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Attraction

What Actually Makes A Man Attractive?

Matthew J. Dempsey | Posted 07.11.2016 | Queer Voices
Matthew J. Dempsey

Do you tend to be attracted to the guy who smiles or smolders? I teamed up with Buzzfeed's Eugene Lee Yang to put perceived masculinity to the test a...

How To Turn Attraction Into A Real Relationship

Dr. Carmen Harra | Posted 06.09.2016 | Healthy Living
Dr. Carmen Harra

When spring springs, so do relationships. If we're single, we look forward to this season of growth with the hope that our human bonds will blossom, t...

Dating in the Time of Bad Advice

Susan Winter | Posted 06.06.2016 | Women
Susan Winter

Dating can feel like running a marathon in high-heels and push-up bra... with a bad hangover. The "no rules" free-for-all system we have today puts ...

Is This Bad Habit Keeping You Single?

Francesca Hogi | Posted 06.03.2016 | Style
Francesca Hogi

Do you feel like you've tried it all to find love? Are you frustrated because the people you're attracted to never want a relationship, and the ones who do want a relationship you're not attracted to?

How Will Your Ideal Partner Recognize You?

Francesca Hogi | Posted 05.26.2016 | Style
Francesca Hogi

In dating, it's very easy to focus on the other person - whether you're swiping on Tinder, perusing a dating site, or meeting face-to-face. We naturally focus on who we want to meet. You probably have a very good idea of the look and qualities of your ideal partner.

If You're Single, Take This Quick Superficiality Test

Francesca Hogi | Posted 05.17.2016 | Style
Francesca Hogi

Not many of us are willing to admit to being superficial. When it comes to dating, we usually feel our criteria is totally justified! However, you might be surprised to discover that you are more superficial than you previously realized.

Chaos in Motion: about murmurations & mental processes

Roeselien Raimond | Posted 05.09.2016 | Arts
Roeselien Raimond

Prior to writing an article, a storm might rage through my head. Ideas spontaneously sprout, patches of words, too fast to grab, fly by. Separate figm...

5 Essential Dating App Hacks

Francesca Hogi | Posted 04.21.2016 | Women
Francesca Hogi

if you are looking for love, dating apps are way too huge a pool of potential partners to ignore. Here are the five hacks that will ensure you find the most success when you swipe.

Does Supporting Trump Make You Less Attractive To The Opposite Sex?

Jon Hotchkiss | Posted 04.06.2016 | Entertainment
Jon Hotchkiss

In just a moment, you'll get to see an experiment to determine if support for Donald Trump makes you suddenly less attractive to the opposite sex. But first, some background.

Passionate or Platonic? What Your Kiss Could Say About Your Relationship

Vivienne Mayer | Posted 03.31.2016 | Healthy Living
Vivienne Mayer

In any case, this latest research seems to suggest that tilting the head to the left is a more platonic kissing position.

I'm 33 And Have Never Been Kissed

The Establishment | Posted 03.21.2016 | Women
The Establishment

Sometimes you have to face hard truths by stating the painful facts baldly.

Holy Dirt and Modern Pilgrims: El Santuario de Chimayó

James Orndorf | Posted 03.10.2016 | Travel
James Orndorf

Known as the "Lourdes of America," el Santuario de Chimayó, 40 miles north of Santa Fe, New Mexico, is one of the most important Catholic pilgrimage ...

How to Attract What You Desire -- Tips From a World-Leading Dating Expert

Anthony Awadalla | Posted 03.07.2016 | Women
Anthony Awadalla

After touching base with her and diving into the psychology behind who she is outside of her success and what she stands for, I've come to notice how her principles in coaching are a reflection of how she approaches life.

A Healthier Relationship Is Closer Than You Think

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 03.07.2016 | Healthy Living
Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

There is no reason to let what's "in here" run any part of your life any longer. You have the power to create a wonderfully fulfilling, joyfully intimate relationship, and it all starts now.

Chemistry, Attraction and the Heart of Love

Troy Stoneking | Posted 03.07.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Troy Stoneking

As a marriage coach one of the most misunderstood topics I encounter is the difference between love and attraction. Most couples come together and mar...

5 Body Language Mistakes Women Make on Dates

Adam Gilad | Posted 03.03.2016 | Women
Adam Gilad

It was a sumptuous meal. Rich Italian wine. Cute little appetizers that looked like exotic blooms. Tablecloth. Classical guitarist in the corner......

The Interesting Link Between Your Height, Your DNA, and Who You Find Attractive

Glamour | Posted 02.05.2016 | Weddings
Glamour

By Korin Miller, Glamour Photo: CN Digital Archive Your genes determine a host of things that make you, well, you. Your hair color, sex, eye color,...

The Truth About Dating Transexual Women

Quora | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Quora

Hi, I'm a trans woman. I understand that there exist people who, based on what they've seen in porn are specifically interested in dating women like me. Let's talk about why that happens and what that can feel like for the trans woman in question.

How To Stay Single Forever

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 01.14.2016 | Healthy Living
Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

When you're longing for love, the wait can seem eternal. And completely out of your control. Meeting people out in the real world doesn't seem to be...

What You Don't Know About Desire Is Killing Your Sex Life

Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A. | Posted 01.05.2016 | Divorce
Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman M.A.

It seems that everywhere we look we see couples in long term relationship suffering from challenges in their intimacy and sexual connection. More than...

Chemistry Counts in Relationships--But How Much?

Marcia Naomi Berger | Posted 01.05.2016 | Women
Marcia Naomi Berger

When it comes to a potentially romantic relationship, chemistry is a loaded word. Does one of these beliefs pop into your mind when you hear it?

Five New Year Goals for Divorced Humans

Karim Shamsi-Basha | Posted 12.29.2015 | Divorce
Karim Shamsi-Basha

It is that time of year, when everyone harps on the word, resolutions. "You will make them, only to break them." Blah, blah, blah. If we have to read those articles, here is one that focuses on the solution. Make goals instead.

Why Some People Are Attracted To Terrible Partners

Oprah.com | Ashley Sepanski | Posted 12.16.2015 | OWN

This is the way we have been taught to understand our attractions: You're either attracted to someone right now, or you won't ever be. For example, An...

Your 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes

Francesca Hogi | Posted 12.15.2015 | Style
Francesca Hogi

For most people, the risk of being ignored online is less painful than risking someone saying to your face "I'm not interested." And so technology becomes a digital crutch that works as substitute for the face-to-face courtship humans have engaged in since the beginning of time.

Gay Men and Racial Preference

Matthew J. Dempsey | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Matthew J. Dempsey

Some say it's a "preference" while others contend it's just another racist smoke screen for white gay men to hide behind.