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Emotionally Unavailable

The Holidays Bring Joy As Well As Stress: 10 Ways to Make Them Happy and Avoid the Blues

Susan Anderson | Posted 12.15.2015 | Healthy Living
Susan Anderson

The idea is to remain happy and healthy and securely connected, rather than let the stresses dampen your spirit or lead to self-sabotage.

Why Does Divorce Create Such Turmoil?

Susan Anderson | Posted 10.12.2015 | Divorce
Susan Anderson

Primal fear is what makes going through divorce, separation, bereavement, loss of a job, loss of a dream so difficult. It triggers abandonment -- our first fear -- a fear universal to all human beings. It is a feeling of being left on the doorstep, of feeling left behind.

Overcoming Love's Invisible Barriers: 12 Helpful Preparations

Susan Anderson | Posted 09.28.2015 | Healthy Living
Susan Anderson

Has it ever occurred to you that love may be staring you in the face, but you just can't recognize it? Maybe the person is too easily taken for grant...

Insecure and Not Sure Your Partner Is Fully Committed? Here Are 12 Tips

Susan Anderson | Posted 09.16.2015 | Healthy Living
Susan Anderson

Weather the storm by using it as grist for developing some emotional self-reliance. By increasing your own stability and constancy, you gain strength and help to advance the relationship. When your partner starts treating you ambivalently, here are a few tips for handling it:

Are You Taking Action to Materialize Creative Visions?

Melissa Mae | Posted 09.02.2015 | GPS for the Soul
Melissa Mae

I royally sucked at romance, (translation: dated emotionally unavailable men) until one day I gave up that BS and drafted a letter to The Universe r...

Are You Alone, Stuck in a Pattern, and Can't Get Out? 12 Ways Out

Susan Anderson | Posted 08.21.2015 | Healthy Living
Susan Anderson

Are you and anyone you know caught up in cycles of abandonment? Why do people keep repeating the same patterns over and over? What can they do to bre...

'The 36 Questions' for Falling in Love: What Makes Them Work?

Susan Anderson | Posted 06.10.2015 | Healthy Living
Susan Anderson

The world is full of love-worthy, eligible people looking for a way out of involuntary singleness. They want to put an end to their cycles of abandonm...

How to Survive a Breakup: 12 Ways to Stop Blaming Yourself and Gain From It

Susan Anderson | Posted 05.20.2015 | Women
Susan Anderson

When we experience unrequited love -- a lack of emotional reciprocity from the other person - it is natural to feel insecure and needy. It can cause us to aim our emotional suction cups toward our partner which only succeeds at creating greater distance. Here are 12 things you can do...

Attracted to the Unavailable: 12 ways to Overcome This Self-Sabotaging Pattern

Susan Anderson | Posted 05.14.2015 | Women
Susan Anderson

Why are we attracted to the emotionally unavailable? What can we do about it? Obviously, if we lose interest as soon as someone becomes available, that won't work because we'd be forever chasing and never having a relationship. So how do we get off the hamster wheel?

Why Are Emotionally Unavailable Men So Damn Desirable? 5 Reasons

Jill P. Weber, Ph.D. | Posted 06.07.2015 | Women
Jill P. Weber, Ph.D.

No matter how shiny a new prospect appears, the only way to discover men who will feel comfortable, kind, funny and warm toward you is through real-to-life interactions with those who consistently show they actually want to get to know you.

Gabrielle Bernstein On Finding Love After Suffering An Enormous Loss

OWN | Posted 10.29.2014 | OWN

Four years ago, 25-year-old Eli suffered a tragic loss when his brother and father passed away within six months of one another. As he tries to move f...

Red Flags For Mr.Unavailable, From Dr. Gail Saltz (WATCH)

Posted 08.15.2013 | Home

Psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz described how to notice the red flags for "Mr. Unavailable" when she met with me on Mondays With Marlo. Oftentimes, these ...