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How Being A Mistress Changed My Perception Of Marriage

Michelle Zunter | Posted 07.12.2016 | Weddings
Michelle Zunter

I did something I had judged others for doing in the past and something that I had always said I would never do. I had an affair with someone who was married.

A CERTAIN AGE Is Ripe For the Reading

Jackie K. Cooper | Posted 06.24.2016 | Books
Jackie K. Cooper

Book Review - Jackie K Cooper A CERTAIN AGE by Beatriz Willia...

Why I'm No Longer Angry At My Cheating Husband

Carlie Maree | Posted 06.13.2016 | Divorce
Carlie Maree

People often ask me how it is that I can be quite so ok. The wonder how it is that since the sudden and very painful break down of my marriage, my ex and I are still friends. They seem amazed that I don't harbor any hatred or anger towards what happened. Here are my reasons.

Revenge Is Not Sweet for Adulterers' Wives

C. J. Grace | Posted 05.20.2016 | Divorce
C. J. Grace

The bottom line is this: Why waste mental space thinking about how to take revenge on your husband and/or his mistress, rather than putting your focus on how to make your source of happiness and fulfillment independent of the pair of them?

What Does "No Fault" Divorce Mean?

Fred Silberberg | Posted 05.10.2016 | Divorce
Fred Silberberg

In 1970, the State of California originated the concept of "no-fault" divorce. The rationale behind the law was that there was no point in forcing pe...

How So Many Cheat Yet Hardly Anyone Gets Caught!

Tiffany Beverlin | Posted 05.05.2016 | Divorce
Tiffany Beverlin

This blog could actually be a 100 part series, in the last three years I have heard thousands of divorcee's "divorce stories", and I am pretty certain I have heard it all or close to it all.

'The Other Widow' Shows Susan Crawford's Progress as a Novelist

Jackie K. Cooper | Posted 05.02.2016 | Books
Jackie K. Cooper

Book Review - Jackie K Cooper THE OTHER WIDOW by Susan Crawford S...

Why People Cheat

Jonathan Alpert | Posted 05.02.2016 | Healthy Living
Jonathan Alpert

Cheating is pervasive. I've seen it with clients over the years and it is a steady presence in the news cycle. We see it with professional athletes ...

Twelve Clueless Excuses Adulterers Give their Wives

C. J. Grace | Posted 04.28.2016 | Women
C. J. Grace

The excuses men give when confronted about cheating vary from extremely predictable to astonishingly off the wall. However absurd some of these may se...

Why I Stayed After My Husband's Affair

Charity Craig | Posted 04.07.2016 | Women
Charity Craig

My husband gave up on our marriage. Well, he didn't exactly give up... He found someone else. So, why would I stay and fight for someone who stabbed me in the back and left me to bleed? Why would I fight to save my marriage, when the one I loved and trusted betrayed my love?

Should Cheaters Be Shunned?

Belinda Etezad Rachman | Posted 03.31.2016 | Divorce
Belinda Etezad Rachman

When you have a friend, isn't the least you can expect from your friendship that you will not have sex with each others mates without permission?

Why Do We Cheat?

Sheila Blagg | Posted 03.14.2016 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

Studies show that nearly 57% of men and 54% of women will commit adultery at some point during their marriage. This majority is astonishing. I was als...

Inside Infidelity: Who Gets Cheated On?

Samantha Boardman MD | Posted 10.29.2015 | Healthy Living
Samantha Boardman MD

Breadwinners beware. The more financially dependent a husband or wife is on their spouse, the more likely they are to cheat. Most people assume the op...

The Affair Returns to Showtime

Marcia G. Yerman | Posted 10.23.2015 | Entertainment
Marcia G. Yerman

The second season of Showtime's drama The Affair has arrived. Having seen previews of a month of episodes, I plan to keep watching.

"Clever Little Lies:" A Droll New Dramedy at Westside Theatre

Alexandra Villarreal | Posted 10.13.2015 | Arts
Alexandra Villarreal

In Clever Little Lies, every line hits hard. Playwright Joe DiPietro has no mercy as he portrays a cheating husband whose child-obsessed wife coddles her baby with the new-age spirit and energy that make parents dreadful company these days.

Screw The Laws, I Am Following My Conscience Instead

Domenick Scudera | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Domenick Scudera

God's law trumps man's law. It is heartening to know that Mr. Santorum - and so many other Republican candidates for president - will not follow American laws in the Oval Office.

Politics and Religion Should NOT Mix

Barbara Hammond | Posted 09.14.2015 | Politics
Barbara Hammond

Everyone I know is sick of Kim Davis, the Kentucky county clerk, and so am I, but I want to share a couple of stories about her religion and Mr. Huckabee's, as well. He's Southern Baptist and she's Apostolic/Pentecostal which is more rigid in their edicts for women and their boisterous rituals.

A Sordid Affair: Prostitution, Adultery and the Fall of Rentboy

Jesse Jackman | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Jesse Jackman

Where is the legal boundary between prostitution and porn? Why is pornography (in which individuals are paid to perform sexual acts) allowed, but prostitution (in which individuals are paid to perform sexual acts) is not?

Are We All Cheaters?

Renato Barucco | Posted 08.28.2015 | Women
Renato Barucco

In the case of the Ashley Madison leak, the public doesn't seem to care much about the gravity of the crime and the long-term consequences of the hack. The victims are cheaters, mostly male, and they deserve it all. It's a poetic karma in full force, right? Wrong, I say.

Don't Rush to the Divorce Lawyers at the First Sign of Infidelity

Ayesha Vardag | Posted 08.26.2015 | Divorce
Ayesha Vardag

If you look deeply at yourself and you really try to feel for your partner, it may be that compassion will let you forgive. And if you can, if you can love each other enough to take it as part of the waft and weave of your marriage, then you've got something pretty strong.

Life After Ashley Madison: How to Operate in a World Without Secrets

Adam Levin | Posted 08.20.2015 | Technology
Adam Levin

Data breaches have become the third certainty in life, right behind death and taxes. Up to now, the kind of information most often exposed in a breach was of concern because it could be used to harm our financial lives and even our well being (like medical identity theft). What differentiates the ALM hack is that it has moral ramifications.

Thinking About Having an Affair? Read This First

Shlomo Slatkin | Posted 08.07.2015 | Divorce
Shlomo Slatkin

If you're suffering in your relationship and feeling lonely, you may be tempted to reach out to someone outside of your marriage -- with or without the intention of having an affair.

How Can You Tell If Your Partner Is Having an Affair?

Ayesha Vardag | Posted 07.31.2015 | Women
Ayesha Vardag

Last week, Ashley Madison, a dating site that explicitly targets people who want to have extra-marital affairs, was hacked by a group calling itself the Impact Team. The hackers claim to have gained access to the company's entire database of clients.

Why the Ashley Madison Hack Can Save Your Marriage

Tara Averill | Posted 07.23.2016 | Divorce
Tara Averill

If you're stressed about getting busted by this whole Ashley Madison hack, there is hope. Maybe you hadn't even done anything, maybe you just clicked around to see what the prospects were but the evidence will be there for your partner to see. So, here you are, fork in road.

Kids Fail Adorably At Explaining Adultery On 'Jimmy Kimmel Live!'

The Huffington Post | Bill Bradley | Posted 07.22.2015 | Comedy

It's official. Kids have no idea what they're talking about. With the news that online cheating site Ashley Madison has been hacked, and around 37 mil...