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African Americans Must Shoulder Blame for Eddie Long

Posted: 02/13/2012 12:34 pm

The tweets were likely fleeting in nature, consistent with how the multitude of us use Twitter to socially interact. Momentary thoughts, ephemeral emotions...140 character snapshots of one's conscience. CNN commentator Roland Martin has come under fire for two tweets during the Super Bowl which GLAAD argued were homophobic and encouraged violence against the LGBT community.

Regardless of whether one finds merit in GLAAD's complaint or instead supports Martin's sense of humor; know that the response from the LGBT community was swift, direct and specific in nature.

That was Sunday, both the controversial action and the subsequent response.

Wednesday it was announced that CNN had suspended Martin.

Monday, parents mostly Latino in nature protested the inaction and lack of communication in the wake of the arrest of two teachers for sexual misconduct at Miramonte Elementary School in Los Angeles. In response to the protests and other public outcry, the whole of the teaching staff was immediately replaced.

Immediately.

Also Monday, the social pariah Bishop Eddie Long of New Birth Baptist church in Atlanta offered an apology to the Anti-Defamation League in response to a controversial "coronation" ceremony performed by Rabbi Ralph Messer the previous week. The video of the service went viral, instantly sparking immediate outrage from Jewish community leaders.

The Jewish community outrage and eventual apology were separated by fewer than 48 hours.

That was Monday.

Three separate ethnic and/or social constituencies used their social capital to leverage media and public opinion to force an immediate redress of issues.

Although the outrage in regards to the Eddie Long ceremony in New Birth (an African-American church) was unanimous irrespective of race, nobody within the African-American religious community stepped forward and demanded an apology. In fact, let the record reflect that Eddie Long took fewer than 48 hours to offer a public apology to the Jewish community for an offensive ceremony, yet to this day has said nothing about the foolishness surrounding his behavior leading up to his sexual coercion settlement involving five young males.

There has been no widespread public call within the religious community demanding for him to step down, be sat down or altogether shutdown.

One might wonder why some of the other African-American megachurches haven't leveraged their power individually and collectively to express their own outrage at Bishop Long. Right now, the ADL seemingly has more power in affecting Eddie Long's behavior than his own peers. As of this writing, only one Black megachurch preacher, (Bishop Paul Morton) has spoken out against Eddie Long.

T. D. Jakes of the Potter's House in Dallas, TX recently offered the following to CNN while discussing Long's impending divorce and previous sexual coercion charges.

"If there was actually misconduct, the young men involved in the case were old enough to make their own decisions. They are not juveniles."

Jakes conveniently skipped over the fact that Long was married and adamantly against all types of homosexual behavior. Jakes blithely disregarded the inherent moral and ethical contradictions given Long's position and power. Despite Jakes' stance, it really is acceptable to assess blame on the married man engaging in sexual behavior with adolescents (they were not 18) in the discussion of said man's divorce. Jakes, for whatever reason, stopped short of finding ANY fault with Long.

But true to form, Jakes did find time to blast the GOP for supporting Newt Gingrich over his children as janitors remarks and that Gingrich is "a thrice-married, twice-divorced adulterer."

Evidently multiple marriages, divorces, adultery and disparaging behavior towards young people don't apply to Long; who is now twice-married/divorced with an 8-figure settlement connected to homosexual acts of adultery.

The hypocrisy is beyond staggering, it is stupefying. The remarks on both Gingrich and Long came the Same Day, December 11, 2011 in two different interviews.  The links don't lie.

What Jakes doesn't seem to understand is that when viewing someone head-on, it makes talking out of both sides one's mouth much more obvious.

Prosperity preacher Creflo Dollar, with ministries in Atlanta, New York and his own private jet to ferry him between the two, told those in his audience who came to his church after leaving Eddie Long they should "go back."

He too absolved Long of guilt and blame.

Eddie Long remains in his pulpit after an alleged 8-figure sexual coercion settlement, impending divorce and the only people in the religious community adamant in their anger towards him were Jews... for reasons wholly unrelated to the more serious ones?

Really?

Seriously?

