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For Me, the Party Is Over

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It took only the single tap of a computer key, and just like that I'd exited the Republican Party after 30 years of active membership. The context might sound impulsive, but I'd been thinking of becoming an independent for a long time. I just hadn't expected that a trip to renew my driver's license would mark the end.

Just before my photo was snapped, I was asked if I wanted to register to vote. For me, the question was borderline offensive. I first registered after turning 18 in the spring of 1980 and haven't missed an election since. And I'm not just talking presidential races. I mean all elections. Congress, town council, school board, whatever.

"I'm already registered," I offered. Next came the unexpected question of whether I wished to change my political affiliation. I'm not sure why that is asked of someone renewing a driver's license, and I question whether it is even appropriate for most. But in my case, it was the only impetus I needed.

Years ago, I grew tired of having my television or radio introduction accompanied by a label, with some implied expectation that what would then come from my mouth were the party talking points. That was me 26 years ago, when I was the youngest elected member of the state delegation to the Republican National Convention, but not today. I'm not sure if I left the Republican Party or the party left me. All I know is that I no longer feel comfortable.

The national GOP is a party of exclusion and litmus tests, dominated on social issues by the religious right, with zero discernible outreach by the national party to anyone who doesn't fit neatly within its parameters. Instead, the GOP has extended itself to its fringe while throwing under the bus long-standing members like New York Assemblywoman Dede Scozzafava, a McCain-Palin supporter in 2008 who told me she voted with her Republican leadership 90 percent of the time before running for Congress last fall.

Which is not to say I feel comfortable in the Democratic Party, either. Weeks before Indiana Democratic Sen. Evan Bayh's announcement that he will not seek reelection, I noted the centrist former governor's words to the Wall Street Journal's Gerald Seib. Too many Democrats, Bayh said in that interview, are "tone-deaf" to Americans' belief that the party had "overreached rather than looking for consensus with moderates and independents."

Where political parties once existed to create coalitions and win elections, now they seek to advance strict ideological agendas. In today's terms, it's hard to imagine the GOP tent once housing such disparate figures as conservative Barry Goldwater and liberal New Yorker Jacob Javits, while John Stennis of Mississippi and Ted Kennedy of Massachusetts coexisted as Democratic contemporaries.

Collegiality is nonexistent today, and any outreach across an aisle is castigated as weakness by the talking heads who constantly stir a pot of discontent. So vicious is the political climate that within two years, Sen. John McCain has gone from GOP standard-bearer to its endangered-species list. All of which leaves homeless those of us with views that don't stack up neatly in any ideological box the way we're told they should.

Consider that I've long insisted on the need to profile in the war against terrorists. I believe that if someone like Khalid Sheikh Mohammed has actionable intelligence on future terrorism, you try the least coercive methods to extract it but ultimately stop at damn near nothing to get what you need to save American lives. I want the U.S. military out of Iraq, but into Pakistan. I'm for capital punishment. I think our porous borders need to be secured before we determine how to deal with the millions of illegal immigrants already within them. Sounds pretty conservative. But wait.

I think that in 2008, the GOP was wrong to adopt a party platform that maintained a strict opposition to abortion without at least carving out exceptions in the case of rape, incest, or danger to the mother's life. I was appalled that legislators tried to decide Terri Schiavo's end-of-life plan. I don't care if two guys hook up any more than they should care about my heterosexual lifestyle. And I still don't know what to think about climate change.

I think President Obama is earnest, smart, and much more centrist than his tea party caricature suggests. He has never been given a fair chance to succeed by those who openly crow about their desire to see him fail (while somehow congratulating one another on their relative patriotism). I know he was born in America, isn't a socialist, and doesn't worship in a mosque. I get that he inherited a minefield. Still, the level of federal spending concerns me. And he never closed the deal with me that health insurance is a right, not a privilege. But I'm not folding the tent on him. Not now. Not with the nation fighting two wars while its economy still teeters on the brink of collapse.

All of which leaves me in a partisan no-man's-land, albeit surrounded by many others, especially my neighbors. By quitting the GOP, I have actually joined the largest group of American voters. According to the latest Washington Post-ABC News poll, 39 percent of Americans identify themselves as independents -- compared with 32 percent who say they are Democrats and 26 percent who are self-described members of the GOP. Nowhere is this more pronounced than locally, where a shift away from the Republican Party has taken place in the four bellwether counties surrounding Philadelphia.

I will miss casting a ballot in the spring, as current state election law prohibits unaffiliated voters from voting in GOP or Democratic primary elections. Instead, I'll join the others who bide their time until fall, when we can temper the extremes of both parties.

"My decision should not be interpreted for more than it is: a very difficult, deeply personal one. . . . I value my independence. I am not motivated by strident partisanship or ideology."

Those are Bayh's words, not mine. But he was speaking for both of us.

Cross-posted with the Philadelphia Inquirer.

 
It took only the single tap of a computer key, and just like that I'd exited the Republican Party after 30 years of active membership. The context might sound impulsive, but I'd been thinking of becom...
It took only the single tap of a computer key, and just like that I'd exited the Republican Party after 30 years of active membership. The context might sound impulsive, but I'd been thinking of becom...
 
