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Standing for Sybrina Fulton on Mother's Day

Posted: 04/22/2012 12:13 pm

Thirteen. That was how many times my mother stood and collapsed at my brother Eddie's funeral. He was so full of mischief, magic, and life, so very full of life. Eddie was seventeen years old, just like Trayvon Martin. Had it not been for her three surviving devastated, disoriented adolescent daughters, my mother would have died too. I know this to be true, as she told me years later. Death would have been preferable to the unimaginable pain that accompanies burying a child. My mother not only didn't die, she recovered and re-imagined a rich, fulfilling life for herself; but it took time and a mighty outpouring of love.

Sybrina Fulton has refreshed the memory of the debilitating pain of my mother, who could barely stand; seeing Sybrina standing at podiums and press conferences, surrounded by men and microphones, has been remarkable. With her eyes so soft, with tears just a blink away, her open heart was the only thing holding her up. So many times I've wanted to reach through the screen and hug Sybrina and say, I feel you, my sister. I'm sure many have. We know Sybrina Fulton. She's the classic American working mother. She is the mother who lost her child. Sybrina represents all mothers who have lost children to guns, through war, gangs, and homicide. The image of Sybrina Fulton recalls all mothers who have lost children, lost them in the system, lost them in prison, lost them in addiction. Mothers who lose children stand outside the natural order of life. It can be a violently lonely place if left alone.

I will not, we will not, leave Sybrina Fulton alone. That is the meaning and the mission behind the #4Sybrina Campaign. We want to send Sybrina a mighty outpouring of love to keep her standing.



Did You Know:

The First Mother's Day Proclamation was written in 1870 by Julia Ward Howe a passionate member of the American Anti-Slavery Society as a call to disarmament and peace as a reaction to the carnage of the Civil War. Howe believed women had a responsibility to shape their societies at the political level.

According to the US Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the leading cause of death for black males 18-24 is homicide.

 
 
 

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Thirteen. That was how many times my mother stood and collapsed at my brother Eddie's funeral. He was so full of mischief, magic, and life, so very full of life. Eddie was seventeen years old, just li...
Thirteen. That was how many times my mother stood and collapsed at my brother Eddie's funeral. He was so full of mischief, magic, and life, so very full of life. Eddie was seventeen years old, just li...
 
