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Reflections on Sikh Gurdwara Shooting in Wisconsin

Posted: 08/05/2012 8:06 pm

Just a few hours ago a Sikh (pronounced 'sick') gurdwara (Sikh house of worship) in Wisconsin was attacked by a white male who killed at least six people during today's Sunday service. While reasons are not yet known, I'll conjecture that this will soon be confirmed as one of the largest hate crimes in American history.

Immediately, my thoughts turned to what must have been going on inside at the time the gunmen entered the gurdwara (Sikh house of worship). Like most faiths, gurdwaras hold their primary religious service on Sundays. Kirtan (hymns from scripture) is sung, kids rally to begin Punjabi language school, langar (free meal for anyone who comes to the gurdwara) is prepared to be served later, and the sangat (community) sits on the floor (in a sign of humility). In smaller communities like my hometown of Cincinnati, or in Wisconsin, on Sunday the Gurdwara feels like a big family reunion -- the sangat is together.

For Sikhs, because we look different (identifiable because of our turbans and beards), often we become symbolic for whatever 'other' our country faces. Over ten years ago, on Sept. 15, 2001, Singh Sodhi, was shot and killed in Arizona, becoming the first hate crime victim after the 9/11 terrorist attacks. This spawned several in the community, including myself, to start the Sikh Coalition. Our initial goal was to help deal with 9/11 backlash like hate crimes, employment discrimination, and school bullying.

Over time, our focus has shifted to include educating broader society on who Sikhs are, and Sikhism's fundamental beliefs of honest living, giving back and remembering and living in the service of Waheguru (God). We have also made steps to help our country live up to its fullest potential by supporting the rights of all Americans. We've worked on things like the Workplace Religious Freedom Act, instituted broad anti-bullying programs for all students in New York City schools, and worked with hundreds of other organizations on similar programs.

Despite these proactive steps, we are still left to deal with the aftermath of violence. As recently as last March (2011), two Sikh men, aged 68 and 75, were shot in an alleged hate crime in the suburbs of Sacramento. Along with today's even more dramatic event, these are extreme manifestations of hatred that pervades too much of American society. The way in which our public discourse takes place -- vitriol in politics, the eagerness to demonize broad groups based on the actions of a few, and forgetting that people have far more in common than they ever will in conflict -- provides an environment that nurses extreme ideologies and enables unstable members to society to justify extreme actions.

Our responsibility as a society is to do more than just prevent lunacy on the fringes. Income, religion, appearance, sexual orientation, political affiliation, and ethnicity are parts of everyone, not sole characteristics that define us completely. Recognizing this and incorporating it into how we characterize one another helps us live up to the best principles of America. It cannot occur, however, unless we seek to understand those we perceive to be different from us.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the families and community involved and the first police officers on site whose heroic actions likely saved many more lives. Their bravery and grace in the face of extreme circumstances represent the best of us and the values we should all aspire to.

 

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aquarius2001
Boredom is in the mind, Loneliness is in the heart
12:55 PM on 08/07/2012
I am truly saddened for the violence bestowed on these families, their community, and their place of worship.

My heart goes out to them and I pray this type of tragedy never happens again. But unfortunately, I know that until the hate, racism, and intolerance for differences is stamped out...it's only a matter of time.

And that is really sad.
11:53 AM on 08/07/2012
Isn't it so obvious that the following has happened:
- institutional abuse of power at mental health facilities (referencing history from decades ago, not today)
- untrained law enforcement deals with mentally ill inappropriately (referencing history from decades ago, not today)
- lawsuits are won by patients or on behalf of patients against institutions and law enforcement
-as a nation we become overly sensitive to the rights of the mentally ill
-lawmakers are unable to enact laws that both protect patients rights and empower mental health professionals and law enforcement to act assertively when dealing with potential threats.
-pervasive political correctness prevents us culturally from identifying those with mental health issues that NEED treatment
-judges fail to recognize the threat to public safety when ruling on cases and laws, thereby stripping mental health professionals and law enforcement from protecting society.
- crippled by lost lawsuits, poorly worded laws, courts that ignore the public safety and well-being of society over the individual freedoms of the "potentially" insane.

as a result: mass murder after mass murder occurs in society, year after year.