 
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Publius67
04:30 PM on 03/05/2010
Just remember...there are also a good many Americans (perhaps to Bayh's dismay) who think the Democrats have not gone nearly far enough in trying to undo all the damage the GOP has caused in the last 30 years. You cry foul now, but you aided & abetted this march to ruin. I haven't tears enough fro what you and your fellows have done to our country.

Be that as it may, yes...President Obama is what we've lacked for a long time in the office - an intelligent, learned, mature person. It is a measure of how insane large segments of the country have become that such a moderate (even mildly right) centrist looks like a bomb-throwing anarchist straight of the Russian Revolution or 1848.
10:23 PM on 03/02/2010
Good for you , I think. I used to be a Republican but I noticed several years ago that they had left me. I was in Orange County when the "lunatic fringe" that Teddy Roosevelt coined came back. Some of them were similar to the Tea Bagger anarchists of today.

I prefer fiscal responsibility, and have always believed ib PayGo but I recognize that getting out of the hole that we are in requires government to create some demand. It is unfortunate that we have to borrow the money to create the temporary demand there really is no sensible alternative.

I learned my economics from Greenspan many years ago and it saddened me to see him refuse to see the obvious signs of abuse in the mortgage market and REFUSE to exercise his responsibility (and authority) to regulate .

The Reagan reality of a belief in fiscal responsibility (even while running up debt greater than all previous presidents) has been twisted into myths of ever smaller taxes while shrinking not just safety nets but the necessary regulation to protect the citizens from all kinds of hazzards from drugs, vehicle safety and consumer fraud. In fact, the GOP and the Tea Baggers feed off of those who are actually abusing them.
09:34 PM on 03/02/2010
I just think in today's politically correct world, if you have an opinion that slightly goes against what the main stream press pushes out, you're considered a liability, bad person, possible hate monger... etc. The left has done a great job in co-opting the media outlets over the years, and I for one, like other media outlets like Fox. Not to align myself so much to their biases, but to counter some of the BS spin I see in everday news.
I'm not comfortable socializing 1/7th of the economy, especially when so much of a majority is against it. Where else, but a few places, in the world can you get emergency treatment in a hospital if you don't have insurance?
Just how has power corrupted those who we now see in those positions? If your boss had an idea that a very small minority of your co-workers agree with, and this boss asked you to "push it through at any cost", jeapordizing your job and credibility, would you go along with it? Not me. I don't care which side of the aisle would do it,; nobody is going to co-opt my principles or ideals to better themselves if I don't agree with the premise.
Maybe the independents and the tea party have ideas worth looking at. Don't bet against others painting them as racists, kooks, hillbillies, homophobes... as they revert to co-opt their credibility rather than compete in the public discourse of opinions.
11:37 AM on 03/03/2010
Your remark about "racists, kooks, hillbillies, homophobes" caught my eye. You seem like a typically reasonable but misinformed person. I am a lifelong independent conservative who receives almost daily email propaganda spam from right wing sources. This spam is filled with pathological lies, Orwellian misinformation and utterly shameless stupidity, bigotry and ugliness. What is always missing is a truthful argument, fairness, and decency. Some Republican I know say "liberals do the same thing." I say, "send me some." I'm still waiting. Most good parents will teach their children things like "you are judged by the company you keep" or "birds of a feather, flock together." If you hang around with a bunch of idiots, it's bound to rub off. If you can't tell the difference between opinion based on facts, and opinion based on lies, misinformation and illogical bias, it will show.
04:07 PM on 03/02/2010
I'd listen to Smerconish on KYW from time to time, and often think, "what an ***!" Reading this now, I'm -- nonplussed. There's really nothing else to say but to offer a wary welcome . . . .
03:52 PM on 03/02/2010
Welcome to sanity, my friend. I have been an independent moderate since I registered to vote at age 18. Why? It started because I always felt the Electoral College was a scam operated by both parties in the modern times to keep it bicameral (which, it is). Then, my reasons evolved because I refuse to subscribe to any party or ideology that limits me from taking in new information that changes my mind. I refuse to be a blind-liner and subscribe to talking points (ie, 'death panels'...ummm...yeah, what do you call undersigners at your insurance company, again...).

