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What Does America Stand For?

Posted: 06/27/11 04:56 PM ET

One of the luckiest and best things that ever happened to me and my family was when my folks decided to take a foster son into our family. I was 11 years old, and so was Kevin. I wasn't sure about him coming, because with my oldest sister moving out, I would have finally had a bedroom to myself when my older brother moved into her newly empty room, but I got over it quickly enough.

Kevin is developmentally and physically disabled because of brain damage he had suffered from child abuse. He can't talk very clearly (although those of us in the family can understand him pretty well), read much, or do much math. He has always moved pretty slow, and now has cerebral palsy and is having more and more trouble moving at all. But before getting CP, as long as he was able, Kevin went to work every Monday through Friday in structured workplaces, making money to support himself and pay taxes.

He is fun to be with, as engaging and good-natured as anyone I know. Although he's not able to talk very clearly, Kevin tells great stories, is genuinely funny, and is always interested in hearing about what is going on in my life. He has a better memory on some things than I do, and despite not being able to read a map, he is better at finding his way around Lincoln, Neb. (our hometown) than I am. He calls our mom every single day (which is better than I do) with stories about his day. Most importantly of all, he cares for others wherever he is. Since he left our house after we all grew up, and Mom and Dad got older, Kevin has mostly been in group homes in Lincoln. We still see him on holidays and whenever we come to town, but since leaving my folks' house, he has usually lived with others who have mental and/or physical disabilities. Even with his developmental challenges, his cerebral palsy, and the fact that he is losing some hearing and eyesight, Kevin has helped his housemates. For example, he has been a strong source of comfort, support and friendship for a young man he is living with now who is worse off than him in terms of his disabilities.

My brother Kevin, with all his challenges, is in every way the kind of person we would want in our society: a wonderful son, a great brother, someone who looks out for and helps everyone around him. This is the kind of person Republicans would leave by the side of the road in order to, as my friend Bob Creamer put it, "protect tax loopholes for CEOs who fly corporate jets." They would devastate Medicaid and programs for the disabled, so that the wealthiest most powerful people in America would not have to pay a single extra dime in taxes. But Kevin is not the only son of the middle class who would be badly hurt by the Republican position on the budget and the debt ceiling. Conservatives are threatening everything that helps support a decent middle class, including help for our family members who have disabilities; including money for education and student loans; including middle-class consumer protection from financial predators; including Social Security and Medicare for elderly folks. And they are playing chicken with our entire economy, because as a vast majority of economists believe, a debt ceiling default would traumatize a very weak economy. We could have another major financial panic, millions more in job losses. And all so that people making over $500,000 don't have to pay one more penny in taxes.

Now obviously, this is terrible policy, sociopathically insane. But it also goes to the core of who we are as a country, our deepest foundational values and vision of ourselves. Are we a nation built on Ayn Rand's philosophy, which celebrates selfishness and wealth above all other things, and mocks people like my brother Kevin as defective parasites? Or do we follow the ideas of Martin Luther King, Jr. who had a dream, "deeply rooted in the American Dream," that we would be an American family sitting down at the table of brotherhood where we were all judged on the content of our character? By that test, my brother Kevin would far outshine people like Paul Ryan.

Our economy is at stake in this budget and debt ceiling debate, perched on the edge of a precipice. But so is the content of our character as a country. I hope it is not found wanting.

 
 
 
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09:00 PM on 06/28/2011
One thing has been made clear in this (and other discussions in HP). Altruist/collectivists like to present a false alternative: either you have a government which initiates force - or you have anarchy (Somalia is apparently a favored example). Government which is limited to defense against the initiation of force? These supposedly well-educated, supremely enlightened souls apparently have never even heard of the idea!

Of course, they have heard of it. But it isn't an idea they are equipped to challenge by means of reason. They haven't an argument to justify thuggery - to justify 'might makes right' - because there is no justification for it. The initiation of force is immoral - evil. So they engage in massive evasion - utilizing every fallacy they can dredge up, from straw men, to ad homs, to the aforementioned false alternatives.

