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Face It: A Summer Without Mad Men?

Posted: 04/ 8/11 11:13 AM ET

I think back to when they closed Eigers, my family's favorite ice cream shop. My young son literally bawled, imagining California visits to Poppa and Grammy without the nightly trek to grab some one-of-a-kind Rainbow Sherbet. We all have places, things and flavors that signify "it must be California," "it must be spring," "it must be summer." They are so seemingly dependable that we rarely stop to simultaneously lament, "I must be a year older." Remember in To Kill A Mockingbird how the annual summer arrival of Dill ("I'm little but I'm old") always meant the adventures could begin for neighbors Scout and Gem? Traditions are there for a reason. They bring comfort and a sense of stability when all else may seem to be uncertain.

All this is a long way of saying I am deeply pissed to hear Mad Men won't be returning until at least 2012. Pardon the whining, but I hate lawyers and agents and networks and greedy if genius creators. I WANT MY DON DRAPER. July has come to mean a lot of lovely things, but for me, returning to the '60s and catching up with Don, Bette, Peggy, Roger and Co is right up there.

So your first question is: Can her life be so sad that this is all she has to look forward to? A good question. Clearly, I need to find something else wonderful to do on Sunday nights at 10 that have nothing to do with Jon Hamm. I consider myself pretty good at spinning to find the positive, so I am determined to think of this as an unexpected gift, a new and available hour during which to find something productive or creative to do. Though I think back on a friend once saying he had grown a beard so he could have that extra 15 minutes every day that he had wasted shaving. "The only problem," he later admitted, "was that I suddenly had 15 minutes with nothing to do." I will rise above that, maybe use the time to catch up on that hour of sleep we all just lost.

Your second question: Isn't there some other show as tantalizing and involving? Even though only a thimble-sized percentage of the population watches Mad Men, the answer is simply no. Not only is it beautifully produced, written and performed, it is great history. Not to mention that it ended on a record number of surprise notes, leaving us literally hanging on those cliffs of wonder. I know there is a pun about premature cancellation or something here, but I am too overwrought to find it.

Your final question is, of course: What if Mad Men never returns, if all this negotiating comes to naught? There is truly no positive spin, except that of the always beneficial exercise of testing one's own inner strength and endurance. If I survive this, I can survive anything. I'm not losing all perspective here. We suffer loss every day, far more serious than the disappearance of a television series. We find other ice cream shops that make their own yummy flavors. We find new mates. We find new quarterbacks. Speaking of which, a big shout out of sympathy to all those NFL fans who are looking at a potential gameless season. You too are likely mourning what you will not be watching. (Matter of fact, what are you doing that third Sunday night in July?)

I am curious what HuffPost readers would do with that extra hour.

 
I think back to when they closed Eigers, my family's favorite ice cream shop. My young son literally bawled, imagining California visits to Poppa and Grammy without the nightly trek to grab some one-o...
I think back to when they closed Eigers, my family's favorite ice cream shop. My young son literally bawled, imagining California visits to Poppa and Grammy without the nightly trek to grab some one-o...
 
