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Michael Thornton

Michael Thornton

Posted: March 3, 2011 12:39 PM

Update: 99er Alexandra Jarrin is Thankful, Yet Fearful and Losing Hope


Back in December 2010, Alexandra had taken the initiative to organize "Letters to Bernie" where the unemployed could write Sen. Bernie Sanders and share with him their long-term unemployment struggles. A couple of weeks ago I published a story of Alexandra Jarrin, who was battling against the odds to keep a roof over her head.

A number of readers asked for an Alexandra update. It pains me to say that Alexandra's situation is still very difficult; she is days from being homeless and her health is worsening.

Shay Totten who writes a political column for Seven Days -- Vermont's Independent Voice, contacted Alexandra after reading my Huffington Post article. He published an article, Vermont Woman Who Led Fight for '99ers' on Verge of Homelessness, which resulted in Alexandra being contacted by a couple of concerned individuals, including a staffer for Sen. Bernie Sanders. The staffer said that she may be able to help Alexandra locate housing assistance, but that proved inaccurate. According to Alexandra, "I spoke with (Sen Sanders' staffer) and she said that there really isn't anything she can do for me beyond telling me of the local resources which I am already familiar with and connected to."

The staffer did mention that Alexandra could potentially qualify for a rapid re-housing grant through HUD, but only IF she is employed. That's a Catch-22; she needs a job to receive housing assistance, but she needs housing to properly look for a job. Disturbingly, federal, state and local governments aren't able to help the struggling long-term unemployed find temporary housing. As a result, Alexandra remains in her hotel room, living day to day.

The help that Alexandra received from some very generous individuals is greatly appreciated. JG from TX, K and P all paid for portions of her hotel stay. Without any further help, March 5 may be the last day she will have a roof over her head. "JG from Texas also sent me $400.00 to pay a month's car payment." JG likely kept Alexandra's car from being repossessed, which would likely end any chance of her finding work in rural Vermont. Without those generous gifts, she would be living in her car, or worse.

The high stress of unemployment, near homelessness and health issues are understandably taking a high toll on Alexandra's spirit.

"You know, Mike, on March 24 I will be 50 years old, I used to see this as a milestone for the beginning of a new leg of my life, now I wonder if I will even make it to that day. I can't plan for the future, I go to the doctor's office and its always bad news and all they keep telling me that most of it is either brought on by stress or the stress in my life is what is heightening the issues. High blood pressure, diabetes, Fibromyalgia, Hyperparathyroidism, gallstones and kidney stones and God knows what else they are going to find. The worst thing I ever had to deal with was several kidney stones and the treatment for them.

How do I reduce stress when I live each day or two wondering what is going to become of me, how long before I will literally be in the streets. I have been homeless for eight months now, lost my entire life eight months ago, drove away from a lifetime of memories and personal belongings that are not replaceable. My parents are both dead and anything I had that belonged to them is gone because I had no way to store them or move them, all gone. My mother died of a stroke at the age of 58. She worked herself to death. I was just 19 years old and now the doctors are telling me that if I don't take care of myself I am going to stroke out just like she did. But I should reduce the stress in my life.

I would hope that people understand that after trying everything the government has told us to do, relocating, spending my last of my saving to move to TN in the hopes of finding gainful employment, losing more and more of myself each time that its dreadfully scary to face each day and hear the same things each day. To be hunted by bill collectors, to live with the fear that I will be in a box under a bridge somewhere soon. Sounds dramatic, but it's the drama of my life."

Alexandra continues to look for work.

"I spent the entire day today dropping off applications all over town once again at all these places that will take an application rather than an online application, I have done this three times now, once every three months and still each time I go in they tell me the same thing, they will keep it on file if they are looking for someone in the future. It's to the point where i cant just drive around willie nillie because with the price of gas now, it costs me $42.50 to fill up my tank."

Her note ended with, "I am whole heartedly grateful for everything but I am still so scared for what is to become of me."

Let that sink in, "but I am still so scared for what is to become of me."

Millions of unemployed are experiencing similar nightmares of the days to come. As the pundits and politicos celebrate a "jobless" economic recovery or "new normal" unemployment rate of 9 percent at the mahogany tables of board rooms and congressional offices, the talk at many kitchen tables of the long-term unemployed are much less cheerful. Millions of American families are deciding how they will survive the next week without a job, without money to pay for shelter and without any help from a government that squandered trillions of taxpayer dollars on corrupt and mismanaged banks and financial institutions. They are wondering, "What is to become of me?"

While Congress readies to cut $390 million in heating assistance for the poor and $747.2 million from WIC - Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants and Children, it wants to increase funding for capital police security by $12.5 million. Congress, in its majestic sense of self-importance, feels it's more important to protect itself than to protect millions of vulnerable Americans - the Alexandra Jarrins of this country. Until that congressional mindset changes, we can expect more suffering from those who have already suffered the most.

Alexandra can accept Paypal contributions and communications at ajinvermont@gmail.com from those who wish to help. If you have any questions or concerns about this process, you can also contact me at mike@layofflist.org.