That is what we have here. The evil of initiating force (ie of the actions they demand) is what they are desperate to avoid addressing.
11:26 AM on 06/30/2011
"Altruist/c­ollectivis­ts like to present a false alternativ­e: either you have a government which initiates force - or you have anarchy".

So do you. You're so blinded by your philosphy that you aren't able to see it. You BELIEVE that one either subscribes to YOUR belief of objectivism, or they want to hold everyone at gunpoint...LITERALLY (as you've stated numerous times). We're discussing philosophy...and there exists NONE that is absolute. You consistently fail to understand this.

I've given you several definitions of the words that you use to describe people on this thread and you seem to not care about DEFINITIONS, but rather these loose, philosophical definitions that you have YET to verify. We're just supposed to believe you're right based on what you've deemed a "logical", or "rational" reasoning. I'm yet to see a description from you on WHY you believe your philosophy is absolute. You just keep SAYING it is. There's no substance with you...only fluff. But you keep accusing others of it, which makes you guilty of projection.

I've stated several times that if the only government you want is one where it's limited to "defense", then how does that work in THIS country? In what society has YOUR views been tried and been wildly successful? Name me some countries or times when this has worked. You have not as of yet. If you cannot back your philosophy with ACTUAL situations that PROVE it is the BEST method of living, then you have no point.
03:17 PM on 06/30/2011
"Altruist/collectivists like to present a false alternative..." "So do you. ... You BELIEVE one either subscribes to YOUR belief of objectivis­m, or they want to hold everyone at gunpoint..­.LITERALLY"

It is a *fact* that human beings can either interact with each other voluntarily or by physical force. If Moe believes there is a third alternative, he needs to name it.

I seek a government which is limited to a defense against the initiation of force - ie limited to defense against theft, rape, subjugation, slavery, murder, etc - rather than a government which allows or itself engages in any or all of them. When asked if he supports such a government, Moe explicitly rejected it. He *demands* a government which initiates force against its citizens. He claims there can be no such thing as a government which does NOT initiate force against its citizens.

Put simply, he is the perfect example of the premise I stated: that the collectivist/altruist wants everyone to believe there can only be government which initiates force - or no government. Government which is LIMITED to the defense against the initiation of force? As I said, they evade the concept completely. Moe proves it.

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03:25 PM on 06/30/2011
Pt 2

"then how does that work in THIS country"

Same way it did with slavery. You abolish it.

"In what society has YOUR views been tried and been wildly successful­?"

The United States came the closest. But, as with slavery, it has contradictions to its own principles. Of course, just as with slavery, such contradiction can and properly must be eliminated.

It is those who desire to initiate force who stand in the way of its abolition.

We are the modern abolitionists. Those who say freedom from the initiation of force simply 'can't work' are the modern defenders of subjugation - like the southern slave owners of old.

"PROVE it is the BEST method of living"

No one has to prove their freedom is "best" for them. That presumes others have the right to object to the individual's freedom from their initiation of force. They have no such right. They have no claim to the life or effort of anyone else whatsoever.

It is Moe who appeal to force - to a gun - as his argument. That is a logical fallacy. It is all the 'proof' one needs against his position.
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CelticMajic
The answer lies in each of us individually
01:32 PM on 06/28/2011
Mr. Lux, you are correct, our nation is so very despicable. Never taking care of those less fortunate. Never giving to private charities. Never helping less fortunate people at home or abroad. What a terrible place to live. We cannot heap enough enmity on our nation and its citizens--all are just greedy and without compassion.
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09:06 PM on 06/29/2011
No, not ALL of us, CelticMajic, only those in the government and on Wall Street.
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dirtydog1776
rub my soft, furry, objectivist tummy
12:53 PM on 06/28/2011
Yes, how well you know me. I want to leave your brother by the "side of the road." I also want to take your Grandparent's Medicare away so when they die with no dignity in their own filth, a huge corporation can grind up their bodies and because they oceans are dead, be sold as Soylent Green.

Your article is intellectual pap that sounds good but does not address the real issues. I have no doubt that some politicians and businessmen, both Democrats and Republicans, benefit from huge salaries, tax breaks, etc. That is a separate issue.

