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Mikhail Lyubansky

Posted: January 29, 2010 12:42 PM

Obama is Black? I Forgot...

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I enjoyed Obama's first State of the Union address, in large part because I like listening to our President. I like seeing our first African American President too. Though I'm not so naive as to think that it's an indication of a post-racial society (more on that later), I do think it's an important milestone in U.S. race relations. So, when Chris Matthews remarked that he forgot that Obama was Black for an hour, I was more than a little stunned. Admittedly, my first reaction was sarcastic. "I wonder if Chris Matthews will forget that McDonnell is white." I tweeted during the Governor's GOP response. By the time McDonnell finished his speech, I was already regretting it.

If you watch the Chris Matthews clip, you can't help but sense that he was, as @pittswiley tweeted, "trying to be profound and positive." He meant to celebrate the speech and Obama, not for their "whiteness" (though it certainly came across that way) but for their ability to transcend race. If he had chosen his words more carefully (or had better tools to discuss racial issues), I think Matthews would have said that, for an hour, he didn't see Obama as a racialized person, but only as the President of the United States. While even that statement would require some unpacking (what was it exactly about the speech that deracialized Obama?), I personally would have celebrated such a contribution from popular media to our discourse on race.

Unfortunately, as it was, Matthews's comment was completely insensitive & misguided. For one, it implied that many of the positive qualities that are often attributed to Barack Obama and that were on full display during the State of the Union -- his intelligence, his eloquence, his thoughtful presence -- are somehow antithetical to Blackness, that a Black person would not have such qualities. For one, Matthews contextualized his observation in a longer comment about a post-racial society, a notion that seems absurd given the continued realities of racial inequities in almost every arena of public life, as well as the racialized politics of the past year.

And so, on this morning after the State of the Union, I feel a bit inspired by the President's speech, but mostly sad that well-intentioned white liberals like Matthews continue to struggle to talk about race constructively. Though he clearly put his foot in his mouth, I applaud Matthews for having the courage to bring race into the conversation, even though it was clear that his inner voice was telling him to stop. It is tempting to conclude that he should have listened to his inner voice, but the truth is that I don't want the Chris Matthews of the world to stop talking about race. What I want is for them to have the tools to do it effectively and constructively.

Cross-posted from Race-Talk.

 

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bnyb
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01:41 PM on 02/01/2010
We are still talking about this? Worse, we are still taking offense? After days of back and forth-ing on this surely, we finally get what Matthews was trying to say that day.
I never thought I'd say but the tweeter (twit?) is correct.
Can we please move on now?
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04:45 AM on 02/01/2010
In inter-racial marriages, one does not think of one's partner as of this or that race, but one thinks of one's partner as exactly that - one's partner. It doesn't mean that one becomes unaware of one's partner's racial, ethnic, or religious background, only that those things become, as they should be, less important than the individual who has those characteristics.

Chris's statement does not bother me, but it does amuse me. He can be very insightful at some times, and rather naive at others - just like all of us.
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MaryMay
May your tears come from laughing
05:42 PM on 01/31/2010
I have a sense of what he meant, because I was once at the Washington D.C. ballet, and I was watching the dancers so intently and with such pleasure that it took me a while to realize that the principal male dancer was African-American.

I would like to think that Chris was as "caught up" in Obama's speech as I was in the ballet.

