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Boomer Men

The Reason So Many Middle-Aged Men Can't Perform In Bed

Ken Solin | Posted 10.27.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Dating has also gone through a radical transformation since we were teenagers. When we were young and hormonal the sexual nature of teenagers was primal. We dated with fervor reminiscent of prehistoric man who mated frenetically to ensure the survival of the species.

What I Finally Figured Out After 10 Years Of Dating

Ken Solin | Posted 09.23.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Am I going to date forever? This is a question that date-fatigued boomer women frequently ask, sometimes right before deciding to quit dating. Although taking a break is a quick fix for date fatigue, the magnitude of boomer dating burnout warrants a discussion deeper than weariness.

A Message For Men Who Can Only Get Turned On By Young Women

Ken Solin | Posted 09.15.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

If you're a guy who's only capable of functioning sexually with women with perfect bodies, continue your hapless pursuit. But if you're a guy who sees beauty in terms other than perfection, then you already know how beautiful and desirable boomer women are. And you probably own a full-length mirror and are aware that your attractiveness to women isn't tied to perfection either.

Why I Panicked When She Said 'You're My Guy'

Ken Solin | Posted 06.16.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

I've waited a long time for the right woman to tell me I'm special to her, and at a dinner celebrating our first year together a while ago, Sarah looked into my eyes and said, 'You're my guy.' But rather than soak up what should have been a joyful moment, I sat stunned and speechless.

5 Easy Ways To Scare Off The Person You're Dating

Ken Solin | Posted 04.23.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

My clients have shared a fair number of first date stories with me. While some are amusing, others reflect a surprising lack of social skills. Maybe it's time to rethink boomer dating, especially if you're a newbie.

What You Always Need To Leave Behind On A First Date

Ken Solin | Posted 04.08.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Most boomer guys realize that pressuring a boomer woman for first date sex is inappropriate, but the number of complaints from women indicates some guys didn't get the memo.

'Boomer Men Act As If They're Doing Boomer Women A Favor Dating Them'

Ken Solin | Posted 01.23.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

It's virtually impossible to express a strong point of view about dating, sex, and relationships without provoking anyone. When I hear a boomer woman say she's given up dating, my knee jerk reaction is to argue against her decision. Giving up dating conflicts with my lifelong attitude about never giving up on anything worthwhile.

Boomer in the City: Boomer Cheapskate

Barbara Rose Brooker | Posted 07.06.2013 | Fifty
Barbara Rose Brooker

Between slurping his soup, then stuffing his face with fish and rice, he continues to elaborate in agonizing detail about how two years ago, he'd married a girl thirty years younger and how she took him to the cleaners. "The bitch took me for every dime -- she took everything!"