In a free society, you may make the choices that affect your life. You may chose to work to improve the quality of your brother's life (a very worthwhile goal by the way). That is the virtue of selfishness a la Ayn Rand, in which you pick the things that are most important to you.

Your support of a raising the debt limit is typical of those that wish to continue to borrow money to "help others," and will most likely will never be repaid so they can promote their own special interests at the expense of others. In the long run, this approach will not help people, but hurt them. Your brother will the first left by the"side of the road" by the economic system you are promoting.
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03:46 PM on 06/28/2011
We are the richest nation that this planet has ever seen. Stop with the bs. We do not have to let our seniors "die with no dignity" in this nation. A lucky few have managed to stop the natural flow of capital, and keep the spoils for themselves. This needs to stop.
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dirtydog1776
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04:13 PM on 06/29/2011
Yup, all those evil businessmen (who probably work in your neighborhood!), speculators and others who have done nothing to deserve what they have are guilty or looting, stealing and worse. People like my My Daddy who worked hard all his life, saved his money and made good choices, should be taxed heavily. That will teach him a lesson and he certainly won't do it again. The good news is that in the end, we will all be equal in our poverty, expect the politicians and their friends.
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Silverpegasus
09:07 PM on 06/29/2011
I wouldn't call them "lucky" OnAndOnSOH! They planned this whole thing.
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09:08 PM on 06/29/2011
Do you actually believe that this is about average people working hard?. I have several family members who run their own businesses. My Mom ran her own business. That is not what this is about. We are talking about the wealth of this nation. The numbers are far beyond what your Dad has in his bank account. That is not what this is about.
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Dead Che
Reunite Pangea!
12:34 PM on 06/28/2011
Get the lay-abouts off the dole and there will be plenty left to help the helpless.
ByAndForThePeople
and corporations aren't people!
04:10 PM on 06/28/2011
One presumes you're referring to Big Oil, Big Pharma, Big Ag, Big Finance, and the other multinational corporations that continue to get huge taxpayer subsidies and bailouts in spite of record profits.
08:40 PM on 06/28/2011
Yes. ALL off the dole. Not just left or right pet projects off the dole. Next supposedly 'pithy' comment?
12:33 PM on 06/28/2011
My husband and I were very lucky in that we received excellent educations in college and law school and enjoy a six-figure household income well above the national average. We also understand, however, that it isn't free to live in a civilized society, and we expect to pay for the privilege (I'm not sure why so many in our tax bracket feel they have no responsibility to the country and the society that gave them so many opportunities). We travel frequently overseas and have been to places where there is a monied elite, a tiny or non-existent middle-class and a large, hopeless majority who live in poverty, with no prospects, inadequate education, poor or non-existent healthcare, and a government that does nothing to aid them. I for one don't want to live in such a society, a society with a weak or non-existent middle class, where the government serves the interests only of its wealthiest citizens. We are our brother's keepers, and when we help others we help ourselves. You would think a country (and a political party) that calls itself "Christian" would feel a greater sense of social responsibility.
Berettasskeeter
For what we are about to receive, may we be truly
12:40 PM on 06/28/2011
I trust you are donating all your non-essential money to the government, which will put it to such good uses as it sees fit?! Obviously, you cannot give it to charity, who will use it as they promise, as that would compromise your principles, right?
The government is NOT the vehicle for helping those who NEED it. We, as individuals, are the vehicle. The government does very little in an efficient manner!
Semper fi
01:01 PM on 06/28/2011
Given the Semper fi and past conversations I know you are ex-military.

We were sold on outsourcign for the military on the grounds that private contractors can be so much more efficient than the military--because, after all, according to you righties the government is so inefficient.

So tell me--do you think hiring KBR in Iraq and Afganistan has been more efficient? Do you think the electricuted soldiers would agree? Do you still agree every time we hear about billions more in fraud?

