I was letting the relaxer sit, and I went to scratch my head. I looked down at my hand and I had strands of hair on my fingers. I felt around my hair some more, and even more hair was coming out. I knew something was wrong.
So you are ready to have a nightcap with your boo but there's one problem - you just washed your hair! Don't let the idea of ruining your twist-out, 'fro or locs prevent you from engaging in extracurricular adult activities.
I'm not quite ready for a HuffPost reveal, but I love the look. It's got lots of silver in it now, and may never be quite as full as the 'fros of my youth. But it's just right for a woman my age, coming into her midlife powers.