During one of her shows a few years back, Oprah Winfrey made a profound and beautiful statement that I appreciated very much. She said, "We do shows about lots of 'stuff' and my 'favorite things,' but what people want more than anything else is to know that they're appreciated...that's the best gift of all."
At this time of year it's easy for us to get caught up in the stress of getting everything on our "list" crossed off, preparing for parties and events, and rushing around to buy last minute gifts. And, with money tight for many this year, there can be added stress when thinking about what gifts to get for family members, friends, co-workers and others.
Instead of just giving "stuff" for the holidays this year, what if we gave the people in our life the most meaningful gift of all: our appreciation? Let the people around you know what you appreciate about them and why.
What do you value most about your best friend? What is it about your kids that you really appreciate? What do you love best about your spouse? How does your co-worker or your boss make your job and life easier and more fun?
Expressing our heartfelt and genuine appreciation for the important people in our life is magical and it's essential to our ability to create happiness, fulfillment, loving relationships, healthy families, successful teams and productive communities. Appreciation is also an important element in effectively dealing with the stress, challenges and uncertainty that so many of us are facing these days.
This year, our holiday gifts can be expressions of true appreciation which will have real impact on our relationships and make our holiday season one to remember. And, with things the way they are these days, taking time to appreciate others and life is so important this year.
Here are three simple suggestions to make your holiday gifts and your holiday season special and meaningful:
Remember what most people want, more than almost anything else, is to know that they are loved, valued and appreciated. Appreciation truly is the best gift we can give to the people in our lives (for the holidays and at any time of the year).
Mike Robbins is a sought-after motivational keynote speaker, coach, and the bestselling author of "Focus on the Good Stuff" (Wiley) and "Be Yourself, Everyone Else is Already Taken"(Wiley). More info -- www.Mike-Robbins.com
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