"The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much; it is whether we provide enough for those who have too little." Franklin D. Roosevelt
 

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hismuse
02:57 PM on 03/29/2011
It all seems so surreal, that this is really happening, I can't even imagine what is next.
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99er2049er
Democrats create jobs and build strong economies
01:25 AM on 03/22/2011
Can you believe something like this can happen to a human being? OK, let me rephrase that. Can you believe something like this can happen to a human being in the United States of America?

This breaks my heart. I look at this and think without private donations, she doesn't stand a chance of getting a job. I look at myself and millions of other americans who are out of work and desperately trying to survive as we slowly lose piece by piece of our lives, yet half the government is battling to take away any lifeline we have to help us put our lives back together again.

I have had to file bankruptcy, I am in foreclosure and will soon lose my house, I have used up my 401k. What else do I have to sacrifice to show I am not being unemployed by choice?
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KWiedemer
Denver Unemployment Examiner
11:14 PM on 03/17/2011
Very nice, Mike.
10:31 PM on 03/15/2011
I just got done reading the story about Alexander in letters to Mike,this story made me cry and I dont cry easy.I didnt cry just for Alexander,I cried and feel horrible for her and the millions of other Americans just like her.I cried for the children who didnt eat today or yesterday and had to sleep outside in the cold wondering what was going on and why they had to live like that.I cried for the 60 year old who cant find a job and cant get any assistance from the government.I cried for all of them.What I dont understand is how these monsters in washington we call our leaders who are against extending assistance to the long term unemployed can look themselves in the mirror or sleep at night.Are our congress and senate people even human?I really dont know how they live with the thought of so many who need their help to even have a chance at making it and they keep denying that to them.Im not a rich man as a matter of a fact Im a poor money when it comes to money but Im rich because any time I can help someone
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99er2049er
Democrats create jobs and build strong economies
01:28 AM on 03/22/2011
I for the life of me can't believe the GOP is this cold hearted and cruel. This is absolutely unbelievable. Even the Scrooge had more compassion at his darkest days before he realized how cruel he was and changed his ways. Do the republicans not learn from stories like this?

OK, I see the GOP wants to do all kinds of stuff for their wealthy and greedy base. But at least work with the dems on giving the poorest souls in this country some help while they try to get back to work. It will benefit everyone to help the unemployed. How can the GOP not pay attention to the $1.62 return on investment they get for every dollar invested? Compare that to the fraction of a return they get for the tax cuts for the wealthy.
06:39 PM on 03/10/2011
Mike,
Thanks for posting this story.
I was wondering how things turned out for her.
I am so glad Alexandra got some help and wonderful of those people to do this for her.
They say there are plenty of places to help people.
But the trouble is there is so much red tape that it is almost impossible to get any real help from these places. There sure needs to be a change done to the whole system, including the present unemployment system which has not changed since the depression days. I just hope we can get this H.R. 589 bill passed in time to help people like Alexandra Jarrin. And hope some Congressmen who can do something about making positive changes to the unemployment system so people do not wind up in these kind of situations.
12:15 PM on 03/09/2011
the unemployed are INVISIBLE
10:09 AM on 03/05/2011
Thorton , you must not care, because if you did , you would have started a Charity ..I'm sure the people in your circle have the means to donate ...
06:41 PM on 03/10/2011
QolourCouture ,
Mike does care.
That is why he wrote the story about Alexandra Jarrin.
11:00 PM on 03/04/2011
This is a very moving article. It would be the best possile scenario for Alexandria to get a job but in the meantime I wish our Congressional Right would stop their inane stance on helping the poor and unemployed and help get Representative Lee's bill for the unemployed (99er's) passed. The sad fact of the matter is that this almost certainly will not happen.
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99er2049er
Democrats create jobs and build strong economies
01:31 AM on 03/22/2011
When the republicans took over the house, I knew we were screwed. We barely got legislation passed when the dems still controlled the house. But look at this, the dems still control the senate and presidential office. We have got to have some bargaining power. I say block every single bill the republicans want until they include extensions for the unemployed, including the 99ers, period!!!

Why Obama didn't do this with the tax cuts for the rich, I have no clue. He could have easily pulled this off and had the perfect bargaining chip.
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democrats for life
republicans need not apply
04:08 AM on 03/22/2011
great post f & f
04:19 PM on 03/04/2011
Is there an older woman she can live with in exchange for light housekeeping and just watching out for her? There are lots of older people who need live-in help, often very light, but are scared to advertise for fear of getting abusive people, or drug users etc. I think a lot of us are going to have to look at this option if we become unemployed. And most people need the security of someone overnight, so when a job does become available they would often be able to work still. I hope she gets something. Perhaps ask all the churches down there if they know of a situation where they could be mutually helpful. mg
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thebearschick
11:51 PM on 03/03/2011
Why is there nothing in here about her work history and/or her skills? The best way to help Alexandra would be to find a suitable job for her.
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Michael Thornton
07:04 AM on 03/04/2011
Thanks for your concern. You make a good point and I will add some of her background shortly.
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99er2049er
Democrats create jobs and build strong economies
01:33 AM on 03/22/2011
The bigger picture here is she represents so many people out of work. I say help her find a job. Then lets keep bringing up more people like this and how they reflect so many millions struggling to put food on their tables. I like the combination of writing about one person out of work as well as millions out of work.