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What It Looks Like To Misplace A Marriage

Craig Pace | Posted 07.18.2016 | Divorce
Craig Pace

Someone is always taking my headphones. No matter where I leave them, they disappear. Headphones can't leave on their own. They have to be either lost...

What If We Put Our Energy Into Showing The Way Instead Of Pointing Fingers?

John Friedman | Posted 06.22.2016 | Business
John Friedman

It is time to admit that the 'Blame Game' actually prevents us from implementing solutions In business, politics and culture the idea of finding out ...

I Do Not Feel Guilty About My Islamic Faith and You Shouldn't Either

Merima Trako | Posted 06.17.2016 | HuffPost Home
Merima Trako

Guilt is an interesting feeling. Everyone I know has felt guilt, guilt as a feeling is hard to identify and we may not even be aware that the unsettling feeling we are vaguely aware of is actually guilt.

Beyond Reactivity: Discover an Underlying Source of Anger

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 05.16.2016 | Healthy Living
Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Do you find yourself getting angry and irritated, no matter how often you try to stay calm and accepting? Discover an underlying source of anger that,...

4 Steps to Stop Blaming

Nancy Colier | Posted 03.28.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Nancy Colier

Practice these steps and when you forget to practice them, remember and start again. If you commit to making this effort, you will grow in ways you can't yet know, and so will your relationships and your life.

How Tom Cruise Ruined Your Relationships

Dan Mason | Posted 02.09.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Dan Mason

Relationships aren't about being right, they are about growing into your authentic self. Once you can heal, you can be complete. You know, without dating Jerry Maguire.

What If You Caucused Your Divorce?

James J. Sexton | Posted 02.01.2016 | Divorce
James J. Sexton

The culmination of seven hundred ninety-eight months of campaigning is finally upon us. It's Iowa caucus time! Have you been pretending to know what a...

"It's Obama's Fault," In Rhyme

Warren J. Blumenfeld | Posted 01.25.2016 | Politics
Warren J. Blumenfeld

If one believes nay-saying conservatives: It's Obama's fault for Palin's son's PTSD, For hair loss, acne, and the sting of a bee. It's Obama's ...

Who Are You Pointing At?

Amanda Gore | Posted 01.21.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Amanda Gore

Whenever we blame someone else for anything, we are non verbally (and sometimes physically) pointing our finger at them! I am sure you have heard th...

Stop Getting Drunk on the Drama

Mary Holloway | Posted 01.18.2016 | Divorce
Mary Holloway

A decision that someone made hurt me deeply. I spent a small amount of time in a pity party of my own making. I was exhausted, and I didn't have the energy to do anything about it, so I just let it wash over me for a time.

What to Do About the People Who Blame You for Everything

Nancy Colier | Posted 01.13.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Nancy Colier

My recent post, "When You're In Relationship With A Blamer," inspired overwhelming feedback, both from people who feel they receive blame and those wh...

When You're in a Relationship With a Blamer

Nancy Colier | Posted 12.21.2015 | GPS for the Soul
Nancy Colier

There is no better time for growing than the holiday season. And not just growing in the belly, but in the heart and mind as well. Family interactions, particularly those that go on over a period of consecutive days, offer profound opportunities for self-awareness, learning, and evolution.

Mental Health and Well-Being: What Is Your Response-Ability?

Lara Fielding | Posted 11.10.2015 | Healthy Living
Lara Fielding

You are NOT Responsible Humans can easily get caught in the traps of mindless auto-pilot; repertoires of thinking and behaving, which we just assume ...

Who Is to Blame?

Sunaina Vohra | Posted 11.02.2015 | Parents
Sunaina Vohra

As a coach, my role has nothing at all to do with judgment. Whatever I say or imply has to be neutral so that it is my client who makes decisions about his/her life with me as a shining light helping them to see with more clarity.

Angry Kids and the Parents Who Love Them

Laurie Hollman, Ph.D. | Posted 10.29.2015 | Parents
Laurie Hollman, Ph.D.

Does your child's alarm clock turn a wake-up call into moody battle? Does your teen drop all his clothes on the floor, so you can't walk through his room? Or, do you feel like your teen is freezing you out with a steady glare in his eyes?

Apologies and Their Complexities

Jane Simon, M.D. | Posted 09.25.2015 | Healthy Living
Jane Simon, M.D.

To acknowledge imperfections, some of us have to confront our idealized image, a narcissistic view of the self that dictates we must be perfect. In this case, a mistake and the need to apologize, can be experienced as like a blemish that needs to be hidden.

10 Ways to Stop Feeling Like a Victim Once and for All

Cylon George | Posted 09.25.2015 | GPS for the Soul
Cylon George

The spiritual sages of every tradition teach us that, even in the most difficult of circumstances, we can find things to be grateful for. Indeed, the difficulty itself can be the source of our gratitude for the invaluable lessons we can learn.

What We Give Away When We Blame

Bahar Ozdemir | Posted 09.30.2015 | GPS for the Soul
Bahar Ozdemir

Every time we blame we give our power away. If how you feel depends upon what somebody does or say you give that power to do so. Even if it is a memory. And this may go deep. But if you think about it, when it is somebody else's fault then you can't do anything about it to change it.

The Crucial Factor in Making Real Change in Your Life

Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW | Posted 08.24.2015 | Healthy Living
Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW

In addition to creating an agreement with our partner, collaboration with others can give us new ideas of regarding specific practices that may support the changes we wish to bring about. This kind of support can help us to trust that real change is an actual possibility.

5 Steps to Stop Blaming Others in Your Relationships

Jennifer Twardowski | Posted 07.21.2016 | Healthy Living
Jennifer Twardowski

Blame. It's one of those things that seem to be a part of all kinds of relationships. It's in our relationships with family members, with our partners or spouse, with friends and it can even be with our co-workers.

Big Boy (Girl) Pants for Leaders: Three Keys to Redirecting Our Victim Culture

Robert Hall | Posted 07.13.2016 | Politics
Robert Hall

The flag came down in Charleston because former flag supporters changed their mind - powerful relational leaders can do that. Our growing Victim Class cries for relational leaders who work together to change minds and who bring the divided together.

I Fell on My Head in Pole Dancing Class: Here's What I Learned

Z Zoccolante | Posted 06.30.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Z Zoccolante

As I lift myself in the air, my hands slide a few inches down the pole. For the fourth time, I wipe the alcohol sprayed towel along the steel. In cl...

Whom Do We Look At After a Tragedy?

Mike Domitrz | Posted 06.20.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Mike Domitrz

Nine people were killed in an act of racial terrorism. As our country and the world continues to discuss what brings so much pain, terror, and violence into our lives, one of the common reactions after a tragedy is for people to ask, "Why?"

How I Stopped Living Someone Else's Dream

Erin Reghenzani | Posted 06.09.2016 | Healthy Living
Erin Reghenzani

I remembered my dream not too long ago. And ever since then I've made decisions that have lead me closer and closer to that dream. And in return The Universe keeps making it easier and easier for me to get there. It's so vivid now, it feels so close. It's so right.

Why I Stopped Playing the Blame Game

Tami Shaikh | Posted 06.03.2016 | Healthy Living
Tami Shaikh

I have always been a loner. Growing up some days it worked well for me other days it was a burden. The burden was on my heart, I was my only friend I ...