Even in they were more efficient, it wouldn't necessarily mean it was for the public good.
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Silverpegasus
09:11 PM on 06/29/2011
WE as individuals ARE the government. Those in Washington, DC are only supposed to be our "representatives", but they have decided they are much more - they are the kings and queens.
12:06 AM on 06/30/2011
I was going to reply to your argument, but I discovered that you didn't have one... all your wrote about is about how rich and sensitive you are. Well done! [sarcasm]
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Delmark Goldfarb
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12:28 PM on 06/28/2011
What does America stand for? The victory of greed over compassion. The biggest flag mounted anywhere in the nation is a gargantuan "stars and stripes" comforter which shades Wall Street.
11:59 AM on 06/28/2011
Yes, because demonizing the other side is a such a productive, original, and intellectual argument and has gotten so much done. How about offering a better solution, one that is actually economically viable and actually deals with the problem. The whole, lets make the people actually offering a real, viable solution that doesn't screw over our economy by raising taxes look like jerks by telling a sob story from your past. If you don't like the plan posed, offer a solution, but don't just get in the way by trying to tug at the heart strings of people who can't really fix the issue to begin with. I'm disappointed.
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11:17 AM on 06/28/2011
Republicans are economic Darwinist's, They have no use for those who can no longer tow the line, or never could. They simplify the thought and call them lazy or useless. Remember those loving words uttered by Kissinger, worthless eaters. The Ayn Rand's narcissistic society is in full speed ahead, all of you who can't keep up get out of the way.
Berettasskeeter
For what we are about to receive, may we be truly
12:42 PM on 06/28/2011
Nonsense. We stand for people working and supporting themselves, who can! We also stand for assisting those who CANNOT help themselves. This leaves out the baby mills, and other layabouts. The author's stepbrother would NOT be left in the cold, but his family MUST first do ALL they can to help him. The government is NOT the first alternative!
Semper fi
01:03 PM on 06/28/2011
Guess what--Reagan's "welfare queen" myth was debunked decades ago.
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Silverpegasus
09:13 PM on 06/29/2011
Seems to me this stepbrother is helping himself. He is working and earning a living and helping others along the way.
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dirtydog1776
rub my soft, furry, objectivist tummy
01:05 PM on 06/28/2011
American has traditionally been the most generous of all people in the history of the world. As the economy crumbles, taxes rise, wages fall and government intervention increases, helping others or working for worthy causes becomes less of an option. Then the government cries how heartless people must be regulated, taxed and controlled for the common good. Ayn Rand never advocated discarding those less able, but a society in which individuals could make choices embracing the values they hold most highly. If the writer thinks his brother is worthy of help, he his free to sacrifice for him. If you think charity for others is good, you are free to engage in it. It could be owning a business or being a teacher. In retrospect, the people that have helped society the most are those that are productive and create wealth. The government creates no wealth, merely takes away and usually redistributes in an inefficient, unfair manner. Why do you think most politicians today leave office richer than when they went in? Obama is one of them.
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Dredd
Our government is a wartocracy.
11:16 AM on 06/28/2011
It seems that what American stands for is in flux, is liquid not solid, and could be "slipping into a slide zone" ...

http://blogdredd.blogspot.com/2011/06/new-government-climate-change-policy.html
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WilliamBradford
Veritas vos Liberabit
11:04 AM on 06/28/2011
This article hits on a core issue that divides Americans.

In an earlier time, the author's brother would have stayed at home. Other members of the family might have stayed nearby in order to help. This might not have been the best thing for everyone, but he would have had the care of those who loved him most, and other people would not have been expected to bear the cost. The family would have had to make it work. Local people in their community and church would have chosen to help them and that help would have been personal and appreciated.

I am my brother's keeper, but the question is: to what extent am I your brother's keeper? We continue to creep closer to a society where we expect, or even demand, that someone else bear the cost and the effort of making things work out. We expect that the government, using money that has not been freely given and for which thanks are never received, will provide. We look to those nameless "rich" people to supply all the benefits that we deserve.

