Mona Ackerman

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Mona Ackerman is a clinical psychologist with a private practice in New York City. She has been an associate at Yale University’s Child Study Center, an adjunct professor at New York University’s Heyman Center for Fundraising and Philanthropy and the staff psychologist at one of New York’s foremost private schools. She received her doctorate (with distinction) from Yeshiva University’s Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology and has been a member of the American Psychological Association since 1986. In inadvertent preparation for a career in psychology, Dr. Ackerman has worked as a senior book editor and for a major Hollywood studio.

Blog Entries by Mona Ackerman

Suicide And Girls

Posted July 3, 2008 | 07:57 AM (EST)


Q: My niece just committed suicide. She is the 20-year-old daughter of my older sister. Needless to say, my sister is devastated and doesn't understand why this happened. I, of course, hesitate to tell her that Pam had long been on a path of self-destruction with drugs, anorexia, and depression....

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Life After Loss

3 Comments | Posted June 26, 2008 | 09:52 AM (EST)


Q: I have a real problem with my kids and it really upsets me!

My husband, their father, died suddenly about ten years ago. My three boys were 12, 14, and 16 when he died. We were a happy family, or so I thought. My husband and I were devoted...

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Breaking Up With A Therapist Is Hard To Do

6 Comments | Posted June 19, 2008 | 09:01 AM (EST)


Q: My shrink just fired me! Can he do that?

I have been seeing my psychologist for about two years. I thought we were advancing well in therapy. I felt comfortable in his office. I was working through a lot of issues about my parents --...

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Should Hillary Leave Him Now?

61 Comments | Posted June 12, 2008 | 07:50 AM (EST)


Q: I have a question. For many years, a lot of people wondered if Hillary would leave Bill. It was a topic of much speculation by pundits and normal folk alike. Most people felt that she showed weakness by not walking out on a philandering husband. In fact, many women...

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Breastfeeding: The Controversy Continues

Posted May 22, 2008 | 09:41 AM (EST)


Q: I have a wonderful son and a wonderful daughter-in-law. They have been married for five years and during that time we have seen them often and always have a good time. Often they join our other two younger children for grand and delicious family get-togethers which now -knock on...

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How To Support A Sick Parent

Posted May 15, 2008 | 07:36 AM (EST)


Q: My father just had a stroke. He is 62 years old, and has always been active and healthy. His speech is fine, but his motor skills are impaired. The family is in shock. My mother and sister and I only want to take care of him and to return...

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Fear Of Failure

Posted May 8, 2008 | 09:16 AM (EST)


Q: I am in a crisis. I feel huge distress. I'm not usually like this. Most of the time, I am a healthy, free-wheeling 70-year-old with lots of energy and spice. I have children and grandchildren and I love spending time with them all. At the same time, I have...

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Narcissism And Reverend Wright

Posted May 1, 2008 | 07:18 AM (EST)


Q: Let me ask you what you think of the Rev. Jeremiah Wright, Barack Obama's former pastor and one-time religious mentor. We keep hearing and reading that Wright must be narcissistic. How else can one explain his apparent disregard of the damage that he is doing to Obama's campaign? Wouldn't...

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Sex In The Workplace: Never A Good Deal

Posted April 17, 2008 | 08:08 AM (EST)


Q: Sex in the workplace. I know it has been discussed a lot, but now it is my issue. I believe my story is a bit different. I don't know what to do.

I originally met Jane ten years ago when we worked together at an advertising agency as...

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Mean Girls And The Parents Who Love Them

Posted April 10, 2008 | 07:25 AM (EST)


Q: The video of a girl being beaten up by six other girls is very upsetting to me. I have a 16-year-old daughter and I live constantly with the fear of anorexia, drugs, pregnancy, reckless driving, idiotic boyfriends --and dozens of other horrible possibilities that, with a moment's reflection,...

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The Psychology Of Endorsements

Posted April 3, 2008 | 07:21 AM (EST)


Q: Don't you get the idea that some sort of underlying psychology is at work in the way some politicians seem to be running away from the Clinton camp? Take Bill Richardson. He endorsed Barack Obama even though Bill Clinton made him ambassador to the United Nations and Secretary of...

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How To Talk About Death

11 Comments | Posted March 27, 2008 | 08:23 AM (EST)


Q: I have a friend who is dying. We have been friends for over 30 years, ever since high school. We've been through a lot together - a virtual lifetime talking through jobs, marriages, divorces, and even as we discovered one night, wanting to date the same fantasy girl. But...

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Politicians And Psychological Testing

Posted March 20, 2008 | 08:14 AM (EST)


Q: I heard someone say that Barack Obama needed the Reverend Jeremiah A. Wright as a surrogate father figure because his own father abandoned him. And I heard someone else say that Eliot Spitzer had a compulsive need to be more successful in life than his enormously wealthy and self-made...

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Eliot Spitzer: Why?

Posted March 13, 2008 | 07:37 AM (EST)


Q: Very simple: Eliot Spitzer?

A: Now, what knowledge could I impart that, to the discredit of my profession, has not already been imparted by every "relationship expert," every "male ego expert," and, amazingly enough, every "infidelity expert"? (I swear.) Obviously there are political, financial, legal and, of course, personal...

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Caring For Impossible Parents

Posted March 6, 2008 | 07:05 AM (EST)


Q: I am a 56 year old woman with a family and a career. Needless to say I am busy. But lately I have to also take care of my mother. My father died five years ago and since then my mother has been a pain in the ass. I...

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The Juno Effect

Posted February 28, 2008 | 07:57 AM (EST)


Q: I am so glad Juno didn't win the Oscar for best picture. I am also relieved that Ellen Page didn't win as best actress for playing the 16-year-old Juno MacGuff. If they had won, I wouldn't know how to deal with my daughter. As it is, I am having...

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What To Do When Your Marriage Is Miserable

Posted February 21, 2008 | 07:40 AM (EST)


Q: I have been married twenty-five years, but I don't know if I want to stay married. I'm confused. How do I distinguish between a real crisis in my marriage and just another bad spell (of which we have had our share). I try to keep in mind all the...

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Why Do I Feel Sorry For Hillary?

Posted February 14, 2008 | 08:12 AM (EST)


Q: All of my friends are thrilled with Barack Obama. I feel some of that myself and I also appreciate the excitement he's injected into the presidential race and the vast numbers of new people he's attracted to the political process. Still, I can't help feeling sorry for Hillary Clinton....

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Dr. Mona Knows Anxiety

Posted February 7, 2008 | 08:36 AM (EST)


Q: I am so anxious. I can't seem to make a decision about anything. My husband doesn't want to hear about my anxiety anymore and my friends either think I am joking or are bored sick listening to me complain. I'm a lawyer --usually, I am a decisive, organized, and...

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How To Mix Business And Family...And Stay Sane

Posted January 31, 2008 | 12:00 AM (EST)


Q: I know that everyone talks about the influence of money in the relationship between a man and a woman, but how about between a mother and a daughter?

I am a 65-year-old retired business executive who enjoys dabbling in freelance writing, hiking, and taking care of my grandchildren. I...

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