work.

The two prevailing themes in Old Testament, and Genesis specifically, were attacks previous cultures. Because, basically, that is how humans taught, with the use of myths. Myth, in a classical sense, means a story with an underlying truth. The cultures being attacked were the cultures that worshipped the Mother Goddess and Nature. We have to remember that we transitioned from being hunter gatherers, which were Animists - to pastoral nomads, which had combinations of worshipping the Mother Goddess and Nature. Women had a higher roles in society at the time because of their special "power".

See, women could bare children and most likely created agriculture. Which, IMO, was the tree of knowledge that instigated being kicked out of the Garden of Eden. Going from being hunter gatherers to agriculturists increased the workday by 300% so men were pissed;) As well, Men were kept in the dark about procreation. So, the combination of man's understanding of their role in procreation, which was hidden by women until that time - as well as being burdened with work with the advent of agriculture, caused the first gender war in the from of a new religion that subjugated women.
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10:03 AM on 11/16/2010
That's absurd.
Who worshiped these goddesses?
The Middle Easterners?
What about the Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, Chinese, Japanese, Mongolian, Khmer, Aztec, Incan, etc. civilization that did not have an Adam and Eve story?
No offense, the Middle Easterners (if I accept your premise that they were the goddess worshipers) might have been the earliest civilizations but all those technological breakthroughs were done independently by other civilizations and we owe our civilization to more than Christianity.
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Soma99
11:09 AM on 11/16/2010
Technological breakthroughs and scientific knowledge are cumulative. The bulk of the work started with the Greeks( actually pythagoras went to the ganges to learn geometry), travelled through the Romans and held up and reinvigorated in the Muslim world for about 500 years during the Islamic Golden age, while Christians were burning astronomers at the stake and then transfered to Europe, after the political environment become more permissive. Of course, not to belittle the ancient Chinese and Indians with their contributions which the Muslims did a good job of tracking down and recording.

Ibn al-Haytham, of the 11th century has also been described as the "first scientist" for his development of the scientific method amongst philosophers of science. Of course, this and other contributions from the Arab world were down played and hidden amongst Christian scholars up until about the early 20th century. "Official" Christian history has Francis Bacon as the developer of the scientific method even though he learned it in Muslim Spain.

See:

George Sarton in the "Introduction to the History of Science,"
John William Draper in the "Intellectual Development of Europe"
Robert Briffault in the "Making of Humanity"
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09:49 PM on 11/15/2010
Good thing the bible is a work of fiction. What's troubling and astonishing is that some people actually consider the Old Testament a guide for ethical behavior. I challenge people to take off their rose-colored goggles and read it in its entirety. Misogynistic? Heck yes! Definitely not a love story.
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anitaj
02:39 PM on 11/19/2010
Murder, incest, intrigue ... this book has it all.
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mountain man col
06:24 PM on 11/15/2010
Lets also not forget that Abraham disguises his wife as his sister so a powerful political leader will take her as a wife (rape) in order to incur Yahweh's wrath for adultery.

Abraham uses Sarah as a sexual object to attain political power and wealth. Good thing none of this actually happened.
02:24 AM on 11/17/2010
Actually Abraham and Sarah were 1/2 brother and sister. I may be wrong but I think I read that they had the same father. So she was his sister...... Sarah was used.

Agree. Good thing none of this acutally happened.
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Weiwuwei
10:01 PM on 11/18/2010
No. Abraham said she was his sister because he was afraid that the men of the land they were going into would kill him in jealousy if they knew she was his wife, and take him from her anyways. That's why she was in the box to begin with---so they wouldn't find her and take her. But they stopped the caravan and demanded the box be opened, and found her, so he thought up a quick lie.
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mountain man col
12:53 PM on 11/19/2010
I am referring to another similar incident in Genesis 12. Abraham fearing for his own life one again passes Sarah as his sister instead of wife, sells her to Pharaoh as a sex slave, and reaps a huge reward for her sale. Once Yahweh realizes Pharaoh has slept with Abraham's wife he curses the Pharaoh(!) with disease, and not Abraham for his deception. Abraham then leaves Egypt with all his riches gained through this incident.
05:28 PM on 11/15/2010
Great post, thank you. I love the art work; the bible stories, not so much. Was Abraham a misogynist? Oh yeah; a mythic Misogynist to the max.
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Forester
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03:44 PM on 11/15/2010
Wasn't Je s us really the first in the tradition to value women as equal?
Someone help me here.
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naschkatze
A free man creates himself.
04:24 PM on 11/15/2010
Well, I think so. You have to read the gospels to get it though because Paul, in his letters, and the church fathers who came after suppressed that little truth about Jesus and reverted to the patriarchal, misogynist view. This was not only part of the Jewish culture of the time but also of the Roman and Greek cultures from which most of the Christian converts came.
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Forester
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05:40 PM on 11/15/2010
Thank you.

I have read about the depiction of Mary Magdalena in the Gnostic gospel of Philip, and how Peter took a different view.

JC, it seems was quite the revolutionary - and nearly everything he taught has since been co-opted for largely banal reason.
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CarmenCameron
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05:42 PM on 11/15/2010
As one Jewish scholar has eloquently pointed out, when Paul said Christians were no longer subject to Jewish law, he removed what little protection women had under the Mosaic Code and replaced those protections with nothing, and in so doing, made their plight even worse, every member of the female gender being relegated to the level of chattel (property) in the Christian Middle Ages..
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07:42 PM on 11/15/2010
"Wasn't Je s us really the first in the tradition to value women as equal?"

If any of the stories are true, we don't know much about how he treated women. The stories about how he treated his mother don't paint a very nice picture.

He never refuted any of the misogynistic laws in the old testament.

And, if him and his god are supposed to be the same guy (trinity) then yes, he's got a pretty bad record ... he was horribly misogynistic in the old testament stories ... so, unless he *changed* (which a perfect god can't do) ... I don't think he would win any awards from any self respecting women.