This kind of emotionally-charged class warfare is dishonorable and not what America is about. But it's this kind of discourse that we get with Democrat leaders attempting to convince people that all of our problems could be solved by more taxation.
dhodge
Atheist Libertarian, No god, No gov't.
11:23 AM on 06/28/2011
Oh my gosh, I'm speechless; that was the most profound thing written on here all morning; where have you been all day?
11:57 AM on 06/28/2011
You've missed the point completely. The question is what do we VALUE as a society? Do we value human life and the dignity of each person? Or do we value wealth and regard it as sacrosanct, no matter how much the accumulation of wealth in a few hands may demean the human values of our society at large?

We live in a country where the Supreme Court has decided that money is equivalent to free speech and that corporations are persons. Meanwhile, the soulless Republican party is making a hard drive towards eradicating any sense of community, of nationhood or of shared responsibility for civil society entirely. Their "vision" for America is Ayn Rand's paradise of superior beings dictating to the slovenly masses who are lucky to be allowed to live. It's the standard authoritarian ideal. It has nothing to do with American founding principles or the American dream. It's just the age old human struggle where the strong dominate the weak - and when government has been neutered, as they seek to do, then there is nothing standing in the way of their form of plutocratic dictatorship.

It will be a rude awakening when most of these teabaggers realize they are on the losing end of the process their stupidity has enabled. But if we let it happen, it will be too late. It's much easier to destroy middle class America than it was to build it up.
01:03 PM on 06/28/2011
"Do we value human life and the dignity of each person?"

By pulling out a (govt) gun and demanding other people's money or their life, you demonstrate that you do NOT value human life at all. You place your desire for stolen wealth above "human life and the dignity of each person".
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WilliamBradford
Veritas vos Liberabit
01:16 PM on 06/28/2011
The fastest way to eradicate real community is to empower centralized structures. This is true of a federal government administering the lives of 300 Million people. It is true of an international union alleging to represent the needs of millions of individuals. There is nothing more "soulless" than these "progressive" institutions. The evidence of their ability to destroy our American communities, both physical and ideological, is all around us.

You have a typically superficial view of Rand's ideas. Her dream for all people was that they seek individual excellence. It was the opposite of authoritarianism and dictatorship, which are the domain of centralized collectives. Her heroes like Howard Roark pursued "the conquest of nature" and despised those whose "concern is the conquest of men."
10:04 AM on 06/28/2011
"sociopathically insane": the most pithy descriptor of the entire right wing.
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jeanrenoir
09:54 AM on 06/28/2011
Since the Boomers took control of America twenty years ago, their central narcissistic mantra "looking out for No. 1" is what America "stands for." It's no surprise now that rich Boomers care only about their precious selves, and the poor and disabled can go to the devil as far as the rich Boomers are concerned.
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haval2
what to say?
10:59 AM on 06/28/2011
Not all Boomers are rich. Many Boomers are involved in many altruistic endeavors. If you want to talk about Republicans and their hate for America by making the poor, the sick the young and the old bear greater burdens than the rich, then perhaps you need to direct your grievance to the Republicans and their Family Values...not ALL the Boomers. You indeed have no idea what I do or my fellow Boomers do. We were former hippies not all of us left for Wall Street.
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WilliamBradford
Veritas vos Liberabit
11:29 AM on 06/28/2011
And not all Family Values Republicans are rich either, in fact most are not. It's sad how eager the "former hippies" are to become entrenched in their prejudices and label everyone with stereotypes. That's not cool, man.

