Like every other scary thing you might be faced with in life, once you've experienced it and made it safely to the other side it's not as terrifying as when it's a big unknown. So what do you do if it happens to you?
Do we need to issue a carte blanche opinion on how all women should interact with all coworkers? Office culture is highly variable. When you work in an industry that requires long hours and at a company that encourages office bonding, you're bound to create connections that extend beyond your desk.
We shouldn't be focusing on the so-called "costs" of reaching greater parity between the genders. We should be focusing on making men feel empowered and worthwhile in a variety of marital and financial dynamics.
Imagine my surprise and delight when this PSA, first posted on Sociological Images, began making the Internet rounds, and I learned that Batgirl not only has an awesome purple uniform, but is totally in favor of equal pay for women.