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What Gay Marriage Can Teach Us About Divorce

D. A. Wolf | Posted 05.10.2012

D. A. Wolf

If I have one concern about gay marriage, it is a concern about marriage itself... It is the possibility that more marriages will be entered into naively, and that means the potential for more divorce.

What Time Apart Did To My Marriage

D. A. Wolf | Posted 05.11.2012

D. A. Wolf

Sometimes, years pass before we have that lightbulb moment -- noting situations we neither predicted nor imagined -- something like separate vacations or separate activities which, taken to an extreme, may lead to separate lives.

Which is Worse: Losing A Spouse To Divorce Or To Death?

D. A. Wolf | Posted 03.17.2012

D. A. Wolf

In death and divorce, we face the palpable destruction of the familiar: the structure of marriage, the family home, and loss of "self" in the role of partner.

Why You Should Be Planning For The Day AFTER The Wedding

D. A. Wolf | Posted 02.12.2012

D. A. Wolf

The wedding is the briefest of opening acts. Marriage is the main event.

The Power of The Butterfly Effect

D. A. Wolf | Posted 01.23.2012

D. A. Wolf

As you're giving thanks and doing your holiday shopping, consider the Butterfly Effect -- how a small token can change a life -- or save a life.

Is It Cowardly To Stay With A Cheating Spouse?

D. A. Wolf | Posted 01.12.2012

D. A. Wolf

Perhaps it's time to agree that for some, monogamy is virtually untenable, and long-term committed relationships, particularly in an increasingly narcissistic society, are in trouble.

Are You Entitled To Leave A Sexless Marriage?

D. A. Wolf | Posted 12.15.2011

D. A. Wolf

Let's talk sex -- sex as marital glue, sex as physical necessity, sex as a reminder that we are alive, no matter how complicated our daily struggles may seem.

When Is The Right Time To Date Again?

D. A. Wolf | Posted 12.12.2011

D. A. Wolf

Taking a chance and getting back out there may sound like a good idea, but time and timing play pivotal roles.

Would Marital 'Report Cards' Prevent Divorce?

D. A. Wolf | Posted 10.22.2011

D. A. Wolf

Men and women. Our need for each other. Our obvious differences. Is there anything more fascinating? But when we marry and things go wrong, how many o...

Is Divorce The 'Natural Order Of Things' For Men?

D. A. Wolf | Posted 10.10.2011

D. A. Wolf

Who doesn't remember the 1996 revenge fantasy, "First Wives Club," as Bette Midler, Goldie Hawn, and Diane Keaton cook up an elaborate scheme to make ...