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#Boomer Sex

Why Sharing Your Sexual History With A Partner Is Risky

Ken Solin | Posted 10.21.2015 | Fifty
Ken Solin

It's impossible to unhear or unknow something, and sex is no exception. Sharing your body with someone is deeply personal and perhaps it's best to keep those experiences to yourself. Not knowing may help avoid feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, anxiety and a host of other bad feelings.

How To Have 'Dirty, Dirty' Sex

Ken Solin | Posted 10.05.2015 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Boomers make feckless comparisons with their parents' generation, like 60 is the new 50. Shaving off 10 years simply because we don't like the idea of getting older is just blowing smoke up our collective butts. But, there is one glaring generational difference, and that's our disparate sexualities.

How Older Men Can Maintain Their Sexual Health

Ken Solin | Posted 06.16.2015 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Sex was my primary measuring stick to evaluate relationships until I turned 50, which was when I learned the best sex includes an emotional connection. I realize casual sex might work for some over-50 guys, but it can't compare with loving sex.

Coffee and Kisses Are Cuter than Kinky

Elaine Ambrose | Posted 04.08.2015 | Fifty
Elaine Ambrose

At midlife, most of us don't have time or money to waste so we'd rather dim the lights, turn on some Luther Vandross and holler "Come and get it!" before it's time for the evening news and some salve on our aching backs.

5 Ways The Boomer Generation Changed Sex Forever

The Huffington Post | Ann Brenoff | Posted 12.02.2014 | Fifty

Yes, Virginia, there was a time when everyone waited until their wedding night to have intercourse. And perhaps even more shocking: Yes, that's actual...

The Reason So Many Middle-Aged Men Can't Perform In Bed

Ken Solin | Posted 12.27.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Dating has also gone through a radical transformation since we were teenagers. When we were young and hormonal the sexual nature of teenagers was primal. We dated with fervor reminiscent of prehistoric man who mated frenetically to ensure the survival of the species.

7 Ways Sex Is Way More Awesome In My 50s Than It Was In My 20s

Erica Jagger | Posted 12.10.2014 | Fifty
Erica Jagger

At 50, dating for the first time in over two decades, I ventured into a brave new world of sex that was kinda like sex in my 20s, only a zillion times better. It was -- and remains -- better because it's chock full of things I never experienced when I was younger.

Boomers Reveal How They Really Feel About Sex

Renee Fisher | Posted 11.16.2014 | Fifty
Renee Fisher

An apology to loyal readers of this blog and to those who arrived here because they will read anything with the word 'sex' or 'lubrication' in it. The following is not a boomer version of the Kama Sutra. Reading this will not allow you to cavort between the sheets as though it were 1976 and you were made of rubber.

Over-The-Counter ED Drugs Considered

Chuck Nyren | Posted 09.24.2014 | Fifty
Chuck Nyren

When you get older, things don't always work perfectly. Usually they work fine, but taking one of these pills is sort of like a tune-up for an old car that still runs but could use a tune-up. Nothing to be embarrassed about. You're just an old car. A classic car.

The Truth About Boomer Sex

Renee Fisher | Posted 09.08.2014 | Fifty
Renee Fisher

Although her memories certainly still involve body positions she would now need manuals to achieve, she would welcome any research that would take into account her current arthritis and other unmentionable issues.

Shrugging Off a Lifetime of Sexual Shame

Erica Jagger | Posted 08.15.2014 | Fifty
Erica Jagger

My overt sexuality became a lightning rod at home. It induced more tears from my mother and more shame for me. I was not a teenager who fell easily into a long, "going steady" relationship model.

Listen Up, Men: Older Women Enjoy Sex!

Audrey van Petegem | Posted 08.12.2014 | Fifty
Audrey van Petegem

Midlife women are more comfortable in their skin than 20- and 30-somethings. We have confidence, experience and the desire to be more daring in bed.

THIS Is Why I Prefer The Bodies Of Older Women

Chuck Nyren | Posted 07.29.2014 | Fifty
Chuck Nyren

I thank my lucky stars I've lived long enough to go nutty over older women's bodies. It's not anything I ever thought I'd go nutty over.

Why Sex After 50 Is Just As Hot As Sex At Any Age

Ken Solin | Posted 07.24.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

In 10 years of writing about boomer sex, dating, and relationships, date coaching, and reading thousands of readers' comments the notion that many of my generation are no longer sexual is hysterical nonsense seeking validation. An article like this is okay if it's meant to reinforce the importance of sex, but not okay when if it's meant to paint boomers as sexually dead.

What You Always Need To Leave Behind On A First Date

Ken Solin | Posted 04.08.2014 | Fifty
Ken Solin

Most boomer guys realize that pressuring a boomer woman for first date sex is inappropriate, but the number of complaints from women indicates some guys didn't get the memo.

All Single, Sexually Active Post 50s Should Read This

2013-02-21-grandparentslogo.jpg | JOAN PRICE | Posted 06.08.2013 | Fifty

SPECIAL FROM STDs are on the rise for people 50+, so if you think you can't get a sexually transmitted disease, think again. Qu...

Like Fine Wine, Sex Gets Better With Age

Patty Brisben | Posted 12.01.2012 | Fifty
Patty Brisben

As we age, we acquire a greater understanding of our own bodies, our partners' bodies and what buttons to push to please them both.