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Nancy Ruhling
Nancy A. Ruhling is a freelance journalist who has had bylines in more than 50 online and print publications, including The New York Times. Her latest postings are on She has lived in Astoria long enough to be an “Astoria Character.” She may be reached at

Entries by Nancy Ruhling

Astoria Characters: The Two Cooks in the Kitchen

(0) Comments | Posted October 28, 2014 | 5:20 AM

Elbow to elbow. When Mariantonia and Guillermo Hung are working in the kitchen, that's how it is.

They say that they love it this way, but even if they wanted more breathing room, they wouldn't have a choice. Their husband-and-wife fast-food restaurant, Pao & Cha-Cha, is the size...

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Astoria Characters: The Eclectic Educator

(0) Comments | Posted October 21, 2014 | 8:26 AM

On top of the office refrigerator there is a jar of Skippy peanut butter that is nearly empty. There doesn't appear to be any jelly, but by the sofa, there are an acoustic guitar and a big rubber exercise ball that's give-the-teacher-an-apple red.

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Astoria Characters: The Silver-Lining Pal

(0) Comments | Posted October 14, 2014 | 8:10 AM

It's pouring cats and dogs. That's why Jill Parshley Cardillo and her sunny yellow umbrella are out. Jill likes to walk in the water, saving the drops on her tongue for a rainy day.


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Jill became...

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Astoria Characters: The Priceless Pair

(1) Comments | Posted October 7, 2014 | 5:23 AM

It would be flip to say that it was a toss of the coin that landed Jennifer and Frank Greco at Astoria Coins & Collectibles.


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Astoria Coins & Collectibles has been in business 65 years.

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Astoria Characters: The Shaman

(1) Comments | Posted September 30, 2014 | 5:06 AM

There's a piano tucked into the corner like a baby in a bassinet. It's guarded by a pair of guitars. But these instruments play second fiddle to the incense. There is none burning, yet the living room is filled with the memory of its sweet, seductive scent.

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Astoria Characters: The Other Mayor

(0) Comments | Posted September 23, 2014 | 4:54 AM

"You're going to be shocked by what I tell you," says Frank Carrado. "Sometimes, I don't believe it myself."

Carrado, who is 84, is talking about the last five years of his life, when newspapers started writing stories about him and everyone began calling him The Mayor of Long Island...

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Astoria Characters: The Stand-Up Man

(0) Comments | Posted September 16, 2014 | 8:31 AM

This is no joke. The pancakes are damn good.

Tom Daddario had wondered whether he should make them. As a stand-up comic, he's obsessed with getting the last laugh.


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People always told Tom...

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Astoria Characters: The Pharmacist

(0) Comments | Posted September 8, 2014 | 7:16 AM

The central aisle of Norwood Rexall Drugs is long and narrow like a train tunnel. It leads straight to Syed Naqvi. The pharmacy counter is tall. Syed is not.


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Syed came from Pakistan in 1972.

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Astoria Characters: The Artist in Residence

(1) Comments | Posted September 2, 2014 | 5:48 AM

It's the starving part of artist that Daniel Francis finds hard to stomach. His hang-dog jeans, cuffed at the ankles to take up the slack, were made for a much weightier man, the one he used to be.


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Astoria Characters: The Lovebirds

(0) Comments | Posted August 19, 2014 | 8:31 AM

It takes a while for Violeta M. Mileo to answer the front door. She has to walk down two flights of stairs, and she's being extra careful. A couple of months ago, she fell and gouged her shoulder.

She ended up in the emergency room.

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Astoria Characters: The Tamale Lady

(0) Comments | Posted August 12, 2014 | 6:29 AM

The Tamale Lady. That's what everyone calls the weary young-old woman who pushes her shopping cart to the middle of the block and sets up on the sidewalk, selling breakfast for $1 and $2.


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The Tamale...

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Astoria Characters: The Guys With the Great Garden

(1) Comments | Posted July 22, 2014 | 7:42 AM

People stop and stare and hold their babbling babies up to the wrought-iron railing. It's not every day you see a koi pond on Ditmars Boulevard. Or a garden that looks as though it outgrew Architectural Digest.


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Astoria Characters: The Cookie Crooner

(2) Comments | Posted July 15, 2014 | 9:07 AM

Jack Chiello is a low-key guy. He's also a man of few words. Getting him to talk about himself is like trying to pry a pearl from an oyster with a plastic toothpick.


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Jack's the owner...

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Astoria Characters: The Ice Cream Maven

(0) Comments | Posted July 12, 2014 | 2:56 PM

At the mention of ice cream, a smile beams like a rising sun on Dolma Yangchen's solidly serious face.


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Dolma came to New York from Tibet seven years ago.

In Tibet, where she...

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Astoria Characters: The Lawyer and the Singer

(0) Comments | Posted July 8, 2014 | 8:48 AM

There's music playing when Marc Gross opens the door. Cara Samantha, his wife, is sitting on the sofa. She's not singing, merely speaking softly, but her sultry voice relegates the famous one on the CD to deep background.


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Astoria Characters: The Laundry on the Line

(0) Comments | Posted July 1, 2014 | 8:36 AM

There was a pole and a pulley at the end of my driveway when I moved in. This cave-man apparatus was tethered to the back of the house by an ancient umbilical cord.


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Letting it all...

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Astoria Characters: The Death Racers

(0) Comments | Posted June 24, 2014 | 9:00 AM

At the door that separates the formal living room and dining room, there's a basic-black chin-up bar. Erin and Eldar Spahic are having their morning coffee; he's gulping his out of a super-size-me beer stein, and she is sipping hers from a round mug that doubles as a soup bowl.

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Astoria Characters: The Baker's Son

(0) Comments | Posted June 17, 2014 | 8:34 AM

When the outdoor table is empty, Vincenzo Vaccaro takes a break and a seat. He lights a cigarette and in between smoke rings pours black coffee down his throat.


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Vincenzo's the owner of Vaccaro's Italian...

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Astoria Characters: The Robbery Victims

(0) Comments | Posted June 10, 2014 | 8:36 AM

It is what the masked men did to her before they took the money that keeps Sajida Gulamrasool up at night.


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The robbers put a gun to Susan's head.

They pressed a gun to...

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Astoria Characters: The Old Kid on the Block

(0) Comments | Posted June 3, 2014 | 8:43 AM

It's going on six decades. Even Jimmy Bejanis is astounded when he does the math. That's a long time -- his entire life -- to stay in one place and in one house.


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Jimmy and Margo...

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