Maybe the biggest thing we inherited from the Boomers, no matter where they ended up, is an adolescent tendency to blame someone else and avoid taking any real responsibility.
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sharonlmomofthree
09:37 AM on 06/28/2011
I have an autistic 14 year old son who also lives in a group home. His disability became much more prounounced when he hit puberty. He became comabtive and starting running away and we could no longer care for him. It broke my heart, but he actually likes the group home he is in. I think one reason for this is that he is accepted for who he is and is in a compeletly nurturing environment. You're right, he would be another "casualty" if the GOP got their way, another "deadbeat who refuses to work." I worry constantly about his future. We are our brother's keeper. How sad that those who suffer from disabilities they did not ask for will only continue to be punished.
dhodge
Atheist Libertarian, No god, No gov't.
10:13 AM on 06/28/2011
I have Aspergers and have a bachelor's degree, graduated top of my HS class, work a full time job with benefits, pay taxes, receive NO government aid (nor did any of my family my entire life bc I'm 28 now ans autism wasn't really known when I was a kid)... Granted, not all disabilities are classified the same, as different forms of Autism aren't either, but just because one person can't physically care for themselves and another can, doesn't mean it's justified to steal from (read: tax) everyone else to pay for someone else's situation. We've all got problems and could use some help; when we start arbitrarily letting government make distinctions as to who should get help and who shouldn't; we become helpless ourselves and buy into the cycle of government dependency. Let people help because they want to do the right thing; not because Uncle Sam forces them to 'care'...
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Silverpegasus
10:06 PM on 06/29/2011
Nobody is forcing me to care, I don't mind paying taxes to help those who need it. I do, however, greatly mind paying taxes to cover the rear-ends of Wall Street gamblers who screwed up and are now making tons of money, when they originally had more than they needed for one lifetime!
10:17 AM on 06/28/2011
"How sad" that some think theft at govt gunpoint is moral and removal of that gun is 'punishment' because they will no longer gain ill gotten goods.

What an expression of "brotherhood".
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exoevolution
light & love transform greed & war
09:33 AM on 06/28/2011
Greed is rotting America's soul. Wall Street is an unholy citadel, fueled only by greed. The Pentagon is a corporate super-store, selling endless war at obscene costs, all for the glory of greed. Washington DC is a corporate-owned brothel, where the House of Corporate Representatives, the Imperial Senators of Corporate Empire, the 5 to 4 Supreme Corporate Court & finally the President, no President has become an outdated pre-corporate term, now it is Commander in Chief of War. These so-called people, in the government are the purveyors, the instruments, the pawns of corporate greed. Our government has become like the soulless "entities" that corporations are, mutant eternal shark like creations, existing only for "profit", the polite word for greed.

Our government (Legislative, Judicial, Executive) has become only an three headed "appendage" to a Leviathan Corporate Monster of Greed, that is now consuming, devouring, destroying a long ago, once great nation, that today has been reduced to an corporate-owned creature consumed by greed.

This Corporate Monster of Greed has been a long time coming. Make no mistake it is here & it is VERY hungry, VORACIOUSLY famished, for MORE, MUCH MORE - PROFIT!
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exoevolution
light & love transform greed & war
09:42 AM on 06/28/2011
Part 2 - A Warning!

"I see in the future a crisis approaching that unnerves me and causes me to tremble for the safety of my country. As a result of the war, "corporations" have been enthroned and an era of corruption in high places will follow, and the "money power" of the country will endeavor to prolong its reign by working upon the prejudices of the people until "wealth is aggregated in a few hands" and the Republic is destroyed. I feel at this moment more anxiety for the safety of my country than ever before, even in the midst of the war."
- Abraham Lincoln
Nov. 21, 1864
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monilove42
What is a micro-bio?
10:21 AM on 06/28/2011
Very few people are intuitive enough to see what's coming down the pike...Abraham Lincoln was one of those people.
09:22 AM on 06/28/2011
Ahh more demagoguery Republicans want to kill people, blah, blah, blah. You may want to ask yourself which group (liberals or conservatives) are the larger charitable givers (read those that put their money where their mouth is). On second thought you may not want to know this answer as it may challenge your worldview. You may also not want to know that your parents are in the same company as Michelle Bachman who fostered 23 children in addition to raising her 5. I'm not sayin', I'm just sayin'.
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monilove42
What is a micro-bio?
10:17 AM on 06/28/2011
A true charitable person is one who does not brag or boost or wonder how it will look on his/her resume.
Berettasskeeter
For what we are about to receive, may we be truly
12:46 PM on 06/28/2011
It is not the conservatives who blew their horn on this issue.
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44jupiter
Okay, where's the damn ice?
11:31 AM on 06/28/2011
It's not charity when the government pays you to foster children, it's a profitable home business.
01:28 PM on 06/28/2011
Not a business either. A racket - mobsters pull out guns to get what they want. Businessmen engage in free trade.