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Gay Sensibility On Sexual Compatibility

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 06.24.2013 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

Since my last blog post, in which I introduced the term "sides" to describe gay men who simply don't prefer anal sex, I've received many emails from gay men who do prefer anal sex who describe the problems they encounter when they find themselves in bed with a side.

Guys On The 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops And Bottoms

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 06.16.2013 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

What if a guy isn't a top, a bottom or even versatile? What about gay men who have never engaged in anal sex and never will, ever? I think they deserve a name of their own. I call them "sides," and they typically struggle with tremendous feelings of shame.