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Read This Before Apologizing To Your Kids For The Divorce

Christina Pesoli | Posted 08.26.2015 | Divorce
Christina Pesoli

I've never met a divorced parent who doesn't have at least some amount of regret about what their children went through as a result of their divorce. That regret in and of itself is not a problem. But if you get mired in it, you can end up compounding the damage. And that is a problem.

Adorable Kid Returns Library Book With An Apology Note

The Huffington Post | Ryan Grenoble | Posted 08.19.2015 | Good News

A ripped page in a comic book was no laughing matter for a young reader in Toronto, who guiltily returned the (slightly) damaged publication along wit...

The Payoff for Apologies -- and the Penalties for Their Absence

Dianna Booher | Posted 07.28.2015 | Business
Dianna Booher

The father with his kids in tow yelled a couple of obscenities at the gate agent. "Why won't you just open that door and let us on that plane! It's sitting right there. I can see it!"

20 Things You Should Never Apologize For (And 10 You Totally Should)

Ravishly | Posted 07.10.2015 | Women

There are some cut-and-dried scenarios where the word "sorry" is never, ever needed -- and some where it is. Let's review them, shall we?

This Supercut Of Women Apologizing Makes Us Never Want To Say 'Sorry' Again

The Huffington Post | Nina Friend | Posted 07.09.2015 | Women

Sorry (not sorry) -- quick question: "Why are women always apologizing?" One study attributes women's disproportionate sorry-habit to "...

Do You Need an Apology?

Melanie Young | Posted 07.07.2015 | Healthy Living
Melanie Young

The words some people find most difficult to say with true conviction are "I'm sorry." Yet they speak volumes when it matters. The impact of unspoken words can be more powerful than those said. Speak from the heart without losing your head.

Why Kids Should Say 'I'm Sorry'

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 06.01.2015 | Parents
Samantha Rodman PhD

Many people say that having your children say "I'm sorry" when they aren't really sorry is invalidating. I am certainly against invalidating your kids, and I do not recommend telling your kids that they ARE sorry when they aren't. However, I do think that children should be encouraged to apologize if they hurt someone physically or emotionally, and here is why.

To Resolve or Manage Conflict, You Must Address the Actual Cause of the Problem

Mark Baer | Posted 06.21.2015 | Divorce
Mark Baer

I recently had the most fascinating consultation with a gentleman who was interested in the possibility of my representing him as his lawyer.

5 Things I No Longer Apologize For

August McLaughlin | Posted 06.20.2015 | Women
August McLaughlin

Whether we articulate it or not, feeling regretful for who we authentically are can hold us back in all sorts of ways.

I'll Stop Saying 'Sorry' If You Do, Too

Sasha Bronner | Posted 06.17.2015 | Women
Sasha Bronner

I have noticed how often I -- and my female friends -- apologize for things that are out of our control. This, of course, is different than saying, "I am sorry for being late," or "I'm sorry I picked a fight last night because I was really hungry and you were taking forever to figure out our plans."

Apology Not Accepted

Beth Frede | Posted 05.05.2015 | Women
Beth Frede

We have to stop this nonsensical idea that taking our full space somehow diminishes others. We have to stop apologizing for being who we're here to be. It is in the fullest, untamed expression of who we are that we can live on purpose.

Dangers of Apologies

Jacqueline Gualtieri | Posted 05.05.2015 | Healthy Living
Jacqueline Gualtieri

Learning those words quickly becomes a gateway to an apologetic attitude. I'm not saying that teaching your children how to apologize is a bad thing, but that phrase should come with a warning label.

Women, Stop Apologizing For Existing

Christina Berchini | Posted 04.20.2015 | Women
Christina Berchini

Existing in a space is not a privilege -- it is a right. Treat it as such, and have the courage to stop apologizing for it.

Why I Am NOT Sorry

Alba Brunetti | Posted 03.02.2015 | Healthy Living
Alba Brunetti

Saying "I'm sorry" repeatedly put me in a position of constantly being in the wrong. This had a profound impact on me as I was doing nothing that warranted an apology.

7 Things You Should Never Apologize For

The Huffington Post | Lindsay Holmes | Posted 11.05.2014 | Healthy Living

Everyone makes mistakes. We're human -- we're allowed. And when we do make an error in judgment, we simply apologize and move on. But the truth is,...

The Art of Saying 'I'm Sorry'

Judy Mollen Walters | Posted 12.09.2014 | Women
Judy Mollen Walters

I never learned to say "I'm sorry." In my household growing up, it wasn't said too often. But learning to say it, and say it the right way, is such a ...

How to Say 'I'm Sorry'

Jen Glantz | Posted 10.07.2014 | Women
Jen Glantz

When you feel like all that's being accomplished is one person trying to yell louder than the other, walk away -- hang up the phone -- and sign off Gchat for a few minutes.

This Video Reminds Women To Stop Apologizing So Much

The Huffington Post | NIna Bahadur | Posted 06.18.2014 | Women

Women: stop apologizing when you have nothing to apologize for. A new video from Pantene's #ShineStrong series shows a number of situations where w...

The Simple Phrase I Had To Banish From My Vocabulary

Ani Vrabel | Posted 05.31.2014 | Women
Ani Vrabel

This isn't about not holding myself accountable for my actions; it's about no longer reflexively blurting out an apology I don't really owe. It's about changing my default setting from unnecessary guilt.

I'm So Really, Truly Sorry: The 24-Hour Apology Cable Channel

Spencer Green | Posted 03.11.2014 | Comedy
Spencer Green

MONDAY 8:00am -- Sincere or Insincere: Biochemically Analyzing Melissa Harris-Perry's Tears 1:00pm -- Learning How to Pre-Apologize for Something St...

The 5 Things You Should Never Do When You Apologize

Noah St. John | Posted 07.13.2013 | Healthy Living
Noah St. John

Want to know the right way to apologize -- and the wrong way? Watch this interview I did recently, and I'll give you five simple steps to apologize correctly.

Refusing To Apologize Makes You Feel Good, Study Says

Karin Kasdin | Posted 06.03.2013 | Fifty
Karin Kasdin

Call me a wuss, but I can't sleep at night if I think I've hurt someone's feelings. I will stay up until I've formulated the perfect apology. Sometimes the person to whom I apologize has no idea what I'm talking about.

What Is The One Thing You'd Like To Say Sorry For? (WATCH)

Posted 01.11.2013 | MarloThomas

Microphone in hand, I went out and asked the people of New York: What is the one thing you'd like to say sorry for? var src_url="http://pshar...

Making Amends Isn't Always Enough

Julie Elsdon-Height | Posted 02.03.2013 | Healthy Living
Julie Elsdon-Height

Making amends doesn't mean that I can have relationships with the people involved, it doesn't mean they will forgive me -- or that the process will be sufficient for them to forgive.

3 Things Women Should Stop Apologizing for

Women & Co | Posted 11.26.2012 | Women
Women & Co

Nora Ephron showed us through both her characters and her life that smart girls finish first. Let's live up to her example -- and quit apologizing for it!