each time,, the media sells newspapers and tv ads, and everybody yells and screams

and our lawmakers and judges, ALL ELECTED TO SERVE US AND PROTECT US, instead .........
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Talismancer
Humanist - Reason in the service of compasssion
02:09 AM on 08/07/2012
Thank god the trigger-man was a skin-head, now no-one can claim it was religiously inspired violence...right?
12:17 AM on 08/07/2012
Our sympathy to the families and friends of the victims and the community. Truly feels for the Sikhs they are been penalised and brutalized for their belief and conviction. This shall past too. Very pleased with President Obama’s immediate action. The whole gang of culprits must be brought to justice.
10:05 PM on 08/06/2012
I love the fact that this article reflects a Sikh voice but is SIkh pronounced 'Sick'!!! Really? I haven't heard that one before! Isn't it closer to 'Seek'? Sikh=Sick? How is that helpful now? Sikh=Seek is closer.
02:25 PM on 08/06/2012
It's a sad and unfortunate truth that the extreme right plays on the ignorance and fear of it's base, in order to garner votes, all the while creating a hostile- and apparently violent- citizenry. The term "reverse racism" is now being thrown around in order to stifle any objection to their bigotry, but it is obvious. I don't know what it will take to change the culture of hatred and fear that wins over almost a majority of our population, but until it does, we do not stand a chance as a country.
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ChiBloger
And the truth shall set us ALL free
10:11 AM on 08/06/2012
While I do not have anything to do with the particular acts in Wisconsin this weekend I feel so sorry for what has taken place. It never should have happened. Good people everywhere should be saying this out loud.
Unfortunately our nation or segments of it has embarked on a course that lifts up hate as free speech. Hate is often a indiscriminate destroyer. And the destruction cuts both ways. This man who committed these acts lost his sole long before he took the lives of these innocent people.

We have freedom of speech but we should not have freedom of hate. Germany has learned these lessons. Why must we reinvent the wheel?
08:30 AM on 08/06/2012
Simply THUGS GANGSTERS!
02:43 AM on 08/06/2012
I'm profoundly sad, especially thinking of my wonderful Sikh friends, whose loved one, Balbir Singh Sodhi, was murdered in hate, just after 9/11. These victims are real and were most likely also truly wonderful people; and now their families are just beginning their tragic new journeys these losses will engender. This is so heartbreaking. Sadly, my piece, "Where the Anti-Muslim Path Leads" remains all too pertinent, and leads also to tragedies for Sikhs, Hindus, South Asians, Arab Christians, and others, targeted in hate & xenophobia. We have so much work to do. Anya Cordell, Recipient, Spirit of Anne Frank Award,
http://theinterfaithobserver.org/journal-articles/2012/6/15/where-the-anti-muslim-path-leads.html
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Crisdean Wulver
We've got our priorities screwed up.
02:22 AM on 08/06/2012
There's one primary source for most of the hate propaganda in America. You guessed it . . .

. . . the Republican Party.
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vobox3343
Each day is a new day - make the most of it
12:53 PM on 08/06/2012
Sadly, there's no evidence to prove your statement to the contrary.
04:08 PM on 08/06/2012
Republican scaremongering about the specter of Sharia Law in the USA everywhere

Here's a video of Oklahoma State Rep Rex Duncan (Republican) talking on Fox News about the threat of Sharia law in Oklahoma. http://youtu.be/SmsZ-GhmPuk

Google "Michelle Bachmann shariah", "Newt Gingrich shariah", or any other prominent Rep's thoughts on a mosque near Ground Zero.

"The Muslims are coming for us!" is a new right wing variation on what happened 20 years ago with "The Japanese are taking over!".

If you want to split hairs over Muslims/Sikhs, just ask Vincent Chin what his thoughts are on the matter - Google that one too.

Tirlok Singh, a priest at the Oak Center Sikh Center said: "Tell the people we are not Muslim. We are different. We are Sikh. I want you to convey this message,”

How messed up is it that? 6 people dead, 2 more critically injured, and the core message that Sikhs are trying to communicate in the wake of this tragedy is "Please stop shooting us, since we're not terrorists. We're not even Muslims."