One of Long's accusers Anthony Flagg, alleged he accompanied Long on overnight trips to New York, Dallas and other cities; most of which "coincidentally" connected to other Black megachurch preachers in league with Long on the Federal Marriage Amendment.

A coincidence, to be sure (wink, wink).

Flagg in subsequent interviews also indicated he stayed in the W Hotel in Times Square, which happens to also be the place where megachurch pastor Zachery Tims was found dead with a powdery substance on his person.

Just in case you were wondering, Flagg says he also stayed with Long at the W Hotel in Dallas, just 12 miles from T.D. Jakes' main campus.

Of course this is all coincidental and circumstantial (wink, wink).

How quickly were the late Joe Paterno and the university president removed and fired respectively for their mishandling of the Penn State sexual abuse scandal?

Exactly.

Eddie Long continues to "offend" people specifically because we in the African-American community have abrogated our responsibility to protect our children. We have allowed his ministry to continue with little more than angry editorials and spirited radio commentary.

New Birth is not just "a" cult but seemingly a link in a chain of interconnected, prosperity-preaching cults; guided not by sound Christian tenets but something altogether nefarious and un-Christian in nature.

The common thread between Penn State, Miramonte and New Birth is that somebody did nothing when circumstances required far more; allowing young people to be abused. If there is immediate action in the moment, future misdeeds can be averted. The communities surrounding Penn State and Miramonte took immediate steps to make sure the right actions were taken.

New Birth... nothing.  We as African-Americans did nothing.  This is on us, as are his future transgressions.  We have allowed Long to proceed with impunity. He will embarrass and "abuse" the African-American community again and again, until we put an end to it and his ministry once and for all. We just have to care enough and love our own children enough to stand up for them.


Morris W. O'Kelly (Mo'Kelly) is a political correspondent for the BBC Radio and Television networks and author of the syndicated column The Mo'Kelly Report. For more Mo'Kelly, go to his site. Mo'Kelly can be reached at mrmokelly@gmail.com and welcomes all commentary.


 

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drhooper
Obama Common Sense 2012
10:41 PM on 02/21/2012
I am gonna go out on a limb here.....I don't presume to speak for the author but I assume this. When the author says that African-Americans should shoulder the blame for Eddie Long that it is not an indictment on anyone person or condemning a specific group. I infer the author as saying that African-Americans have lost our collective voices to speak out on atrocities made against our community members. The Civil Rights movement occurred because churches, blacks and whites said "No More". In this day in age, is there anything that will bring blacks together? The church has been taken out of the equation because too much money is at state for social advocacy and social justice.
10:31 PM on 02/20/2012
It's so funny, As I continue to read all of your post I can't help but to say this, I am a member of New Birth and until God's Spirit For all you who never met him,tells me to move on then I am not going anywhere just because of what you think or feel.and I would like to leave you all with this tasteful flavor,as LONG as Bishop LONG and the New Birth family brings the word of God and Gods presence (Anointing) into the atmosphere we are still going, and as LONG as he teaches on MONEY and I continue to recieve it I will continue to tithe and give and offerng to God and there is nothing you can do about it but stress it.We have been taught to Bless your enemies .....So God Bless you all, and one more thing when you curse a child of God that he has chosen, you who are talking, this keeps our blessing flowing so to all of you keep up the good work we will take it.
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Miss Peaches
I wanna be a rockstar!
09:01 AM on 02/21/2012
You have to follow your heart. If you are being led to stay then stay. However, your missing the point. He has not been held accountable for what he has done. Teaching prosperity shouldn't be the mainstay of your faith either. I understand he is but a man and we all fall short. I understand we have no power to judge it is not our place. However, I can't help but feel in my spirit that ruin will come from this. All I can do is pray for y'all. Peace
10:37 AM on 02/22/2012
Everyone who is called to Preach,Teach,or Pastor will be blessed with all gifts that they seek and desire.Some are stronger in healing,some are stronger in the word some are strong inprophetic deliverance. and Bishop is strong in teaching prosperity.What is wrong with teaching Prosperity?If you are called to do a certain job you do that job ,you are not going to do anything different until u are told to do different, of whomever called you to do different or more.he has to do what God tells him to do.I believe with all my heart that our God's way of thinking and plans for us all are Higher(you all should think that too),Now believing in a All powerful All knowing God, whom I adore, has the power to not only removed this man from a building, he could have removed him from this world,but he haven't which means as long as God loves him I will love him and his family too. Bad stuff happens all the time to good and bad people. You just have to keep going through it and have faith it will get better, And I can't stress it enough we all love to be Blessed so Please continue to curse the Man to whom God has called, your nasty ,negative judgemental words are bread to his life not our money YOUR WORDS. ( ONLY TO WHOM THIS MAY CONCERN) We ALL are going to get it in Gods timing.
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fratricide08
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10:22 PM on 02/20/2012
The formation of white mega-churches was and is an abomination. It's no surprise that the same is true for black mega-churches. Mega-churches aren't churches, they're entertainment centers and their 'pastors' are nothing more than entertainers. People of all colors are drawn to them for exactly that reason -- they offer entertainment, daycare, rec centers, theaters, and all kinds of other venues designed to entertain parishioners. They're a cheap option for a family looking for a relatively safe environment to park their kids, network, and enjoy themselves. The gloss of religion is there to make sure mega-churches can run these endeavors (basketball courts, roller rinks, coffee shops,etc.) at cut rate prices compared to private businesses while maintaining a high profit margin for the 'pastor.' Throw a little "Jesus" in and construct a message the flock wants to hear and you've got a recipe for a goldmine.