Of course, there is one burden to your new role as an independent. You have to read... A LOT! You have to find sources that filter out the agenda of either side to come up with real data to form your own opinions. That is no small task in this media environment. I'm a big fan of BBC World News and PBS' News Hour. Those are the only relatively unbiased forms of news out there. Good luck to you, and feel proud of yourself as an intellectual and reasonable American citizen.
01:17 PM on 03/02/2010
I wish politicians on both sides of the aisle would get it into their heads that on average they speak for less than half of the people of the US. They can quit telling us that they are doing "what the American people want".
01:15 PM on 03/02/2010
Amen, brother. The problem with becoming an independent is that the remaining registered party voters are becoming more polarized and keep electing candidates that seem far from moderate. The last few presidential candidates of Bush, Gore, Kerry, McCain, Obama. Come on! Are these the best possible people that the U.S. has to offer? Are there any good reasonable people left out there that want to become president? Or do all the good reasonable people just give up because the situation seems hopeless (e.g. Evan Bayh)? It doesn't look good.
01:13 PM on 03/02/2010
Two old whores walking opposite side of the same street with the monied few as the johns and the rest of us as... well... the linen, I guess.
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Rickyrab
Bloustein School of Planning and Public Policy
12:54 PM on 03/02/2010
I am a RINO and I intend to keep being a RINO for reasons similar to why Michael left the GOP: there aren't enough RINOs and thus the party is tending to extremism. If there are more RINOs then the party will tend towards more moderation, and if the party is mostly RINO, then there's no need for the term RINO because then their values would become the Republican values. I believe that government is best when it helps people help themselves, and is an asset not only to hard working homeowners but to those who want to work for pay, to those who want homes and cleanliness and respectability, to those who are hard working but don't want to drive to work, and to Americans in general.
12:37 PM on 03/02/2010
Welcome to the fold Mike.

One of the positive aspects of being an Independent is that you feel like you own your soul, and are no longer beholden to a party. We now have 3 major political powers in this country. We have the deplorable and immoral Democrat party. Then we have the Republican party, which is somewhat better than the Dem party. And now the most powerful party/group has taken it's rightful place in history, the Independents.
01:44 PM on 03/02/2010
Immoral as in wanting those less fortunate to have healthcare? Or deplorable as in wanting to save the country from financial ruin? Yes, how dare they!
07:10 PM on 03/02/2010
Doesn't sound independent to me. Sounds like a Repub who is ashamed to say it. Your disrespect for people who dedicate their lives to making things better for all of us shines through.
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alaskan1st
12:37 PM on 03/02/2010
I'm a liberal, but I always register republican. Thats the only way I can get my hands on a republican ballot and the only way I can throw a monkee wrench into thier plans.
12:35 PM on 03/02/2010
I was a screaming yellow LIBERAL DEMOCRAT all thru my high school, college and graduate school years, attending demonstrations with classmates, boycotting certain corporations who were deemed evil by the left, yada yada yada. Then a funny thing happened to me: I GREW UP! Found out that by gettming married and having kids, buying a house and paying mortgage, and working my butt off at two jobs and getting to pay Taxes really educated me about how naive the "Spread the wealth" mindset of the Liberal Party was....I suddenly despised the Democrats Tax, Tax, Tax mode that they can't seem to get out of alienated me. Now I am a registered Republican - not that I adore that Party but I just can't endorse the Democrats any longer - I am convinced half of them are certifiably insane, especially Nancy Pelosi!
12:41 PM on 03/02/2010
The funny thing about growing up is... it makes you wiser.
01:41 PM on 03/02/2010
The funny thing about not wanting to pay taxes is: Those who may have made use of them early in their lives (for instance, through education, as above), are the same people who don't want to reciprocate to those coming after them. Talk about selfish...
01:58 PM on 03/02/2010
Congratulations on joining the working class - just where the Republicans want you. Work your ass off all your life and stuff their bank accounts.... They are so grateful for you, and they LOVE it when you vote against your own interests.
07:13 PM on 03/02/2010
Amen!
12:15 PM on 03/02/2010
Neither the government or the private sector are the ultimate solver of all problems. The private sector and government need each other such as banks need regulators to help insure that they don't gamble away our money on outrageous products such as credit default swaps, loaning money without background checks, and 'shadow banking deals and products'. There are some services that are done best by governmental and non-profit agencies such as the military, public health and other public centered services. My intellectual problems with conservatives is their belief that the government is bad and the private sector needs little or no regulation and with liberals that government will solve all social problems. I find it hard to stomach Republicans who see themselves as more closely aligned with God therefore making all of their views 'right' and leftist Democrats who present themselves as 'defenders of the poor and downtrodden'. What I like is to hear someone talk about a problem and come up with real solutions without name-calling and put-downs of someone with an opposing viewpoint. Problems are solved through presentation of facts and through honest and direct discussions while not caring about whether they are 'conservative', 'liberal', 'Democratic' or 'Republican'. It's time for people to act in a mature manner and believe that compromise and humility is needed to solve problems.
11:32 AM on 03/02/2010
A close relative once asked me 'I can't figure you out; are you a liberal or conservative'?'. I replied neither and see myself as morally conservative and socially progressive'. I see problems as problems that need to be solved and not something to be used to politically destroy anyone with an opposing view. Health care costs are a huge problem. They are not going to be resolved without fixing the system not parts of the system. I believe that the Republicans oppose their remedies to the problem that are a part of the President's plan simply because they want him to fail so they can win more seats in the House and the Senate. I find our President to be a thoughtful, smart, and moderate person who underestimated the thirst for pure power of his opponents. He made the mistake of many thoughtful and smart people by believing that his fellow leaders want to solve problems instead of simply looking to collect more power.
10:07 AM on 03/02/2010
I left the Democratic Party for these exact reasons. Right on.