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The Interesting Link Between Your Height, Your DNA, and Who You Find Attractive

Glamour | Posted 02.05.2016 | Weddings
Glamour

By Korin Miller, Glamour Photo: CN Digital Archive Your genes determine a host of things that make you, well, you. Your hair color, sex, eye color,...

The Truth About Dating Transexual Women

Quora | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Quora

Hi, I'm a trans woman. I understand that there exist people who, based on what they've seen in porn are specifically interested in dating women like me. Let's talk about why that happens and what that can feel like for the trans woman in question.

How To Stay Single Forever

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 01.14.2016 | Healthy Living
Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

When you're longing for love, the wait can seem eternal. And completely out of your control. Meeting people out in the real world doesn't seem to ...

What You Don't Know About Desire Is Killing Your Sex Life

Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A. | Posted 01.05.2016 | Divorce
Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A.

It seems that everywhere we look we see couples in long term relationship suffering from challenges in their intimacy and sexual connection. More th...

Chemistry Counts in Relationships--But How Much?

Marcia Naomi Berger | Posted 01.05.2016 | Women
Marcia Naomi Berger

When it comes to a potentially romantic relationship, chemistry is a loaded word. Does one of these beliefs pop into your mind when you hear it?

Five New Year Goals for Divorced Humans

Karim Shamsi-Basha | Posted 12.29.2015 | Divorce
Karim Shamsi-Basha

It is that time of year, when everyone harps on the word, resolutions. "You will make them, only to break them." Blah, blah, blah. If we have to read those articles, here is one that focuses on the solution. Make goals instead.

Why Some People Are Attracted To Terrible Partners

Oprah.com | Ashley Sepanski | Posted 12.16.2015 | OWN

This is the way we have been taught to understand our attractions: You're either attracted to someone right now, or you won't ever be. For example, A...

Your 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes

Francesca Hogi | Posted 12.15.2015 | Style
Francesca Hogi

For most people, the risk of being ignored online is less painful than risking someone saying to your face "I'm not interested." And so technology becomes a digital crutch that works as substitute for the face-to-face courtship humans have engaged in since the beginning of time.

Gay Men and Racial Preference

Matthew J. Dempsey | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Matthew J. Dempsey

Some say it's a "preference" while others contend it's just another racist smoke screen for white gay men to hide behind.

Dating After Divorce: The Dos and Don'ts For Attracting A Man

Kimberly Seltzer | Posted 11.20.2015 | Divorce
Kimberly Seltzer

Feeling secure when it comes to dating after divorce is easier said than done, especially when it has been a while. Many women struggle with their confidence. The bottom line, however, is when you feel confident, you attract love in your life. Here are some dos and don'ts for attracting a man so you can be on your way to feeling "dating confident."

Attraction: The Reasons You Choose Your Partner May Surprise You

Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A. | Posted 11.12.2015 | Weddings
Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A.

While it is true that part of attraction is physical, much of it has a lot more to do with familiarity (and often physical attraction is also based on particular kinds of familiarity). It is no coincidence that the root word of "familiarity" is "family."

Everything's Big About Universal Orlando's Opening-in-2016 Skull Island: Reign of Kong

Jim Hill | Posted 11.06.2015 | Entertainment
Jim Hill

For nearly 30 years now -- ever since King Kong Encounter was first added to Universal Studios Hollywood's tram tour back in June of 1986 and that 7 ton, 30 foot-tall animatronic figure began blasting tourists with his banana breath -- theme park goers have been going ape for this massive movie monster.

3 Keys to Being Irresistibly Attractive

Jennifer Twardowski | Posted 11.04.2015 | Women
Jennifer Twardowski

We all want others to like us. Deep down in our hearts we all want to feel supported, respected, and, most importantly, loved.

Why Aren't The Women I Attract Hot Enough?

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 11.04.2015 | Style
Samantha Rodman PhD

I've been getting a number of questions from males, of all ages (20s through 60s) that all seem to ask the same question, which I will condense into one tragic appeal.

101 Everyday Places To Meet Single Men

Francesca Hogi | Posted 10.23.2015 | Women
Francesca Hogi

The key to maximizing your chances of meeting someone special wherever you find yourself is to keep your eyes open and your head up (smartphones down!). Be prepared to make eye contact, smile and say hello!

6 Things I Learned By Turning My Phone Off & Looking Into The Eyes Of Strangers

Sandy Rosenblatt | Posted 11.03.2015 | Impact
Sandy Rosenblatt

We live in a relatively disconnected world. Fortunately, that is mostly by choice. The fact is, we don't need to wait for an International Day of Connection or a global eye gazing experiment to choose differently. We can just do it. And that, my friends, is beautiful.

What People REALLY Want In A Dating Partner

Renee Fisher | Posted 10.08.2015 | Fifty
Renee Fisher

Twenty-eight thousand people answered a questionnaire about heterosexual mate preferences. As with any research, researchers found that one long-held belief was supported: People with desirable traits have a stronger 'bargaining hand' and can be more selective when choosing a partner.

The Lobster's Version of Love: Why Similarity Fosters Connections

Maria X. Liu | Posted 10.06.2015 | Women
Maria X. Liu

I tend now to be attracted to men who have succeeded in areas that I haven't but wanted to, and I find that men who are drawn to me tend to value the areas I'm accomplished in. This is both speaking to our differences as well as our similarities.

How Your Experiences Can Influence Who You're Attracted To

LiveScience | Alanna Vagianos | Posted 10.05.2015 | Women

By: Sara G. Miller Published: 10/05/2015 on LiveScience Is that guy sexy? Is that woman beautiful? If you ask these questions to a group of people, t...

Reminding Yourself You're F&^*% Hot (Step 1)

Alex Madda | Posted 09.19.2015 | Comedy
Alex Madda

Women are subliminally encouraged to retain "inherent" insecurities and buy things to make themselves "less ugly"." To which I say, FUCK THAT NOISE. To continue this combat of ugliness, I had a sexual encounter with my definition of a "100% fuck-ya holy shit I'm drooling" hottie.

13 Ways to Keep Love Alive

Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW | Posted 09.08.2015 | Healthy Living
Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW

While it is impossible to prevent stale moments from occurring, it is possible to strengthen the substance of a relationship in a way that minimizes their impact and diminishes their frequency to a significant degree.

6 Tips For Writing The Perfect Online Dating Profile

Francesca Hogi | Posted 08.25.2015 | Women
Francesca Hogi

If you are looking for love online, a great profile is key. Of course you need compelling photos, but those who are looking for a real relationship will look beyond a pretty face to find out what you are about.

55 Essential Pieces Of Dating Advice

Francesca Hogi | Posted 08.10.2015 | Women
Francesca Hogi

Embrace serendipity -- As long as there are other humans, there is the potential for you to meet someone to date, or someone who might introduce you to someone to date. Get excited about the possibilities!

Chances Are Your Partner Is Attracted to Other People

Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A. | Posted 08.05.2015 | Women
Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A.

When you make room in your relationship to honor the possibility of outside attractions and the feelings they create, it can help you stay connected and engaged with each other instead of developing separate lives where you keep your attractions hidden. Being able to talk about scary topics like outside attractions can even help prevent affairs from happening.

Is Love Really All You Need?

Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW | Posted 07.27.2015 | Healthy Living
Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW

Love asks more of us than to simply feel a strong attraction to another person. It asks (or demands) that we put our own desires and preferences aside and replace them with a desire to serve the desires of our partner, not always, but probably more often than most of us would want to.