Protestantism, particularly the Baptist faith which used to stand solid in favor of social justice and the separation of church and state (once THE PREMIERE supporter of separation of Church and State-- Jefferson's "wall of separation..." was in response to the Baptist's rallying AGAINST state sponsored religion), was invaded by virulent conservative evangelicalism while America slept.

What has happened to Christian leadership in America, the kind that cried out for justice. raised their voices for the poor and oppressed, isn't a black issue but an American one that both believers and non-believers should concern themselves with.
11:45 PM on 02/19/2012
it's amazing how the author and a lot of people who read this are quick to condemn black mega churches, but have nothing to say about the largest mega church in the world the Roman catholic church. even to this day there are priest serving in parishes and are known pedophiles. if the author is so concerned why hasn't he called on catholics to take down these priest. it is the job and responsibilty of the congregation to take down their leader if he is corrupt. it is wrong to hold the entire african american community and pastors of other churches responsible for one man's behavior. in fact if everyone hasn't forgotten the bible says the last person that's going to be doing any judging is the almighty god. child abuse is wrong and there is no excuse for it. blaming someone's religious beliefs or politicals view for the above action is a cop out plain and simple. let's let New Birth take care of Bishop Long. the african american community is dealing with more serious problems like high unemployement, crime, and the contuining shrinking of much needed public assistance. Once we have those things covered then we can all go and pile on Mr. Long
07:54 PM on 02/18/2012
I'm sorry, but as an African-American who has nothing to do with Long's ministry, I reject the notion that I am responsible for Long's behavior. His transgressions have nothing to do with me. It's sort of like being the only Black person in a classroom, and when issues of race come up, that Black person represents ALL of African-Americans everywhere. It's his congregation that needs to rise up and open its eyes. It's also, as you've already stated, the responsibility of "church leaders" (who seem to have condoned his behavior) to confront him about his actions. But I bear no responsibility.
01:49 AM on 02/17/2012
On the up side the congregation is not nearly as homophobic as some might have thought. I think if he did these things with teenage girls they probably would have gotten rid of him. I think they see his homosexuality as some kind of disease god suppose to help him with.
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10:44 PM on 02/16/2012
Refer to the Slave Community and Slave Testimony books by John Blassingame to understand church and Black people. Historically the church is the only place where Black people had "power". Unfortunately, the abiding love for the "powerful" modern-day pastors in Black churches has rendered aimless followers powerless, dependent, and stupid.
03:30 PM on 02/18/2012
It couldn't have been put any better than that, I agree !!
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drhooper
Obama Common Sense 2012
10:28 PM on 02/21/2012
Read the Mis-Education of the Negro same principle
07:28 PM on 02/16/2012
I wondered about why African Americans will not publicly talk about the negative actions of so called "Black public figures". However we see everything " non-Blacks" do or say or appear to do or say. It seems we are tunnel vision. I have no clout. I have been told when trying to talk about a current topic "We do not want to talk politics". It is so sad. Yet we are misinformed as a group because we tend to listen to one sided conversations, in my opinion In deed Long well continue his behavior because he has been allowed to by his colleagues.
02:11 PM on 02/16/2012
The onus is not on "African Americans" but on Long's church and the prosperity theology that birthed that ministry and game they have been running.
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happyblackman
Gotta have more cowbell baby!
10:37 AM on 02/16/2012
I was channel surfing, a few weeks back,a nd came across Jimmy Swaggart's television show. His church was filled with people. This is nothing new. If Long has willing sheep to prop up his lifestyle, like Swaggart, then why bother complaining?
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CojoinednessBrasserie
02:08 PM on 02/20/2012
True.. but you may want to check which channel is carrying Swaggart nowadays.. it is BET of all places though that is just a leased time arrangement. Swaggart was pulling down $150,000,000 a year 25 years ago before the fall and now he's just panning for gold in a slow stream nowadays... preaching the "sadder but wiser, the Lord CHOSE for me to fall that I might warn ye!" gospel. Not very lucrative.. but better than franchising a Burger King or two!
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SweetSmile
05:22 AM on 02/16/2012
First, whoever wrote this article needs to get their head examined and stop making racially charged statements. Putting down a whole race over a bad man is a bit of stretch, don't you think? Who say's that he is accepted and supporting by the whole race? If he is still operating, it is because he has financial reserves and there are those who don't care because it did not personally affect them.