It becomes about content, not race.
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longtalldrink
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you wan
06:32 PM on 01/31/2010
The media makes us all "caught up" in the "normalness" of whiteness, so much so that we look upon minorities as something not "normal." Media=Power.
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Dupree
Speaking Truth to Lies
11:26 AM on 01/31/2010
I understood what Chris Matthew intended to say even if it was not as articulated well. I am a woman of African American/Native American descent and WAS NOT offended by what he said. No, I do not think he meant to imply that if one is intelligent, eloquent and possess a thoughtful presence..it is equated with being white...for then Matthew would have a difficult time explaining the last eight years of Bush who did not possess any of the qualities I just noted. No, I think Matthew was simply saying that "he" personally emerged above the beggarly elements that detect the color of the person speaking first...and found himself engrossed in the message...oblivious to the color for that hour. And let's not pretend that color does not matter. This does not help race relations to pretend the elephant is never in the proverbial room. It does us as a country no good to enter into the realm of denial. This does not help us. This is why many assumes that people of color always "play the race" card for they have convinced themselves it no longer exists....and is tucked away in the attic just to be used as a political ploy. NO, we are a country that is conscience of race no matter how much we protest and I for one welcome the dialogue and by the way....it is on both sides of the spectrum...whites and blacks SEE color.
09:59 AM on 01/31/2010
I do not like the POTUS for the policies that he is attempting to foist upon the US, but not once during his State of the Union lecture did I think of a black man. I get so tired of reading stuff said like "a notion that seems absurd given the continued realities of racial inequities in almost every arena of public life, as well as the racialized politics of the past year" and always attributing this stuff to the Republicicans or Conservitives, when really, it is the people on the left who continually bring up color. Don't you think it is time you all get past that?
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longtalldrink
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you wan
06:34 PM on 01/31/2010
...we will when "you all" stop portraying our President as a witch doctor or the joker.
12:34 PM on 02/01/2010
When you and your friends stop sending around "Watermelon patch WH" photos and stop accusing the Hawaiian-born POTUS of being a Kenyan, I might take you seriously.
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08:58 AM on 01/31/2010
This reminds me of the female commentators after Obama won the Democratic nomination. Middle aged liberal women's rights leaders were accusing younger women of betraying the women's movement. But a few enlightened political commentators had a different pont of view:

Maybe these young women (18-49), having grown up AFTER the civil rights and women's liberation movements, were now actually able to see a candidate based on his/her own merit rather than just seeing race or gender? When I talk to my own Gen-Y daughter, I realize just how color-blind and gender-blind her politics is. Which was what we were fighting for back in the 60s and 70s, wasn't it? To be recognized for our deeds rather than our color or gender. So here was actual proof the Revolution was over -- and we won. Those baby boomers were still thinking we had a long way to go.

Maybe the reason Chris Matthews had such a hard time expressing his sentiments was because, like me, he didn't think he'd be alive to see it actually happen. It's AMAZING to witness and to experience. And I'm a person of color. And I want to talk about his amazing realization too.

But instead of embracing it, people want to over-analyze this extraordinary realization. And so, they've ended up talking themselves into believing Matthews' moment was less than ordinary. Not me. In that moment, I was color-blind with him.
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09:59 AM on 01/31/2010
great post! and it is an honor to be your 1st fan!
Clevelandinwi
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06:07 AM on 01/31/2010
What we all have to realize is that 'racism' as an attitude is in all of us. It really is that simple. Once we take that step, then we can think and talk about it. On the positive-negative continuum, where am I? In other words, how much of MY racism is based on negative thoughts about anyone that is ethnically, racially or religiously different from me? We have the same positive-negative things going on with all of our 'attitudes'. The big problem is always created when we fail to deal with them. That failure is all over articles about racism as well as the comments about those articles. Think about it, talk about it and then we might, as human beings, slip ever so slightly toward the positive side.
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02:25 PM on 01/30/2010
I think his comment shocked because at the time no one was thinking of race as you don't think of such generalizations when you interact with people you are familiar with, racial issues can come to the foreground when racial questions are discussed - and it happened with Obama when he mentioned Gates - but during the State of the Union speech everyone was listening to the president
11:38 AM on 01/30/2010
oh c'mon peeps - I think most of us know what he was trying to get at. I think for him he was acually most amazed at himself - his OWN reaction that after spending so much of life seeing things and especially politics through a racial lens - it's unavoidable- that he caught himself there, watching the first American President of color, in and of itself an amazing fact, for an hour, and his color didn't cross his mind. This was a very big deal to him and he tried to express it.
02:30 AM on 01/30/2010
I remember when I attended a class on race relations and the professor referred to non-white people as people of color. When attempting to make a point about race I unwittingly used the phrase "colored people." The professor then, with kindness and grace, corrected me. I immediately realized the insensitivity and historical baggage that accompanied my words, and felt horrible.
There are several lessons to be learned from this experience. The first is that good-intentioned people sometimes make mistakes and are not immune to the racial climate in this country. The second is that when we want to change someones words or attitudes, gentleness and sound reasoning are the best tools in our box. I truly don't understand why we want to demonize well-intentioned people who choose words poorly or think about things in a racially loaded way. We can convert these people with kindness and logic!
08:55 AM on 01/30/2010
I agree that kindness and information are the most effective tools, but I really want to underscore the other point that you're making, which is that good intentions aren't enough. Chris Matthews doesn't need to be converted. He's already a convert. I know he wants racial justice. Anyone who watches this 90-second clip can see that. But like you said, good-intentioned people make mistakes. And when that happens, and they're public figures like Matthews, we can't give them a free pass because if we do, then we are endorsing their insensitive comments and creating a double-standard in which some people get to say racist things and some don't.

