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Will Jay's "Gentleman" Proves Chivalry Is Alive and Well

Kyle Stevens | Posted 07.07.2016 | Home
Kyle Stevens

I had the pleasure of seeing Will Jay perform at the Highline Ballroom in New York City on June 26th, 2016. He took part in the 'Grow Wild Tour' with...

5 Sweet Lessons I Learned From My Grandfather's Love Letters

Deb Besinger | Posted 12.16.2016 | Home
Deb Besinger

As I read them a few months ago, I savored each one... it was nice to see that even though in today's world we may often wonder if love like this still exists, the thing I learned is that the patterns of early relationships and blooming love are still the same.

On Raising My 2-Year-Old Gentleman

Meredith Hale | Posted 11.18.2016 | Home
Meredith Hale

We've all heard the expression "chivalry is dead." While I'm convinced true gentlemen are still out there (I happen to be married to one), I do wonder about the younger generation. Now that I'm raising a little boy, I think about the kind of man I want him to be.

7 Things We Truly Miss About Old-School Dating

The Huffington Post | Yagana Shah | Posted 09.07.2015 | Home

Many of us remember, appreciate and long for the days of traditional dating. You know, proper courting. Yes, way before the world of swiping left and ...

Don't be a F***boy -- Don't, Just Don't...

Joel L. Daniels | Posted 09.01.2016 | Home
Joel L. Daniels

Be aware of your privilege as a man and don't use it to be a coward or a sucker by saying and doing things to take advantage. Be understanding, LISTEN to others. In every interaction, be humble and gentle and sincere.

Why As a Girl, I'm Glad Chivalry Is Dead

Unwritten | Posted 08.26.2016 | Home

Of course chivalry is dead; it's an outdated code used by medieval knights, for crying out loud, not a modern day code on dating etiquette. Why is there so much pressure on men to be measured against an unattainable goal?

The Dad in Shining Armor

Liam Robb O'Hagan | Posted 05.27.2016 | Home
Liam Robb O'Hagan

The women I am among, the ones who have assured themselves I'm not a voyeur, give me a great deal for credit for my photographic labor. I'm dedicated, I take lovely photos, I'm always around. It's a lot of work. I feel duty-bound to acknowledge that my motives are much more self-serving.

Dear Chivalry, Please Die (and Stay Dead!)

Toria Sheffield | Posted 06.01.2015 | Home
Toria Sheffield

I believe these seemingly harmless social norms serve to send a mixed -- and ultimately harmful -- message to men. When it comes down to it, how can we as women demand equal wages when we also expect to be paid for?


Jamie Silverman | Posted 03.22.2015 | New York
Jamie Silverman

Why do my coworkers and friends feel a desire or even an obligation to respect me more than someone I'm potentially going to share myself romantically with?

How I Lost My Wife to An iPad and How I Plan to Get Her Back: A Year Later

Doug and Leslie Gustafson | Posted 02.15.2015 | Home
Doug and Leslie Gustafson

Did I indeed win the battle for the heart and soul of my amazing wife and beat the little tin man for her devotion and adoration -- not to mention quality time spent? Or did I lose ground?

How My Single Mom Made Me A Male Feminist

TueNight | Posted 01.10.2015 | Home

I used to think that my mom made her stand when I was seven in order to teach me to be a gentleman, a concept laden with the trappings of chivalry, often landing at odds with the equality demanded by feminism. Now I realize that she was actually teaching me that it was my job to show respect, keep my head up and look at the world through the lens of others.

An Elevator Ride Made Me Braver and Kinder

Phu Nguyen | Posted 11.24.2014 | Home
Phu Nguyen

Everyone needs help sometimes -- I don't know a single person who has never needed anything from anyone. This doesn't make us a land of enablers. This doesn't make us weak. This doesn't make us co-dependent. This makes us human.

Is This the Life You're Living?

Jeanine Celeste Pang | Posted 08.02.2014 | Home
Jeanine Celeste Pang

You trust in saving graces like this. You trust that one day soon, you'll be able to laugh about this -- life's tragedy and consequent comedy. Because, at nearly 31, all you can do is accept that this is the life you're living.

Do Not Let Your Love Life Become Transactional: Split the Check

Calee Prindle | Posted 07.15.2014 | Home
Calee Prindle

I don't want my love life to be transactional. I'm not dating to get free meals; I'm dating to find someone who I can commit to -- a partner and an equal. I don't need a man who showers me with meals and drinks; I need a man who showers me with thought-provoking conversation

How A Man With Alzheimer's Proved Chivalry Is Not Dead

Marie Marley | Posted 06.13.2014 | Home
Marie Marley

Ed had been charming and chivalrous for as long as I had known him. One might have expected these qualities to disappear once he developed Alzheimer's, but the opposite occurred. He became even more charismatic than before.

Holding Doors Open For Men Apparently Hurts Their Self-Esteem

Posted 02.25.2014 | Home

"When one door shuts, another one opens." Addendum: Let men do the opening themselves, lest they feel less manly. According to a new study, men fe...

What This Dating Site Got Really, Really Wrong

Posted 12.02.2013 | Home

A dating site for food lovers sounds like a pretty awesome idea, but HiDine has got it all wrong. The site, which launched in November, promises wo...

Chivalry Isn't Dead. It's Evolved.

Lourdes Duarte | Posted 01.23.2014 | Home
Lourdes Duarte

As an independent lady preaching the gospel of Beyoncé, I don't need a man to pull my chair out for me. But you know what I do need? A ride home in the morning and a McGriddle. Oh, and R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

Holding the Door Open

Madeleine M. Kunin | Posted 11.27.2013 | Home
Madeleine M. Kunin

It's not just about the door. It's about making a split-second decision whether to connect with another person -- to acknowledge their existence.

Women and Children First

Ursula Burton | Posted 11.23.2013 | Home
Ursula Burton

The phrase "women and children" is being used to manipulate people, and it's offensive to me and insulting to males.

Chivalry is Not Dead -- At Least in San Francisco

Liz Carlston | Posted 11.15.2013 | San Francisco
Liz Carlston

En route home, after an evening beach bonfire near San Francisco, my friend's car was running low on fuel. As we headed toward the nearest gas station, our VW rear passenger side tire struck a curb. Because our focus was fuel, we thought little about the bump.

Why Strong, Independent Women Just Want to Be Taken Care of (Sometimes)

Lauren Jacobs | Posted 11.12.2013 | Home
Lauren Jacobs

Strong, confident women who advocate for themselves all day in the world often find that they want the men in their lives to be giving. They want the door held open for them, a shared umbrella, an invitation to a date planned and paid for by the man in their lives.

Don't Believe All Men Are the Enemy

Shannon Bradley-Colleary | Posted 10.21.2013 | Home
Shannon Bradley-Colleary

News headlines and social media would have us believe that misogyny is the rule, rather than the exception.

In Defense of Me

Zach Hunter | Posted 09.11.2013 | Home
Zach Hunter

Many of us (Christians) think we should voice our objections if we hear or see something we perceive to be immoral according to how we interpret the Bible. And we often do this without being asked, without having a relationship that gives our opinion context, without knowing where the other person is coming from.

WATCH: Adorable Kid Explains How To Treat The Ladies

The Huffington Post | Nina Bahadur | Posted 05.03.2013 | Home

This really made our day. In a video created by Dan Woodward, Clint Cannon and Nam Cu, young Cole Cowlin takes college men to task for not treating...