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Reframing Forgiveness

Jane Simon, M.D. | Posted 07.15.2016 | Healthy Living
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Jane Simon, M.D.

We can't force someone to forgive. Therefore, the road to forgiveness may also involve understanding the person who has harmed us. This requires starting off on a journey that may entail a close examination of the person we need to forgive. The journey can be long and torturous.

9 Ways Dads Can Nudge Their Child's Doctor

Christopher A. Brown | Posted 07.14.2016 | Parents
Christopher A. Brown

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) just released a significant report on the importance of dads to the health and well-being of their child, and to the health and well-being of the mothers of their child. The report arrives 12 years after the AAP's first report on the importance of dads.

5 Strategies For Staying Healthy When Caring For Your Parent

Sharon Kurtzman | Posted 07.09.2016 | Fifty
Sharon Kurtzman

July is my father's birthday month and I've recently returned from my latest trip to visit him in Florida. Over the past year he's faced a string of health challenges and though we live 700 miles apart, I manage to be his medical advocate and go-to girl.

Father Loss And More

Jane Simon, M.D. | Posted 07.01.2016 | Healthy Living
Jane Simon, M.D.

Conclusion: The father plays a major role in who we are and who we become; his absence may occupy the center stage of a person's life.

Yesterday, I Met My Father

Adam Vavrek | Posted 06.23.2016 | Parents
Adam Vavrek

I met my father outside a Holiday Inn. He didn't look like the man in the only picture I had of him: a picture I've had on my bookshelf for the majority of my life of a man in his twenties on the beach with a healthy tan and windblown hair.

Grown-Ass Woman Submits Portrait To Newspaper Callout For Kids, Hilarity Ensues

The Huffington Post | Kimberly Yam | Posted 06.22.2016 | Good News

One of these is not like the others. The Seguin Gazette, a newspaper based in Seguin, Texas, recently published a collection of portraits submitted b...

I Remember, Dad

Eric Gertler | Posted 06.20.2016 | Healthy Living
Eric Gertler

Like so many others, I will be thinking about my father today. I will think of the many wonderful experiences that we have shared and the numerous t...

Celebrating Father's Day Without My Father

Jennifer Lea Reynolds | Posted 06.17.2016 | Healthy Living
Jennifer Lea Reynolds

Although my heart aches from his absence, it also manages to smile whenever I think of the special times we shared. And we sure did have many of them.

19 Celeb Daddy-Daughter Moments That Will Make You Say 'Awwwww!'

The Huffington Post | Taryn Finley | Posted 06.17.2016 | Black Voices

Witnessing a dad's adoration for his daughter can warm the coldest of hearts. Not even famous and influential dads can resist the pull their baby girl...

The Chocolate Cake That Helped Me Reconcile With My Father's Passing

The Huffington Post | Julie R. Thomson | Posted 06.15.2016 | Taste

Father’s Day is right around the corner and we like to celebrate this holiday by honoring our dads with food, naturally. Some of the father figures ...

5 Father's Day Gift Ideas Under $100

Teen Vogue | Posted 06.17.2016 | Style
Teen Vogue

For Teen Vogue, by Taylor Davies. Photos: Courtesy of respective vendors No '#1 Dad' mugs included. Let's be honest: Finding a gift for you...

To My Absent Father: I Always Had Hope

Tina Plantamura | Posted 06.16.2016 | Parents
Tina Plantamura

Until I was 10 years old, I saw my dad every day. When my parents split up, I didn't see him for years. It was as though he was erased from my life.

These 8 Real-Life Dads Are Secretly Superheroes

HuffPost Partner Studio | Posted 06.14.2016 | Parents

Who says all superheroes wear capes? Some are crafty in the kitchen (call it sandwich sense), while some are armed with nothing more than a pen and a ...

How Many Children Won't Buy a Gift for Dad?

Christopher A. Brown | Posted 06.10.2016 | Parents
Christopher A. Brown

As Father's Day 2016 approaches, it's time to take stock of how many children won't experience the joy of giving their dad a gift and the smile, hug and kiss that follows.

Muhammad Ali Was My Father

Taymullah Abdur-Rahman | Posted 06.04.2016 | Black Voices
Taymullah Abdur-Rahman

Ali, we looked to you to find what we didn't know existed; integrity, masculinity, compassion and charm wrapped in a ball of handsomeness. And we're still trying to emulate that today.

Intimacy, a Hierarchy (With Thanks to Abraham Maslow)

Jane Simon, M.D. | Posted 06.03.2016 | Healthy Living
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Jane Simon, M.D.

We're complex beings, and there is always more to learn. Caring is more important than "knowing." Are we interested, receptive, curious? The element of surprise can fuel a sense of newness and add excitement when we're open to it.

Dare to Be 100: Memorial Day 2016

Walter M. Bortz II, M.D. | Posted 05.31.2016 | Healthy Living
Walter M. Bortz II, M.D.

71 years ago today Mother and I were clustered around our radio in Philadelphia seeking the latest news of the war that was raging in the Pacific. Dad...

Should We Just Get Over It?

Jane Simon, M.D. | Posted 05.20.2016 | Healthy Living
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Jane Simon, M.D.

What matters is that the individual himself accept the time and energy needed to metabolize and integrate the psychic change in order to continue with life in the present.

My Dad Isn't Superman

Dr. F. Emelia Sam | Posted 05.20.2016 | Healthy Living
Dr. F. Emelia Sam

Though he may be giving up driving, he still sits firmly in the driver's seat of his life's direction. And I will continually remind myself to be a supportive-mostly silent-passenger on his journey.

Let Your Teen Girl Do This, She'll Be Glad You Did

Christopher A. Brown | Posted 05.19.2016 | Parents
Christopher A. Brown

The best thing you can do for your teen girl is to let her figure out life on her own. Do you find that advice hard to swallow? If you do, you're n...

The Silver Lining of a Very Dark Cloud

Danielle Posa | Posted 05.17.2016 | GPS for the Soul
Danielle Posa

It's been 3 weeks since his death and there is a new sadness that lives inside of me that feels like it will never fade away. It's as if my being has been permanently changed. The cells of my body are different. My organs feel different. And my heart physically aches inside of my chest.

#TalkToMe: Futurist Zoltan Istvan Interviews His Aging Father

Zoltan Istvan | Posted 05.11.2016 | World
Zoltan Istvan

My mother and father illegally left communist Hungary in 1969 and came to America to start their lives afresh. Like hundreds of thousands of other Eastern Europeans living under the oppressive Soviet Union regime, my father wanted a better life. In America, he found what he was looking for and prospered.

Unraveling and How to Prevent It

Jane Simon, M.D. | Posted 05.06.2016 | Healthy Living
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Jane Simon, M.D.

The questions to ask is: What uproots and what anchors us? Discovering the answer and following the steps that connect and stabilize us, may prevent the treacherous state.

What My Late Father Taught Me About Love And Forgiveness

Tosha Schore, M.A. | Posted 05.09.2016 | Divorce
Tosha Schore, M.A.

This letter is my eulogy to him. My hope is that sharing it will inspire divorced parents to continue to reach for connection with their children, to listen, and to forgive. Never mind the miles that separate, the time apart that's created distance between you, the ex that makes everything extra challenging, the fear that you're no longer needed or wanted.

The Spiritual Consciousness of Marvel's Daredevil

Scott Gardner | Posted 05.06.2016 | Religion
Scott Gardner

Whenever I tell someone I study religion and comics I get a subtle head turn and then, as if on cue, "Oh, how interesting." It takes a minute, but you can see in their eyes the connections being drawn together.