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Why Do We Fear An Empty Mind?

Posted: 05/15/11 04:17 AM ET

"Man finds nothing so intolerable as to be in a state of complete rest, without passions, without occupation, without diversion, without effort. Then he feels his nullity, loneliness, inadequacy, dependence, helplessness, emptiness."
--Blaise Pascal

Why is it so hard for us to tolerate emptiness in our minds? The prevalent belief that action always equals progress may be a contributing factor. We perceive emptiness as an undesired state, something to be feared. We feel uncomfortable with those moments when our minds seem devoid of any creative or productive activity. We rarely, if ever, simply sit with and allow the feeling of emptiness.

When a thought enters the mind, it is replaced by another. It is automatic. We are not aware that a thought has segued into another thought. But upon developing the muscles of concentration, we become conscious of the entry and exit process of our thoughts. The mind gradually begins to entertain fewer thoughts per minute. We become aware that there is an interval, a delay, a space between one thought and another. This space is emptiness but also a fullness. At this level of awareness, we are in the sanctum of pure awareness. There are many who are living in this state of pure awareness, and their experiences are lucid and real.

Many are in search of this state, whether they know it or not. We are wired to seek and find what we seek. This quest is as old as humanity itself. There is no need to spend time and energy seeking some illusory "self." What you are seeking is inside of you, and it is you. It is the mind that asserts otherwise.

When you believe this mind, you seek this "I" outside yourself. All one has to do is to remain quiet, calm the mind and experience this space between the thoughts. In this state, only the "I" exists. When you let this "I" in your mind be, without resisting, you enter the realm of emptiness -- pure consciousness or the creative void. Whatever comes up, do not take it personally. Just observe. Allowing your mind to "go blank" for a little while won't kill you, and will actually help you discover your potential, unlimited.

Now developing some comfort with this state is both simple and complex in concept. Since we are slaves to stimuli, we can't imagine harnessing such a practice of emptiness or of being. We are incessantly tempted to turn our attention to something just to avoid this sensation. Blankness is not nothingness. To be empty does not mean non-existence. Emptiness is the ground of being, and because of it, everything is possible.

When the ego cooperates in suspension of all sense impressions and thoughts, it enters the realm of empty, unnameable nothingness. This nothingness is the gateway into the deeper layers of consciousness. It is here where inspiration, knowledge and creativity will ultimately strike. While we are here, we do not decide what will be experienced but to allow whatever awareness it wants us to have.

When self is absent and thoughts negated, we are open to the unknown. Not only does the mind become utterly blank, but it loses the all encompassing idea of a personal ego. We are oblivious to all lower sensations and are instead awake to the rich, conscious and sublime nothingness. Since the capacity to remain in this state for more than a few minutes can impose a strain, the intellect or imagination rush in with ideas or images, thus ending the tension. With time and practice we can endure the weight of this indescribable and incomprehensible experience.

If we succeed in holding steadfastly to this nothingness in deep concentration or meditation, we realize that it is not a mere mental abstraction but something real, not a dream but the most concrete thing in our experience. The contrast between the personal and the impersonal melts away, and only the sense of Being remains -- a Being that stretches far and wide, like the silent trance of infinite space.

 
"Man finds nothing so intolerable as to be in a state of complete rest, without passions, without occupation, without diversion, without effort. Then he feels his nullity, loneliness, inadequacy, depe...
"Man finds nothing so intolerable as to be in a state of complete rest, without passions, without occupation, without diversion, without effort. Then he feels his nullity, loneliness, inadequacy, depe...
 
 
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Siebenstein
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06:46 AM on 11/03/2011
Because we see the fallout with Republicans every day.
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Mark Goulston, M.D.
01:43 PM on 07/08/2011
Excellent post. It's so sad that people are afraid to stop their problem solving, fix it, controlling ways to feel what's underneath because they're afraid they'll feel helpless. What they don't realize is that what they'll feel is free. And after you let yourself feel, experience and bathe yourself in that, magic happens.
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05:38 PM on 07/03/2011
there is no such thing as nothingness. there is however an emptiness of a flow of thoughts which is awareness. that flow of thoughts we call consciousness is the stuff of life. without a flow of thoughts there would only be awareness.

once we see that awareness is primary and consciousness is secondary, than nothingness is not nothingness but mistakenly called nothingness for its lack of a flow of thoughts. the very essence of life which is awareness and awareness is not nothingness but everything. the all of all as the underlying reality of all that is.

your article equates nothingness and emptiness as the same, this can be misleading and even fearful for those that lack understanding of the "interrelationship" of consciousness and awareness.

that state of Being is awareness. the greater the awareness the greater the understanding not knowledge but understanding.

now without unawareness there is no us just Mind, Absolute, Isness, etc. of course one cannot define this Isness as infinite cannot be defined; to define infinite is to limit infinite and put boundaries on Isness. Isness has no boundaries.

