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If You Could Tell Your 13-Year-Old Queer Self One Thing... This Is What It'd Be

The Huffington Post | Noah Michelson | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

A few weeks ago we asked you, our brilliant HuffPost Gay Voices readers, to give us some advice about how to keep long-term relationships going strong...

Want To Know How To Pick Up Guys? Don't Bother Asking These Two...

Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

The latest video from adorable vlogging boyfriends and Internet sensations Mark Miller and Ethan Hethcote making the rounds on the blogosphere tells v...

Ask Michael Cohen: How to Fall Ahead

Michael Cohen | Posted 11.24.2013 | Style
Michael Cohen

First of all, I want your doctors Rx pad. Mine told me the opposite, take the summer for yourself. I am now ambidextrous. But anyway, this is one of the easiest questions I have answered in a while.

Ask Michael Cohen: Why You Shouldn't Mix Sex and Work

Michael Cohen | Posted 08.18.2013 | Style
Michael Cohen

My office had a Memorial Day party for the summer kickoff of half-day Fridays. We all got pretty wasted and after the event my co-worker and I went ba...

Ask Michael Cohen: How to Meet Someone New

Michael Cohen | Posted 07.29.2013 | Style
Michael Cohen

Here is how I handle my own singleness. I never give up on the quest for love because once you become sad and/or bitter, that's the energy you'll being giving off. It's akin to a skunk spray.

Ask Michael Cohen: How to Deal With a Break-Up

Michael Cohen | Posted 07.03.2013 | Style
Michael Cohen

So there you are, probably making some spring salad, and he walks in and dumps you when all this time you probably wanted him to put a ring on it. There is never a good time to break-up with anyone, but consider it a gift.

Gay Voices' Love Files: They Only Love Me When They're Drunk

Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices

We, here at HuffPost Gay Voices, are super excited to present a new feature called Love Files. Gay Voices' Love Files is a love and sex advice ser...

Ask MISTER CARL: The Gay Advice Column That Always Gives It To You Straight

Carl Sandler | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Carl Sandler

Welcome to "Ask MISTER CARL." In this new blog series I offer strategies and advice for anyone navigating the marvelous, messy and often screwed-up dilemmas we face in our quests for intimacy, both online and off.

Coming Out of the Closet at Work

Liz Ryan | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Liz Ryan

You deserve to be among people who get you. If they don't get you, they don't deserve you. I'm not saying you should quit your job tomorrow; I'm just nudging you to ask "How much would someone have to pay me, to get me to deny my own life?"

Michael in the City: Why There Are No Rules With Sex

Michael Cohen | Posted 02.29.2012 | Miami
Michael Cohen

We so easily fabricate insane rules and create laws, but there are no rules to getting laid. When it works, it works and when it doesn't, it doesn't.

Ask Michael Cohen: The Good and Bad of Facebook

Michael Cohen | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Michael Cohen

A daughter throws a fit when her worried mom uses Facebook to check up on her, and two people learn the complexities of tagging your friends in a photo album.

Hot Guy Phobia

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

It goes something like this: You see a beautiful guy at a gay bar or a party and you want to meet him in the worst way. But fear matches your desire. Doubt sets in. Alarms go off.