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Dating Advice for Men

Break Free Of A Controlling Partner: 7 Steps To Independence

Andrea Bonior | Posted 06.15.2016 | Healthy Living
Andrea Bonior

If you can bolster your support and learn from the challenges, then your second--or even seventh--attempt may be the one that sticks. And that could change your life--truly.

She Made The First Move, Now We're An OKCupid Success Story

Stephen Mariani | Posted 03.17.2016 | Weddings
Stephen Mariani

I popped the question, but it wouldn't have been possible if she hadn't sent the first message.

8 Tips on How to Be a Bad Boy

Carly Spindel | Posted 02.24.2016 | Divorce
Carly Spindel

Nice guys are great. In fact, they're really great. But women don't want to date just a nice guy. They want to date a man with an edge. Here are eight ways to be a little bit of a bad boy.

5 Things You Must Know About Dating Someone With Sensory Processing Disorder

Taylor Butch | Posted 02.11.2016 | Healthy Living
Taylor Butch

Imagine dating someone who has these sensory overload experiences known as Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD). I'd like to offer some dating advice for those who are involved with such a special, magical person.

Finding Real, Lasting Love In Our "Dating App" Culture

Johnny Skandros | Posted 02.11.2016 | Queer Voices
Johnny Skandros

As Valentine's Day approaches, and you find yourself single, as I am, you might find yourself looking online for "the one." As the Founder of SCRUFF, one of the largest gay dating apps in the world, I'm regularly asked if it's realistic that guys can find real love and long lasting relationships on apps.

Advice for Men: If You Don't Want Kids DO NOT Age the Egg!

Shannon Bradley-Colleary | Posted 01.18.2016 | Women
Shannon Bradley-Colleary

Regarding Rule #1 to Avoid Becoming a Male Asshat, I believe it was Rod Tidwell who said it best during a post-game bro-chat with Jerry Maguire. "A r...

My Brush With Fame

Jamie Silverman | Posted 12.21.2015 | New York
Jamie Silverman

I was seated against a green screen and a female producer situated behind a camera proceeded to talk to me for two hours about my experiences in the wild world that is online dating.

Are Divorced Guys A Turnoff To Women?

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 11.28.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

The divorced guy is oftentimes seemingly wounded. I also think many divorced men have no idea how wonderfully attractive they are.

8 Things New Age Millennial Women Are No Longer Accepting From a Grown Man

Patrice Robinson | Posted 11.23.2015 | Women
Patrice Robinson

Scrolling through my Facebook timeline the other day, I ran across a very interesting meme. Very straight-forward but quite piercing.

Men May Like The Idea Of A Smart Woman, But They Don't Want To Date One

The Huffington Post | Rebecca Adams | Posted 10.23.2015 | Women

Academic studies can be fascinating... and totally confusing. So we decided to strip away all of the scientific jargon and break them down for you. T...

Why Rejection Is a Good Thing and How to Find Your Power in It

Lisa Schmidt | Posted 09.24.2015 | Divorce
Lisa Schmidt

I don't care who you are or what the situation is -- if you don't learn to re-frame all of the negative things you tell yourself, you will not be able to reach a place of positivity. Your dating life and every approach you make will suck. Women will smell the fear and eat you up.

Should We Be Un-Dating as Well as Dating?

Jamie Scanlon | Posted 09.01.2015 | Divorce
Jamie Scanlon

We spend so long getting to know someone before we commit to a relationship with them, yet when we break up its simply over, it ends. What if we applied the same mindset to a break up and "un-dated" someone?

5 Common Online Dating Mistakes To Avoid

Sheila Blagg | Posted 08.26.2015 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

Accessible from almost everywhere and relatively transparent, online dating offers much in the early stages that in-person dating simply can't. Still, there are certain constructs and certain habits you'll need to follow if you want to be successful.

15 Most Expensive Cities for Singles

GOBankingRates | Posted 07.30.2015 | Business

Singles' financial situations aren't so simple, and the investments required to stay attractive and dateable while trying to find one's mate can quickly add up, especially in high-cost cities where even everyday necessities carry luxury-level prices.

#Trending Online Dating Personalities: Part 2

Jamie Silverman | Posted 07.27.2016 | New York
Jamie Silverman

Lady daters in NYC can't believe some of the stuff we have to put up with. But after speaking with some of these guys, it seems like we're all kind of in the same boat when it comes to the world of dating.

How To Talk To A Woman: 12 Tips

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 06.29.2016 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

When a newly divorced reader emailed me, asking "How do I talk to a woman?" I felt like as a divorced woman, I might be able to help.

Finally, a Therapist's Red-Flag Guide of Single Women to Avoid

Becky Whetstone, Ph.D., "Doctor Becky" | Posted 05.17.2016 | Divorce
Becky Whetstone, Ph.D.,

The only way men could possibly make it through the dating scene in one piece is to learn the art of how to choose a woman who is most likely to enhance his life over the long haul, avoid the ones who are purveyors of pain, and I am here to help.

How Dating Changes As You Get Older

Sheila Blagg | Posted 06.23.2015 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

The type of mate you're looking for in your 30s is probably different than your ideal partner in your 20s. While these exact details will vary from person to person, generally, older daters will have a clearer picture of their ideal mate while younger daters have a more ambiguous picture.

The Pushy Guy

Elizabeth Denham | Posted 05.06.2015 | Divorce
Elizabeth Denham

I ended the date not long after that. I went home angry. I was not just angry with him for being pushy and not respecting my feelings about it (which is an indication of a controlling personality), but I was angry with myself for buckling.

Why Men Should Stop Trying to Please Women

Lindsey Caruana | Posted 04.28.2015 | Women
Lindsey Caruana

Men take a lot of flak for their obnoxious ticks and disgusting habits, but admit it ladies, putting up with us isn't all rainbow-colored unicorns galloping off into the sunset in a field of glitter, either. Women will argue this until the day we die, but the truth is, we have no fu*king clue what we want.

Top 5 Love Lessons from 'The Bachelor' for Bachelors (Bali)

Em & Lo | Posted 04.26.2015 | Women
Em & Lo

Since clearly, Chris was in the driver's seat of this love bus and all three ladies were just along for the ride this week (having all admitted to actively falling for him), the best love lessons to be gleaned from this episode seemed to be rules solely applicable to bachelors.

Top Five Relationship Killers

Meghann Novinskie | Posted 04.14.2015 | Healthy Living
Meghann Novinskie

Everyone has baggage and everyone has needs. How you work through your thoughts and present issues to your partner is what will determine if your relationship is healthy.

What's Your Girlfriend Price Tag?

Kerri Zane | Posted 04.07.2015 | Divorce
Kerri Zane

I love the gift of a dozen red roses when it's not Valentine's Day. I feel very special when a man surprises me with a gorgeous dress he felt I had to have. Is that a price tag? Is that my price?

Don't Do Dinner: 6 Alternative Date Ideas for Valentine's Day

Meghann Novinskie | Posted 04.04.2015 | Weddings
Meghann Novinskie

Sharing new experiences creates bonds between couples, so to celebrate Valentine's Day this year, dabble in a new activity.

Dating Advice for Men That Is Hands Down Really Important!

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 01.20.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I have some dating advice I bet you've never heard before, and it has to do with your hands. Yep, your hands.