 
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02:02 PM on 04/24/2012
An innovator, an activist, a mom and a daughter. Michaela Angela Davis reminds us all to be exactly what we were put on this Earth to be...a Light and an ambassador of peace and service. I am MADFree!!
12:11 AM on 04/24/2012
My prayers are with Trayvon's Mother and Father as you know GOD is in control,,,not the system.....
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martharadarears
tired and retired
03:24 PM on 04/23/2012
I can't believe the hateful posts that are here. If you can't say something nice to this grieving mother, don't say anything at all. Take your spite to another thread.
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martharadarears
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03:22 PM on 04/23/2012
Sybrina, my youngest daughter was shot to death, so I can well imagine what you are going through. You have my deepest sympathy. I hope Zimmerman's trial is a fair and honest one, ending in a conviction. I am convinced that Trayvon did not deserve to be killed.
Love from your sister Anne Wingate
03:00 PM on 04/23/2012
Please i pray justice will prevail. My opinon is that and over zealous young adult was itching to take the law of the land in his own hands and meet out his owm brand of wrongful judtice
I truely belive he is sorry now that the full weight of his actions are a reslity.To bad TRAYVON`s promising career we`ll never know. This country needs to grow and listen to thier spirial rightousness not be deticted be the media who has but one agenda, . So let the haters hate the haters threr are a lot more [eople we want to live life in a harmonious way remember our heritage of the world belongd to us alllllllll!!!!!!! so be fruitful and multipy the generiousity love. and when a crime has been committed deal with it as one nation under GOD!!
02:24 PM on 04/23/2012
Please i pray justice will be done!! my opinion is tha a over zealous young adult was itching to take the law of the land in his hands and meet out wrong ful justice i truely believe he is sorry now but sorry will not bring back the promising career thar young TRAYON had ahead of him . this country will never grow if we dont grow as a as spirital people first stop lead the media lead us around bynour common sense think for oue selves and let the haters hate eachother because theres a hell a lot a more poeple who wanr to see a loving society and a furitful society share in our heritage our the world
02:14 PM on 04/23/2012
LOVE will always trump hate... And I will send MAD love to Sybrina. Her pain is something I can not fathom, my child is safe and her son was taken by a hateful broken man. I pray that she can thrive in the future and find serenity in her God. The love of my family is with hers.
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Martin Colt
01:50 AM on 04/23/2012
Why do we have to hear about her mothers day? Ohh .. thats right .. your playing the poor grieving mother card. Hey she did not even take the apology she said she wanted.. She has no clue what she wants
06:04 AM on 04/23/2012
I dont get people like you..She lost her son,thats a sad thing.Have a heart and if you dont want to know about her or anything to do with this-dont come to the page.Simple
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Bella Lee
06:50 AM on 04/23/2012
Zimmerman never apologized for what HE did to her son only for her loss
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robjh1
We Have Met the Enemy and he is Us: Pogo
01:40 AM on 04/23/2012
Lover never dies. We are helpers one to the other. We help carry our brothers' and sisters' burdens. Peace and justice.
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Rubenillo
The truth always prevails
03:45 PM on 04/22/2012
Most kids that grow in bad neighborhood tend to get in trouble with gangs and fights, I am talking from experience, I chose not to belong to any gang but on more than one location I was pick on and had to fight, well my point is that I lean from those experience and when I married and had kids, I moved to a better neighborhood so my kids where able to attend better schools. So I blame mothers and fathers that raises this kids in those areas don't tell me you did not make enough money, my wife and I went out and got a second job in other to afford our new mortgage and the higher cost of living in the better area, as a mom and dad you have to sacrifice yourself in other that your kids will not end like those you mention, I am sorry for the mothers that has lost a child under those circumstances.
09:34 PM on 04/22/2012
Why even bother saying you feel sorry for those mothers when you first blamed them? That was pretty apathetic.
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Rubenillo
The truth always prevails
09:58 PM on 04/22/2012
I have to blame them, b/c if you live and stay, to race your family in a bad neighborhood your chances that your child get in trouble are big. read my comment again and clear you brains from hate.
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Ken Ratcliff
10:44 PM on 04/22/2012
You missed her point completely. Read it again and see if she's talking about economics or better living conditions.She's referring to the emotional struggles many women face who loose a children to violence. You my good man are fortunate in that this ghost has not crossed your doorstep. But whether you live in upper suburbia or in the projects, it doesn't take much for a fool to assume he's doing the neighborhood a favor by profiling, your young black kid, whose coming from the store, holding a bag of skittles and a bottle of tea. Get real will you?
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Rubenillo
The truth always prevails
04:32 AM on 04/23/2012
I don't believe in ghost and you are the one that got to get real.
01:42 PM on 04/22/2012
Strength Love and Courage be with all Mothers
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Just mad
We strive for freedom in a free land
01:01 PM on 04/22/2012
Yes, I do feel her pain I lost my child by someone hands and I had to pray daily for peace that I didn't try to kill that person. If it wasn't for my mother and sister I would have crumbled. You never get over the pain of the doctor saying I'm sorry. It's been 32 years and I still member the day what was said what I was doing. Mother day to all mother's but to the ones that have lost their child stand strong it gets better so if you think you will get to the point that you will forget don't even try to get to that point it's not going to happen.
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DoveSong
FED UP with the violence. Where's the LOVE?
08:15 PM on 04/22/2012
I am sorry for your loss... May God also bless you in your survival and keep you forever in his care.
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novabird
Lover of Life, Radical Centrist
03:40 PM on 04/23/2012
God Bless both of you and all mothers who grieve.