As my readers and friends have no doubt heard me say before, I look back not to see how bad things were, but to see how far we've come. This mornin...
It was easy for me to come up with questions to interview the multi-talented and ever so handsome Elvis Nolasco.
The shift to living virtually has happened so quickly and so pervasively, that we have hardly had time to adjust to all the implications. Just like every other sphere of life, crime too has gone online. And we are very poorly prepared.
I believe the public has a major misconception regarding which symptoms are consistent with bipolar disorder and which are not. It is evident when pat...
Sometimes it takes a major life crisis to make us realize we must change our ways. Here are frequently heard statements made by individuals prior to their transformation.
Persistence, the development of resiliency, introspection and self-understanding, and appropriate family support are the key to moving an adolescent into true adulthood.
As a woman who threw up for more than four decades to control my weight, even as I needed the comfort and "cure" that over-eating provided, I have some insights on what the 'over love of food' is all about. It wasn't the problem. It was the answer.
One of the chief cruelties of depression is how it encloses us in a dark tunnel, a space that doesn't extend beyond the borders of ourselves, our thwa...
I had no idea that getting sober would allow me the opportunity to not be a bitch or a control freak, but it has. I came into the rooms of recovery to clean up. I had no idea of all the positive changes that seem to be common side effects of recovery.
What to do when you see someone you care about bathed in a cloud of smoke, of booze, of opium? You might hand the smoker a copy of Zeno's Conscience: A Novel, whose protagonist turns to psychoanalysis in his attempt to cure a lifetime of problems.
Sex, politics, religion -- everything that was once too taboo for public conversation is now open ground for all the world to see. Yet, there remains a topic rarely shared without judgment, one that continues to face tremendous stigma: addiction.
They say that by doing esteemable acts, we gain self-esteem. This was the case for me. Showing up for work each day and being present with my coworkers and the patrons made me feel good about myself. It gave me a sense of belonging and purpose. I searched for this my whole life.
The lesson of Lent for people who don't officially observe Lent is to be willing to change, to be happy in spite of what we do not have, to become aware of our attachments, to be less of a slave to our mind and to learn patience and develop endurance.
What wakes you up? What makes you feel most alive and excited to show up in the world as "you" -- just the way you are? And when you feel insecure, w...
You can not reason with an addict until the addict is ready. At least that is how I felt. I finally was ready to be reasoned with.
In my many years as a substance abuse provider, I have had my share of both good and bad experiences. And I have learned some of the most powerful lessons about life through the eyes of the individuals that I treat.