His Selective Communication, Explained
Just like when you go to a cafeteria and walk around, picking and choosing what you want to eat, men are only selecting and responding to the messages and responses that appeal to them most.
Just like when you go to a cafeteria and walk around, picking and choosing what you want to eat, men are only selecting and responding to the messages and responses that appeal to them most.
Donna Flagg | Posted 04.16.2012
First consider how you would feel if you were unknowingly walking around offending the olfactory senses of those around you. Wouldn't you want to know? Wouldn't you want an opportunity to correct it? Well, the only way that can happen is if someone makes you aware of it.
Donna Flagg | Posted 03.21.2012
If you think about it, at its core, communication is an exercise in understanding one another better. That's all. This is positive, not negative, despite the industry's tendency to want to turn "difficult conversations," into big, bad, dreaded events. But they don't have to be.
Ron Ashkenas | Posted 03.13.2012
It's not easy to say less and convey more. But if you learn how to do it well, you'll have much more impact on your audience and on your organization. What are your suggestions for learning how to say less?
Willow Dea | Posted 03.11.2012
Divine regard refers also to the living practice that every person we come across is also sacred, just as they are. We are invited to relate to them as part of ourselves -- even our most challenging students!
Caroline Dowd-Higgins | Posted 02.25.2012
There is a pervasive cultural phenomenon telling you how to improve upon your weaknesses and fix what you are not so good at. I'm here to tell you that you are not broken!
Carolyn Bucior | Posted 01.31.2012
Just one child. Just a waitress. Just an average student.
Signe Whitson | Posted 01.29.2012
Passive aggressive behavior thrives in many families because it is often a more comfortable -- and effective -- way of dealing with anger than honest self-expression.
Rob Asghar | Posted 01.11.2012
Here's the beginner phase: Drop the word like. By using such teen Valley-speak, or Kardashian-speak, you dropped your IQ, in the minds of others, by no less than 20 points.
Laurie Gerber | Posted 01.06.2012
Everyone has their list of conversations they are avoiding and people with whom they never want to get resolved. I want to train you in a new method and get you very facile at having those tough conversations.
Signe Whitson | Posted 01.01.2012
Sarcasm relies on a type of subtlety that most children under the age of eight do not pick up on.
Ron Ashkenas | Posted 11.16.2011
Whether you are a subordinate or a manager, the key is to take some sort of action to increase the candor and flow of dialogue in your organization.
Wempy Dyocta Koto | Posted 10.30.2011
As entrepreneurs, business leaders and aspiring company directors, think very carefully about the words filling the borders of your emails, documents, instant messages and social media profiles.
Mary Anne Mercer | Posted 09.21.2011
All my adult life I have dreaded late-night phone calls. It took only one, many years ago -- news of the suicide of my sister -- to produce an instantaneous panic reaction when I am startled awake by that shrill, nerve-jangling assault of a night-time telephone.
Tamar Melissa C. Huggins | Posted 08.21.2011
Let's face it, you need to network in this economy in order to get (or keep) the perfect job; but sometimes it looks as though the social individuals (extraverts) are the only ones moving ahead.
James M. Lynch | Posted 08.10.2011
So far I've listed 5 Signs They're Probably NOT a Coach and 5 Tips for Hiring a Coach; now I'll get to working successfully with a coach. Taking the...
Lisa Earle McLeod | Posted 11.17.2011
We tend to think of great communicators as great talkers. But as the bores and braggarts reveal, it's not the quantity of words that makes you a skilled communicator; it's the quality.
Robert Leahy, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
The guidelines for being a good listener are not just for men. These guidelines for listening and communication apply to both men and women, straight and gay, and for friendships as well.
Robert Leahy, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
I don't want to claim that men are always the problem. No group is perfect. But I can see that a lot of times men have a great deal of difficulty validating and emotionally supporting the women in their lives.
Donna Flagg | Posted 05.25.2011
You're a hiring manager.... You feel the pain.... Sometimes it's more obvious than others when a candidate just isn't right for a particular job. It...
Dr. Michelle Callahan | Posted 11.17.2011
People are over-worked and stressed out. They're so busy with all the commitments in their lives that they feel they don't have the energy it takes to spend time and effort to connect with their loved ones.
Caroline Dowd-Higgins | Posted 11.17.2011
With unemployment rates the highest in decades and job dissatisfaction peaking for many at work, Santa will be hard pressed to fulfill countless wish ...
Wendy Strgar | Posted 11.17.2011
As we age, our brain slips into this inner dialogue more easily and regularly which makes it hard to keep hold of other thoughts. The good news is that distractibility does not equal dementia.
Marcia Reynolds | Posted 11.17.2011
If you look beyond the present moment, you might be able to not only see new opportunities for connection, the person you disagree with might shift his or her perspective as well.
Adele Scheele | Posted 11.17.2011
I listen all day to the way that people talk about their work. Sometimes I hear great successes, and sometimes, miserable failures. But mostly what I ...
Yashar Ali | Posted 05.26.2012