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Shame on the Milton Hershey School!

Posted: 02/ 7/2012 10:22 am

Pennsylvania boarding school won't admit 13-year-old HIV+ honors student, saying he's a threat.

Abraham Smith (not his real name) is a 13-year-old honors student who dreams of going to college. Abraham also has HIV, but he never supposed that would prevent him from attending the Milton Hershey School, a well-heeled boarding school in Pennsylvania.

Founded in 1909 by the chocolate magnate Milton S. Hershey, the school with its $8 billion asset cushion, has refused to admit Abraham. On its website the school states that the boy would pose a direct threat to the health and safety of others, and as a private school it can establish its own eligibility criteria.

In fact, HIV discrimination is illegal under the Americans with Disabilities Act.

The AIDS Law Project of Pennsylvania has filed suit against the school, alleging that it has broken the law by refusing to admit Abraham because he has HIV. For more than 23 years, this non-profit has been protecting the rights of people with HIV/AIDS.

"I thought I would get into the school, because of the type of student and person I am," Young Abraham told ABC News through an attorney. But as a result of the school's decision; "my life has turned into fear, anger, confusion and tears."

The school's administrators have never met Abraham or spoken to his family, his doctor or his current teachers-yet they claim they cannot accommodate his "documented needs" and express "significant concern is that HIV can be transmitted through sexual contact."

"The idea that anyone could be denied entry based on a disability is astounding", said Arthur Caplan, director of the Pennsylvania Center for Bioethics. "It sets back what we know to be true about the disease." Caplan believes the school will lose the law suit " So they better get ready to figure out how they're going to accept him."

And how does Abraham feel? "As far as me still wanting to go to Milton Hershey I still do but I am now afraid to. I want them to apologize to me for making like I'm going to be a reckless teenager and put someone else in jeopardy. They should give me more credit than that."

Abraham's plight reminds me of the 1980's when Ryan White, a child with AIDS was not allowed to attend school. It is remarkable that thirty years later, we are still dealing with the same ignorance and discriminatory practices. We have learned many lessons along the painful road that we have traveled since the epidemic hit America in the early 80's. We have lost great friends, mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers, sons and daughters... we quickly learned that the virus does not discriminate. However, we have made great advances in medicine and technology and now millions of people, with the proper treatment, can live normal, productive lives. Now is not the time to move backwards. Now is not the time to victimize those who have been affected by this disease. Now is not the time to deny Abraham Smith a chance to realize his dreams. Milton Hershey School, I urge you to reverse your decision and celebrate the potential of ALL of our youth.

 
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04:46 PM on 02/09/2012
I find it interesting that no one seems to recognize there are people who are HIV+ all over the place. They walk down the same streets as you, shop in the same grocery stores as you, eat in the same restaurants as you. They have jobs that you probably observe every day -- waitresses, baristas, teachers, hair dressers -- you interact with them all the time. The lesson here is that people with HIV pose NO health risk to you or any one else in every day casual activities.

It's the "un-casual" activities that open the door to potential exposure, and that's what the Hershey School fears. They acknowledge publicly that children in their school engage in sexual activity, and they fear the child transmitting the virus through sexual activity. They cite the boarding school format as their basis for denying this young boy's admittance. In every other area, he meets their criteria.

Just like Ryan White (look him up), this child chose to fight. He wants to see those who discriminate against him just because of his infection held accountable for their actions. In the process, he wants the general public (that's us) realize that he poses no threat just by sheer virtue of his existence. He wants to be treated like any other thoughtful, intelligent young man who is trying to take advantage of the best resources out there.
11:59 PM on 02/08/2012
what parent would want their child to attend a school that DIDN'T WANT THEM. a child should have a childhood, not a fight, to look back on. for gosh sakes, there are lots of other schools that would be proud to accept this child; try one of those.
09:44 PM on 02/08/2012
As a GRADUATE of the Milton Hershey School, please clarify that this is a FREE boarding school for children who are in financial need founded by Milton Hershey and his wife for orphaned boys. It is not a "well heeled" typical boarding school. We lived in group homes in an institutional setting. I disagree with the decision of the school. However, what about the rights of the other children who would have no choice to live with someone who is HIV+? They have enough buildings on the grounds that they could have a groundbreaking program and all the money to start it, the medical staff. They are 5 miles from the Hershey Medical Center but have their own facility. They could have a home for those students. Some might call that segregation, but actually a specialized population they could have their own nurse staff for meds support groups, dietary etc not worry about home issues because it is a very close living situation. They had a place called Springboard Academy that they closed that would be perfect, but they apparently leased it out for some other agency for people with other disabilities! They could live in a specialized house but attend the general population schools. There is a deed of Trust with the rules of admission which appear to support the school in this situation. It will be interesting to see what happens next. At one time people of color were also excluded until the 70's. So were girls.
06:58 PM on 02/07/2012
For those who want to take action on this issue, please visit: www.endHIVstigma.org. AIDS Healthcare Foundation has a specific campaign where you can send an eletter to Hershey board members asking them to end this discrimination and facilitate the enrollment of the boy at the school. Follow us on Twitter @aidshealthcare to find out more.
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04:26 PM on 02/07/2012
A rabid Republican has taken control of the Hershey philanthropies and is using them for his personal goals.
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jamenta
There are other human values besides greed.
12:28 PM on 02/07/2012
It almost seems like in this country - it has become a badge of honor to kick and ignore those who are on the margins of society.

Instead of helping the least among us - the unemployed, the elderly - our children in their deteriorating schools - we are instead - told we are better off shunning them - letting them fend for themselves.

This is not the kind of society I want to live in - nor the kind of society to be proud of. What is happening to the US? Are we becoming just a bunch of Neanderthals?