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Dating Advice for Men

Should We Be Un-Dating as Well as Dating?

Jamie Scanlon | Posted 09.01.2015 | Divorce
Jamie Scanlon

We spend so long getting to know someone before we commit to a relationship with them, yet when we break up its simply over, it ends. What if we applied the same mindset to a break up and "un-dated" someone?

5 Common Online Dating Mistakes To Avoid

Sheila Blagg | Posted 08.26.2015 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

Accessible from almost everywhere and relatively transparent, online dating offers much in the early stages that in-person dating simply can't. Still, there are certain constructs and certain habits you'll need to follow if you want to be successful.

15 Most Expensive Cities for Singles

GOBankingRates | Posted 07.30.2015 | Business
GOBankingRates

Singles' financial situations aren't so simple, and the investments required to stay attractive and dateable while trying to find one's mate can quickly add up, especially in high-cost cities where even everyday necessities carry luxury-level prices.

#Trending Online Dating Personalities: Part 2

Jamie Silverman | Posted 07.27.2015 | New York
Jamie Silverman

Lady daters in NYC can't believe some of the stuff we have to put up with. But after speaking with some of these guys, it seems like we're all kind of in the same boat when it comes to the world of dating.

How To Talk To A Woman: 12 Tips

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 06.30.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

When a newly divorced reader emailed me, asking "How do I talk to a woman?" I felt like as a divorced woman, I might be able to help.

Finally, a Therapist's Red-Flag Guide of Single Women to Avoid

Becky Whetstone, Ph.D., "Doctor Becky" | Posted 05.19.2015 | Divorce
Becky Whetstone, Ph.D.,

The only way men could possibly make it through the dating scene in one piece is to learn the art of how to choose a woman who is most likely to enhance his life over the long haul, avoid the ones who are purveyors of pain, and I am here to help.

How Dating Changes As You Get Older

Sheila Blagg | Posted 06.23.2015 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

The type of mate you're looking for in your 30s is probably different than your ideal partner in your 20s. While these exact details will vary from person to person, generally, older daters will have a clearer picture of their ideal mate while younger daters have a more ambiguous picture.

The Pushy Guy

Elizabeth Denham | Posted 05.06.2015 | Divorce
Elizabeth Denham

I ended the date not long after that. I went home angry. I was not just angry with him for being pushy and not respecting my feelings about it (which is an indication of a controlling personality), but I was angry with myself for buckling.

Why Men Should Stop Trying to Please Women

Lindsey Caruana | Posted 04.28.2015 | Women
Lindsey Caruana

Men take a lot of flak for their obnoxious ticks and disgusting habits, but admit it ladies, putting up with us isn't all rainbow-colored unicorns galloping off into the sunset in a field of glitter, either. Women will argue this until the day we die, but the truth is, we have no fu*king clue what we want.

Top 5 Love Lessons from 'The Bachelor' for Bachelors (Bali)

Em & Lo | Posted 04.26.2015 | Women
Em & Lo

Since clearly, Chris was in the driver's seat of this love bus and all three ladies were just along for the ride this week (having all admitted to actively falling for him), the best love lessons to be gleaned from this episode seemed to be rules solely applicable to bachelors.

Top Five Relationship Killers

Meghann Novinskie | Posted 04.14.2015 | Healthy Living
Meghann Novinskie

Everyone has baggage and everyone has needs. How you work through your thoughts and present issues to your partner is what will determine if your relationship is healthy.

What's Your Girlfriend Price Tag?

Kerri Zane | Posted 04.07.2015 | Divorce
Kerri Zane

I love the gift of a dozen red roses when it's not Valentine's Day. I feel very special when a man surprises me with a gorgeous dress he felt I had to have. Is that a price tag? Is that my price?

Don't Do Dinner: 6 Alternative Date Ideas for Valentine's Day

Meghann Novinskie | Posted 04.04.2015 | Weddings
Meghann Novinskie

Sharing new experiences creates bonds between couples, so to celebrate Valentine's Day this year, dabble in a new activity.

Dating Advice for Men That Is Hands Down Really Important!

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 01.20.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

I have some dating advice I bet you've never heard before, and it has to do with your hands. Yep, your hands.

10 Things Men Should Strive For In Their Next Relationship

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 10.27.2014 | Divorce

If you're looking for advice on finding love again from a guy's perspective, get ready to do some digging. The lion's share of post-split advice out t...

Your Biggest First Date Worries... Solved

Dr. Shannon Kolakowski | Posted 12.20.2014 | Healthy Living
Dr. Shannon Kolakowski

Especially if you're shy or tend to be anxious, those first date jitters can translate into full blown dating anxiety, which can be paralyzing. The days and hours leading up to a date can be worry-filled, and you may even avoid dating altogether if it's too intense.

What Women Want More Than Wealth

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 12.15.2014 | Women
Samantha Rodman PhD

Personally, I would prefer to marry a junior high school teacher than a guy who was spending every second at his job, even if he was pulling in a million dollars a year.

A Best Selling Author and Dating Coach on the Best Romantic Relationship Hacks

Quora | Posted 12.10.2014 | Women
Quora

If you date them like they're new to you at all stages of the relationship, it not only makes them feel more appreciated, it also makes you more attracted to them.

5 Ways to Overcome Dating Anxiety

Dr. Shannon Kolakowski | Posted 11.22.2014 | Healthy Living
Dr. Shannon Kolakowski

The message is one of hope. Social anxiety can be debilitating, isolating and lonely. But it doesn't have to be that way. With treatment, practice and a willingness to try new behaviors, dating anxiety can be overcome.

13 Insanely Hot Things Men Do

Christy Heitger-Ewing | Posted 11.03.2014 | Women
Christy Heitger-Ewing

Sure, there are those girls who like bad boys, but those girls don't count because they have not yet matured enough to appreciate what truly matters in life. And that's kindness, plain and simple.

How to Get That Second Date

Sheila Blagg | Posted 10.04.2014 | Divorce
Sheila Blagg

It's tempting to put on your "best face" for a first date, but make sure that "best face" is actually yours. Be true to yourself -- otherwise, even if you do keep dating, you'll be setting yourself and your date up for disappointment.

6 Dating Tips Every Man Should Know

GalTime | Posted 08.02.2014 | Women
GalTime

If you've been dishing with your friends about how the guy you're dating "just doesn't get it," here's your chance to school him on what women really want.

How Not to Get Laid

Susan Rosenzweig | Posted 06.21.2014 | Women
Susan Rosenzweig

Honestly, the whole slacker/hipster, just rolled out of bed, not trying look is completely lost on me. I like my men to look like men, not perpetual 10th graders.

Finding Mr. Right: No Guarantees, But We Can Load the Dice!

David Kanegis | Posted 06.17.2014 | Fifty
David Kanegis

How many relationships in which you have invested weeks, months or years have turned out a waste of time at best and at worst, a disaster?

The Simple Thing That Could Save Your Sex Life

Melissa White | Posted 06.10.2014 | Women
Melissa White

Just as you wouldn't wear the wrong size shoe and just as you may fully understand the subtlety of a perfect fitting bra, a well fitting condom will take your (and your partner's) mind off of the condom and on to giving and receiving pleasure.