This is not to say that Chris Matthews's history of supporting racial justice doesn't matter. It does. It is because of this history that 'm not criticizing his character or his intentions or suggesting that he shouldn't stay on the air...my purpose was to point out why what he said is problematic (it's not obvious to everyone) and suggest how it might have been expressed differently. In your own words, I tried to do it with kindness, as I hope others will do with me when I unintentionally err, as I certainly do. I hope the kindness came through.
09:04 PM on 01/30/2010
It did.
12:07 AM on 01/30/2010
I wasn't taught to hate black people as a child. At 18, I moved to Arkansas and became exposed to the hatred white people have for blacks and the hatred blacks have for white people.

During the eighties, I worked at a department store. One day, a woman walked up to me and pointed over to the TV department and asked me if I knew a black guy that worked there. I thought for a second, trying to figure out who she was talking about. I said "I don't know of any black guys over there." or something to that effect. She prompted me further, saying that his name was Bill, or Billy, or Will or something. Then it struck me. "William, your talking about William".

William was and still is a man of African heritage. I didn't think of William as being "black". He was just William. It was a profound moment for me. It wasn't that I'm a great person for not thinking, or forgetting William was black. It was the fact that I realized that I had separated him from all the other "black" people I knew of. And while I was glad I could transcend race with friendship, it showed me just how deep the roots of difference, the roots of racism run.

I didn't "hate". But, I filtered my experiences. For Chris, for that hour, the filter came off. Until you have this experience yourself, you won't be able to relate to it.
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SemperVeritas
Truth be told
10:20 PM on 01/29/2010
Chris Matthews is "a white liberal"??

Really???

I almost forgot that Chris is white.
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longtalldrink
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06:37 PM on 01/31/2010
and a Liberal.
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Doug Watt
Not ready for 2012
09:50 PM on 01/29/2010
Matthews has reached doddering stage, reverting to telling unrelated stories of his time working for Tip O'neil in a desperate attempt at displaying relevancy.

But hold the phone: Chris Matthews is a Liberal? Do tell!
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urnumbersix
"I am not a Number. I am a Free Man!"
07:46 PM on 01/29/2010
You are so correct!
It's the same problem that people who strive for "color-blindness" end up in.

WHAT is so wrong about being black?
Why does it have to be "forgotten?"

Value judgments are unconsciously being made here. Black inferiority and White supremacy.
Exactly why is "black" bad and has to be "forgotten?"
12:45 AM on 01/30/2010
Because "black" and "white" are models of difference and of preference. They hidden the truth and obscure the reality. They keep the individual from being known. It restrains the greatness of humanity by limiting the individual from contributing to that further greatness, or by benefiting from it.
09:56 PM on 01/30/2010
You're wrong.
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06:56 PM on 01/29/2010
Thanks, Mikhail! :-))