The right emphasizes the gayducation of children while proponents focus on family values.

Maine legalized same sex marriage this past June but The Right Wing managed to put it on the ballot for this November. Here's how the TV wars are going:

The commercials from the Right do not...

Women can do it because they can attach erotic desire to personality traits. Men? Ha!

That's why most of us live within the narrow confines of our sexual bandwidth. The point was poignantly made by one gay guy who wrote to me:

"Guys nearly always want someone with their...

As the author of the first body language book for gay men, I'm often asked how male body language affects guy-on-guy dating. The answer: plenty. But to understand why certain postures, gestures and expressions make you more appealing to gay guys, you have to understand the 5 major principles of...

If you can't master the keys on the phone you're never going to get the keys to his door.
Studies show the average person sends or receives over 100 texts a year. If you've met somebody you're interested in, you've gotta learn the art of going from textual to...

What happens when police think sex poses a greater threat than home invasions?

Atlanta's gay community woke up with a shock last week when they learned that dozens of cops stormed into a tranquil gay bar, forced 62 patrons to lay on the grubby floors face down for...

How could something like this happen in Martin Luther King's home town?

The following occurred about a mile away from my home in Atlanta, Georgia at 11:30 p.m. on Thursday, September...

Everybody knows frowning and crossing your arms is the equivalent of throwing Kryptonite at the Superman you're hawkin' on, but what about barely noticeable body language?

If you're skeptical about how the subtlest body language affects gay love lives, play a game with me.

Straighten your arm as if you...

There's a rash of plunging necklines across the country as women (and men)...

Where the women at? It's hard to imagine heterosexual men sitting on the Barcalounger fast-forwarding through gay porn, but they probably couldn't find a better way to learn how to please women.

My friend, blogger Susan Walsh, came up with the idea of straight guys watching gay porn as...

The results of Trojan's nationwide sex survey shows show that Americans are living in Lake Wobegon-- where all the women are strong, the men are good looking, and the sex is above average. Yes, the average American believes they have an above average sex life.

I usually ignore corporate-sponsored sex...

... And Elliot Spitzer, John Edwards and Bill Clinton.

We can't understand why these guys handled the aftermath of their affairs with such monumental stupidity, but, inject us with truth serum, banish the women and you'll get a rather inconvenient truth: We understand why they did it.

We understand the...

I'm furious at my girlfriends. As more and more gay guys adopt their dating strategies (no sex without dating), people like me are getting less and less sex.

I'm from the old school. I believe in sex before dating.

There's a reason for that. Nothing kills sexual attraction more...