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Social Media: 4 Strategies for Growing Your Online Network

Posted: 03/20/2012 5:50 pm

According to Pam Dryer in her article "How Women Use Social Media," 53 percent of American women regularly use social media. 75 percent of them use it to connect with friends and family, 57 percent use it for fun and entertainment, and 52 percent use it to "connect with others like me."

Maybe you're in that last 52 percent looking for like-minded women. If not, you're probably in a large minority regularly surfing Facebook, uploading photos and commenting on your friends' and family's status updates. But beyond that, you haven't tapped into the huge potential for social media to grow your business, extend your professional network or find new people who think and live like you do.

"Social media networking is powerful and so new to the marketplace," said Dabney Porte, co-founder of Social media Girlfriends Productions, LLC. "None of my friends or neighbors could relate to my work and so it was easier for me to find meaningful connections and networking online with other women doing the same thing."

Porte, along with Britt Michaelian,created their company to help women and businesses build stronger online connections. They met online via Twitter and became friends and business partners. Together they have helped thousands of women connect by virally sharing videos and positive messages that help promote community andresource-sharingto help one another.

For the last two years, I have successfully utilized social media to find members for my Iron Moms Triathlon team on Facebook and Twitter. After asking all of my friends and family -- with no takers -- it was much easier for me to seek interested team members using social media. The best part of this process has been the new friendships that I formed with other individuals interested in the exact same things as me.If you are like me, sometimes it is exhausting to continue to ask the same group of friends to join in and participate.

Here are a few strategies that you can use to enhance your online connections:

1. Be clear about the kind of connections that you want to establish using social media. You might be interested in meeting other women working in your profession, or women interested in losing weight, or those seeking certain types of hobbies of interest to you.

2. Get in the conversation and be an active participant on your wall and page. Instead of waiting to see who is talking about what is interesting to you, lead the discussion by posting question of interest on your feed.

3. Expand your view of social media. It is hard for some of us to make the leap and accept the idea of using this resource as a resource for making friends. Try it. I've made 14 new (non-virtual) friends using social media.

4. Explore all that social media has to offer. Don't stop at Twitter and Facebook. LinkedIn, for example, is a site for professionals in a wide range of fields to find networking opportunities. And there are many more sites. There are blogs for every possible topic that interests you. Blog writers are usually happy to interact and respond to your questions and comments. And, if by chance there isn't a blog about a topic of interest to you, start your own!

And if you're new to social media or you're just looking for a place to start expanding your social media presence, give Social Media Girlfriends a look. It's a good jumping-off point and a great organization that has thought of smart ways to engage their audience and to serve women online.


Connect with the Girlfriends at www.socialmediagirlfriends.com,on their radio show at http://girlfriendstalkradio.com, on their weekly blog at http://socialmediagirlfriends.com/blog/ or on twitter at #smgirlfriends

 
 
 

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02:17 PM on 04/12/2012
Great article! I have found friendships, professional connections, and FUN via social media. It is a whole aspect of my life that I cherish and value! :)
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Lorette Lavine
www.parentingintheloop.com
01:54 PM on 04/12/2012
This was a great article...I am a grandmother and have made quite a few virtual friends with my blog and on Twitter and Facebook. My non-virtual friends do not understand what I do and I have always found that girlfriends and family are not always a good support in new ventures ...it seems that sometimes they do not really want you to succeed for whatever reason.
I look forward to checking in with #socialmediagirlfriends. :)
03:57 PM on 03/22/2012
This was a great article and very relevant for today's woman. I am definitely in that group that use it for All the Above. I love social media. I will admit though the need to find balance with it all. As much as I use it for business and networking, it can be very addictive. I find myself sitting in front of my computer for 3 hours, easily. I just can't get enough and there's always something new coming out.
Tawanna
www.momsguidetotravel.com
04:03 PM on 03/21/2012
I have met some of my best friends via social media! One group in particular, The Winter Wonder Moms (as we named ourselves) - 15 years ago we all met on a site for expecting moms. We shared the ups and downs of pregnancy and continued on through all the stages from toddlers to elementary school and now the very scary teen years. We have shared and supported one another through children battling cancer, broken bones and other illnesses as well as new siblings, our own parents ageing, and divorces and remarriage (our own). This has always been a group of moms I could go to and share whatever was happening in this crazy life with out fear of judgement. And usually one of the others has "been there done that" so they have excellent words of wisdom! These moms, only a few of whom I've met in person, have been and will continue to be, a saving grace in my life! So I'm a HUGE fan of online networking!
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MamaBritt
CEO of Work Smart Lifestyle, New Media Architect
05:07 PM on 04/01/2012
Ehat a wonderful story, Karen! This supportive group that you were fortunate to be a part of is exactly why we started Social Media Girlfriends. We all need support and encouragement in good times and bad. Beautiful!
06:43 AM on 03/21/2012
I love what you said in your article. Even though I am not a "Girlfriend" I agree social media is POWERFUL! I had to disappear in social media for a bit because of personal reasons and I have found it hard to "reconnect". Some of the reasons are major changes that are happening daily on Facebook and also the way people are guarded at first. Twitter has turned into an automated environment and I am having to learn how to figure out who is real. I have made it a goal to connect with more people. This article gave me perspective. Question for you? I am not a "Girlfriend" but I would love to connect on your network to learn and also to add value? Is that possible? I can see you have a great thing going on.
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MamaBritt
CEO of Work Smart Lifestyle, New Media Architect
05:05 PM on 04/01/2012
Anyone is welcome to stop by and join the daily chats with Social Media Girlfriends on Twitter #smgirlfriends at 9am PST Mon-Fri. You will be sure to connect with women who are looking to build their online and offline networks and I promise, they are all real! Yes, the constant changes on Facebook have made it challenging to keep up but the new Timeline feature and subscribe options will open up profiles for more sharing and engagement. We have fun daily activities on the Social Media Girlfriends page that allow you to connect personally and professionally with women who are looking to do the same. There is a video pinned to the top of our timeline that explains how to participate in Social Media Girlfriends. Whether you stop by only once or if you are a regular is up to you. It doesn't cost a thing and we are there 24/7. Thank you for asking :)
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DabneyPorte
Dabney Porte is a relationship expert who loves to
11:49 PM on 03/20/2012
Thank you so much for sharing our Social Media Girlfriends Community with your readers Mia. We are thrilled to hear from more women who are walking in their magnificence! Social Media is a tool that is powerful beyond words, in both building businesses and friendships. We look forward to seeing you in the nest! xo