But Fox News and opportunistic politicians are eager to fan the flames of intolerance by claiming that the Muslims are coming. It's not falsely shouting fire in a crowded theater, it's worse: it's telling everyone in the theater that the swarthy guy in beard and turban is going to blow it up.

voxox3343, if you wanna go head to head with me, I'm here all day.
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Lykos
Nobody Never Eat No Fifty Eggs
01:44 AM on 08/06/2012
Lovely blog, Narinder Singh... Well said!
My thoughts go out to the families and sangat of those lost too soon.
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vkmo
01:34 AM on 08/06/2012
It's a serious mistake to associate Sikhs with Islam. In fact Sikhs have fought Islam viciously and successfully. Sikhs fought with allies in WWII against Nazis and won many honors. India's Prime Minister since 2004 is Manmohan Singh, a Sikh.
02:53 AM on 08/06/2012
There is nothing to do with Islam or Nazis. Of course it's wrong to confuse things with each other but the way you are stating it is very wrong. Would it be any better if those people Muslims, Christians or Jews? KILLING is wrong!
10:15 AM on 08/06/2012
The lowest denominator of reactions to this tragedy is to point out the irony that Sikhs are targeted by those ignoramuses who confuse them with Muslims, as if Sikhs are warm and fuzzy good guys and Muslims truly deserve a position as targets, and to trump up the historical periods of strife between Sikh and Muslim communities, when Sikhs and Muslims lived together in communal harmony for hundreds of years, too.

As a Muslim I stand in solidarity with Sikhs, and offer my deepest condolences to the Sikh community on the occasion of this horrific tragedy. It is a tragedy for us all. I wholeheartedly agree with the gist of this article that we should all embrace each other as individuals, brothers and sisters in humanity first, rather than judge on secondary categories of affiliation. Ek saah, ek jaan.
zinxeb
Empathy ends cruelty
12:30 AM on 08/06/2012
Neocon politicians have worked up their dirt-poor white male base into a frenzy of homophobia by telling them that "foreigners" are taking over the country. Whether this nut didn't know the difference between Moslems and Sikhs is not the problem, but hating anyone who is not one of them is.

There are also a lot of hate crimes committed against Hispanics after the mentally lame are worked up into a frenzy by being told that they are taking away "real" American jobs. "Real Americans" were the indigenous populations that were here before the "white" man came...and put them in their place, too.

Another thing is that nuts and guns don't mix, so one has to wonder about a political party that pushes guns on people who they should be protecting with strong gun laws and police departments.
11:31 AM on 08/07/2012
you are way off base on the "pushing guns" point.

the issue at hand is identifying mental health issues, and giving authorities and communities and families the tools to identify and deal with anybody that thinks hurting someone like this is the solution.

It is time for us all to act together to remove the handcuffs from mental health professionals that our stupid legal system has put on them.

Our "politically correct" treatment of mental health issue sufferers, and our lack of financial commitment to mental health treatment and issues generally, is resulting in these events.
zinxeb
Empathy ends cruelty
02:31 PM on 08/07/2012
Of course, it's pushing guns! When the law allows anyone to buy any type of weapon, in any amount, just by showing a driver's license, what else can you call it?? A government that shirks it's responsibility to protect it's citizens, and puts the burden on them to protect themselves is not my idea of what America should look like in the 21st century...is it yours?

Identifying mental health issues is not easy, and some people are just plain old mean. If a person is identified as having a mental problem, they can be treated, not arrested, until they do something to justify an arrest, and by then, it's too late. The very least that could be done is to prevent the mean and mentally ill from getting their hands on any weapons.

There is also a big drug problem in this country that something should be done about, since one never knows if drug use brings on this type of "mental illness" resulting in violent behavior.

If a person doesn't hunt, and if they want a weapon for home "protection"...if the area that they live in doesn't provide adequate police protection...they certainly don't need an armory of assault weapons...or even one...do they?
04:20 PM on 08/07/2012
"into a frenzy of homophobia by telling them that "foreigners" are taking over the country. "

I think you mean xenophobia, unless you are saying all sikhs are gay
zinxeb
Empathy ends cruelty
10:18 PM on 08/07/2012
Oh, geez...I'm sorry! Just didn't mean that at all, but should have thought before I posted, 'cause I DO know the difference! Thanks for catching it!!
12:23 AM on 08/06/2012
I can't say for sure why these terrible acts were committed today, but I do know that over the past several weeks numerous death threats have been leveled at Amardeep Kaleka and his family regarding the content of the upcoming documentary 'Sirius' (sirius.neverendinglight.com).

I don't think its a coincidence that he was present at the shooting, and his father was wounded, and I find it very suspicious that eyewitness accounts and the official police account of the number of shooters differ considerably.
11:43 PM on 08/05/2012
Attacking a sikh gurdwara because of 9/11 if this is true that was one braindead idiot.
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Crisdean Wulver
We've got our priorities screwed up.
02:23 AM on 08/06/2012
What use do bigots have for facts?