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Why It's Hard To Trust Feelings Of Love The Second Time Around

Why It's Hard To Trust Feelings Of Love The Second Time Around

High50  02. 3.2016
From the beginning of our relationship, I felt something for him. It wasn't my intention to find love when I went online -- it was just...
4 Important Words to Define in Dating and Relationships

4 Important Words to Define in Dating and Relationships

Deb Besinger  02. 2.2016
I've learned that the words we so commonly use are not universally defined. Relational and feeling words are nuanced, individualized narratives,...
How to Not Be Intimidating When Dating

How to Not Be Intimidating When Dating

Nicole DiRocco  01.31.2016
If you're like a lot of independent and successful women, you may have bought into the myth that men are afraid or intimidated by this...
What It Means To Be A Nice Guy

What It Means To Be A Nice Guy

Laura Lifshitz  01.29.2016
A lot of men claim to be "nice guys." And indeed, there are quite a few of you out there. But, there are also impostors. Men who claim...
The Case For Second Marriages

The Case For Second Marriages

Jackie Pilossoph  01.28.2016
Divorced people want a do-over! Most divorced men and women have some pretty bad memories of their marriage. So, does that have to be it?...
What It's Like To Be A Divorced Guy And Dating Again At 30

What It's Like To Be A Divorced Guy And Dating Again At 30

Brittany Wong  01.28.2016
"This Is Divorce At..." is a HuffPost Divorce series delving into divorce at every stage of life. Want to share your experience of divorcing...
Five Ways to Find Love Without Being Attached to the Outcome

Five Ways to Find Love Without Being Attached to the Outcome

Deb Besinger  01.25.2016
The most common phrase I teach clients, and well, myself is "Be invested in the person (or process) but not attached to the outcome." ...
5 Pros And Cons Of Tinder For Divorcees

5 Pros And Cons Of Tinder For Divorcees

Divorced Moms  01.22.2016
Out of curiosity and boredom, I decided to download the Tinder app to see what it's all about.
When Dating After Divorce Feels More Like Cheating

When Dating After Divorce Feels More Like Cheating

Kerry Neville  01.20.2016
My problem is not the men I meet, though living in a rural Pennsylvania makes it difficult to meet anyone who doesn't spend his weekends...
First Date in Twenty Years -- Turning the Page on the Next Chapter

First Date in Twenty Years -- Turning the Page on the Next Chapter

Deb Besinger  01.19.2016
I sort of stumbled into dating again accidentally, without a clue of what I was doing. Getting ready to have those first dates after a...
Meeting My New Man's Former Family -- Including The Ex-Wife

Meeting My New Man's Former Family -- Including The Ex-Wife

High50  01.19.2016
Dating columnist Louisa Whitehead-Payne and her new boyfriend have now been dating just under three months. She has met his grown-up children....
If You're Saying This One Word, He's Not The One

If You're Saying This One Word, He's Not The One

Jackie Pilossoph  01.18.2016
I truly believe that when a relationship is good (healthy) there are no buts. I'm not saying that healthy relationships are perfect. They...
Love Is a Choice, But Let's Not Forget That Happiness Is One Too

Love Is a Choice, But Let's Not Forget That Happiness Is One Too

Keay Nigel  01.18.2016
Love is a choice and it can be a whole lot of work. But sometimes that choice may not be worth the effort.
6 Tips To Navigate Social Media in Divorce

6 Tips To Navigate Social Media in Divorce

Cherie Morris  01.15.2016
If you are in the midst of separation and divorce, you may be tempted to shout from the rooftops about the misdeeds of your ex. Since...