 
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Jake Thomas
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04:11 PM on 04/10/2011
That is the only thing I show I watch that is not porn.
04:03 PM on 04/10/2011
Completely understanding your disappointment.
I waited for the perfect time (no phone calls, no work anxieties, no family issues) to watch it.
Now what will I do with my perfect time? Smoking? Yes. Drinking whisky? Maybe. Waiting for Peggy knocking at my door? For sure.
But I guess it won't be the same thing. I'm lost too.
(I'm a tv-series-addicted but Mad Men was my favorite. It took me 6 years to find a comedy series who could be compared to Frinds. Just saying...)
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thesidetrek
10:51 AM on 04/10/2011
We plan to watch last season's MadMen, one episode every Sunday. Sad, indeed. Looking forward to the next season and MadBen's career launch in the Fall. Will he become the next Don, Pete, Roger?
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Trillian Dent
09:22 PM on 04/09/2011
Michele, I feel you pain! If it's a Mad Men fix you need, do yourself a favor and find the Mad Men Recap podcast. Two brothers, Paul and Dr. John, recap and discuss episodes of Mad Men with charm and wit. Paul mixes a wicked Manhattan and is an ad man himself, a graphic artist living in Brooklyn. Dr. John, based in Columbus, Ohio, sounds like Jon Hamm (really!) and their patter is delightful. They dive into each episode discussing "Betty Monster", Don, Roger and the rest with delight, but throw in enough snarkiness to make it fun. Find it on iTunes or go to www.madmenrecap.com. You can also find Mad Men Recap on Facebook. They started the podcast mid season 3 and have been going back and recapping the first two seasons, posting a new 90 minutes podcast yesterday. It's going to get me through the dry season. Try it, you'll like it. There is no other Mad Men podcast that comes close.
03:48 PM on 04/10/2011
Trillian great hint, thanks!
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CubanVoice
Hope common sense goes viral.
07:54 PM on 04/09/2011
I feel your pain- ABSOLUTELY! i feel used. Reel us in, play with our emotions and then they got us. I'll miss it this summer too, as I hwve since the last episode. It's just not right!
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wishfulslinkings
04:23 PM on 04/09/2011
The ONLY series I watch.

Oh, well, I am having a MM party in July and Sal is coming ;)
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Chad Wheeler
06:22 PM on 04/09/2011
If you are sincere about that, I am sitting here in my chair turning green.
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CubanVoice
Hope common sense goes viral.
07:54 PM on 04/09/2011
X2
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wishfulslinkings
03:05 PM on 04/11/2011
Yepper, though not a feat, as he lives around the corner from my NOLA place, old neighbors, etc. His bf will be there too.
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Lokah Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu
12:11 PM on 04/09/2011
What I can't figure out is what they're going to do about Sally. She is going to be so much older than her character. They replaced Bobby, but that was ok. The CANNOT replace Kiernan Shipka. She is perfect.
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wishfulslinkings
04:24 PM on 04/09/2011
They will ignore it and film.
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CubanVoice
Hope common sense goes viral.
07:56 PM on 04/09/2011
Time always passes between episodes and seasons on this show. The story will hwve to account for that.

Im hoping Don is no longer with Megan when the show returns. Sorry, I know it was a popular move but I didnt like it then and seethe thinking they are still together. Obviously, I am emotionally involved.
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Lokah Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu
09:47 AM on 04/10/2011
Yes, that whole Megan thing was weird. And giving her THAT ring? Ugh.
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TheOin2012
My micro-brew is empty.
10:49 PM on 04/15/2011
"I am marrying Miss Calvet."

Wha?
10:21 PM on 04/08/2011
I was bummed out too. I was really looking forward to this season.
09:49 PM on 04/08/2011
Without Mad Men, I'm going to have to compensate by simply playing out the series in real life.

I'm gonna drink, smoke, and snap my fingers and demand that women bring me my drink and my smokes.

And maybe come up with some pitches for various products.
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Lokah Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu
12:13 PM on 04/09/2011
That's really funny.
But....I'll just bet your wife/girlfriend/any female you know, will hop right to it.
04:14 PM on 04/11/2011
Some women like that kind of stuff.
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wishfulslinkings
04:23 PM on 04/09/2011
My kinda a guy
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cungar
06:06 PM on 04/08/2011
Step outside and take a walk.
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kapalabhati
Lokah Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu
12:15 PM on 04/09/2011
Hm. Guess you're not a fan.
You know what, at 10:00 on Monday nights, I'm really not stepping outside to take a walk. Instead, I'm fixing a Manhattan and sitting down to watch Mad Men. You should try it some time.
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wishfulslinkings
04:23 PM on 04/09/2011
to God's ears....
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hismuse
12:11 PM on 04/08/2011
As long as I have Breaking Bad this summer I'm ok.
11:51 AM on 04/08/2011
But we will have Simon Cowell's 'X Factor'
And for that I'm so glad, we've been having such a shortage of fabricated drama reality shows...
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wishfulslinkings
04:24 PM on 04/09/2011
Blasphemy to mention such vileness on this thread.
11:00 AM on 04/11/2011
Are you saying Simon Cowell is vile, or reality shows?
I agree with both, just curious.