one might say in religious or spiritual terms that the only boundaries or limitations Isness has is that it must create the many within its infinite self.
11:05 AM on 07/05/2011
You make an important point!! Our understanding of "Isness", "suchness" -- the unmanifest -- is hobbled by descriptions of "emptiness" or worse -- "the void". I liked the recent film that changes "black hole" to "black whole". Whether its empty or full all us creatures of habit will tend to fear anything new. The best, if not the only, antidote to fear is love.
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03:24 PM on 06/26/2011
The nothing that we are after is not nothing as in zero but nothing as in everything, the nothing discussed in quantum physics from which matter and energy is born, the great void that gives birth to heaven and earth, yin and yang, tai chi.
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04:06 PM on 06/06/2011
The book by Eckhart Tolle "The Power of NOW" covers all of this very same subject rather well. I have managed to, as he calls it, have "is-ness" and "no-mind", a place of natural emptiness without the incessant compulsive ramblings of the egoic mind.
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10:42 PM on 05/30/2011
One of the many things I couldn't really get a grasp of was how someone can say that you were the reason for failure because you couldn't follow the right course of action that needed to be taken in questionable situations. The old adage, Theres more than one way to skin a cat, comes to mind. Especially when all involved are given different tools.
02:44 PM on 05/27/2011
we?
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10:43 PM on 05/30/2011
No!
11:41 AM on 05/26/2011
I enjoyed the article. It was very well written. I am a poet so I wrote down a few lines to see if that would inspire anything. Personally, I don't know how to meditate. I tried but it just made me anxious. The thoughts and images didn't go away and then come back like the article suggests is possible. I am always thinking something. Something is always happening, and I don't define that as nothing unless I am being secretive or just think that I don't have anything interesting to offer.
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01:49 PM on 06/24/2011
April, please persist. It is like this for all of us in the beginning. It takes time to develop concentration. And once you develop a little concentration, and there are some gaps between thoughts, it is important to recognize the Pure Awareness that is always here behind all the thoughts. Once this Awareness is recognized, then that is what must be given attention until it grows to become obvious, no matter what is happening. That Pure Awareness contains all the joy, peace and love in the Universe. And it is always right here, right now. You need to stick with it, and there is no better use of your time and effort!
10:54 AM on 05/25/2011
When I want to reach a state of emptiness, I channel my inner Rod Serling (minus the cigarette) and repeat mantra-like the following: "You are about to enter the Twilight Zone."

Works for me.
10:30 AM on 05/25/2011
Why do we fear an empty mind?

Uh, uh, lemme think . . . uh. . . . I dunno.
03:33 PM on 05/23/2011
I try for this everyday! Having an empty mind is so calming and can help you to refocus. I try to take 10-15 minutes everyday to empty my mind. I feel amazing afterward.
07:56 PM on 05/22/2011
All thought is prayer and all thoughts are answered - Seth
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10:14 AM on 05/22/2011
This is a very excellent article and it is good as many of us in our society have been embracing meditation, openness, innner silence, and emptyness. Being mindful that our Witness never misses anything and is always present, wthin presence and this is what is real and genuine, yet, "it"does not have any characteristics, judgments or substances. I love what Dr. Ken Wilber describes in "The Essential" that we can't get rid of our ego, it is not our enemy, it is part of the Divine. "The ego is not a thing but a subtle "effort" and you can not get rid of effort--you end up with two efforts rather than one." "...it is best handled by resting in Freedom... I learn from this that our Witness is free of all objects and can not be seen, rather the ego is the Active and our Witness is the Attractive living in Freedom.

Hmm, I found this comment very helpful in my meditations so thought I would share with others.
02:38 PM on 05/18/2011
I have found much resistance to the state of "inner silence" here in the west. As long as fear of the unknown exists in the form of rational thought, our minds react to the naturally occuring lapses by means of conditional reflex. We in the west, for the most part, are cultured to the point of denying the disruption of the thought process. Taking the props of thought away is a psychological threat to the whole idea of our selves, which is obviously counter productive to progress, conversely it is responsible for division.
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budanatr
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10:14 AM on 05/18/2011
Very nice article Natasha, well written and clear.
I have found that many people fear a mind without thought or emptiness or nothingness because there is a small voice inside them that tells them that this is death. The concept is that if their mind ceases to produce a constant stream of thought that they will be dead. The truth is that if one is willing to experience that emptiness they are exposed to something much more fulfilling than anything the ego or intellect can invent. I suppose, in a way, this diminishes the power of the ego to control the mind and so it is like a small death. Some religions also teach their followers that an empty mind allows evil in. Maybe the truth is the opposite of this.
These meditations will be helpful in experiencing the empty mind...http://1ness4u.wordpress.com/meditation/.
Thank you again for putting this in words.