I personally left a church because I did not like the behavior of a Pastor...and I was VERY outspoken about what had transpired. As a result of what I experienced, some people left, others still remained. People attend church for different reason, not everyone goes for the religion--many go for socialization. People sometimes just like to sit in what they view as comfort, it is not an African American problem, it is a people problem. Predominately white churches do the same thing when scandal erupts and stick with pastors who have questionable character.
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SweetSmile
05:13 AM on 02/16/2012
People need to just take responsibility for their own children, watch them, and raise them like they are called to do. I do not understand how somebody could send their teen out on multiple vacations with a non family member and think all is well. As for this man, anybody with half a brain should have left his cult long ago. Asking for an apology would be stupid, as this man and his so called ministry should be non-existent at this point. In my opinion, the practice of having a mega-church is wrong as no pastor can properly assist his flock in such a large and impersonal setting. Anything that creates such a hierarchy should raise red flags for followers. If I am not able to personally call my Pastor, that church certainly would not be getting tithes and offering from my household
10:33 PM on 02/15/2012
African American religious leaders and pastors probably think that the scandal and public exposure is condemnation enough for Eddie Long. People might wise up and the ministry will fold.
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SweetSmile
05:15 AM on 02/16/2012
I cannot believe people are still sitting under this man's ministry. What more do they need for goodness sake! Does the man have to carry a bloodied knife before they will at least look at him sideways?
02:12 PM on 02/15/2012
Mr. Long can be forgiven but he should never be allowed to lead a congregation!
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drhooper
Obama Common Sense 2012
02:08 PM on 02/15/2012
I have one last comment before I move on to the next topic. Our community has suffered a lot of abuse. Either you have been abused, you know someone who has been abused or you know someone who is abusive. If not, you are very fortunate. I bring up this point to say that the mentality of our community often reminds me of an abuse victim. How many of know or have encountered a victim who has the ability to stand up for someone else when they are not free themselves. I say this to emphasize, slavery is not done and gone. It left some residual effects. If there are some of us who have been fortunate enough to escape the cycle of abuse that has been passed on from generation to generation, I feel that we have an obligation to help free those who have not escaped. What if Harriett Tubman escaped, and said I am free....forget everybody else? Where would blacks in this country be today? If I see somebody getting the crap beat out of them, I am not going to say what he/she do to deserve that. That is the exact mentality that I am talking about. Come on.....we got to be responsible for our brother, and hold each other accountable. Ok....I am done.