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Gay Dating

Gay Men: How To Use Dating To Raise Your Level Of Consciousness

Donovan Thompson | Posted 10.17.2016 | Queer Voices
Donovan Thompson

It is time to get your mind and spirit right. Now is the moment to be extremely honest. It is of the utmost importance to get very clear about who you are and what you expect for your life with a partner.

Logo TV's 'Finding Prince Charming': Shame, Sex, And Sister-wives

Brandon Kneefel | Posted 10.04.2016 | Queer Voices
Brandon Kneefel

From someone inside the house, sex was the least interesting thing about the show, instead, the psychology of how many of the suitors came to know each other affectionately as "sister-wives" fell front and center for us as a way to explain the ways in which we could build community even in a high-stress, competitive environment.

Tiffany Pollard's New Gay Dating Show Promises To Bring The Drama

The Huffington Post | Noah Michelson | Posted 08.31.2016 | Queer Voices

Move over camera-hogging heterosexuals looking for love! There are not one but two new reality TV dating shows for gay men headed to TV sets near you....

Here's What Happened When Daniel Franzese Showed Grindr To His Mom

The Huffington Post | Curtis M. Wong | Posted 07.27.2016 | Queer Voices

“Mean Girls” and “Looking” star Daniel Franzese may be newly engaged, but he hasn’t forgotten the trials and tribulations of being a gay sin...

Lance Bass To Host 'Bachelor'-Style Dating Show Featuring Gay Men

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 07.12.2016 | Queer Voices

On Tuesday, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) entertainment network Logo announced a new gay reality dating show to be hosted by former *N...

ChristianMingle Will Make Big, Pro-Gay Change After Lawsuit

The Huffington Post | Curtis M. Wong | Posted 07.05.2016 | Queer Voices

The "largest and fastest growing online community” for Christian singles will now allow gay and lesbian users to search for same-sex matches followi...

Are Gay Guys Even Dating Anymore?

Jimmy Fowlie | Posted 06.29.2016 | Queer Voices
Jimmy Fowlie

Being a gay man in 2016 begs the question: are people even dating each other anymore? I recently went on a date where I ended up at a small apartment watching a series of Youtube videos called "parachute fails". It is exactly what it sounds like.

15 GIFs That Perfectly Describe Your Dating Life

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.20.2016 | Queer Voices
Mike Alvear

You bounce from bars to parties to apps looking for Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now and end up with Mr, Let Go Of Me! Does any of this look familiar?

Sex and the Single Married Man

David Toussaint | Posted 05.18.2016 | Queer Voices
David Toussaint

Nowadays I'm bombarded with date and hook-up requests from devoted, loving, legal male partners with children and country homes and happy Instagram holiday photos, and an appetite for single-man sex as big as their stock portfolios. But is it worth it?

Here Are The Rules For Navigating Gay Dating Apps Successfully

The Huffington Post | Curtis M. Wong | Posted 05.05.2016 | Queer Voices

Depending on who you ask, online dating apps have made finding the perfect romantic match easier or more difficult than ever. That's why YouTube pers...

Grindr Founder Responds To Claim That The Hook-Up Is Killing Gay Bars

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 03.15.2016 | Queer Voices

Grindr founder Joel Simkhai recently spoke out about claims that the gay hook-up and dating app is contributing to the death of the gay bar by enablin...

Sick Of Dating Real Men? Now You Can Virtually Date And Fall In Love

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 02.12.2016 | Queer Voices

Well, we guess it was inevitable -- a new video game specifically designed for gay men is on the market that allows you to virtually date and fall in ...

A Look at the Discreet Charm of the Modern Daddy

Carl Sandler | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Carl Sandler

After years of stereotypical depictions of intergenerational relationships in TV, porn and movies, it's increasingly clear that our community would do well to shed these hang-ups. We may well be strong, capable and sexual, but without desirable older role models, without a positive, normal vision of what an older gay man can be, we're stunted.

Nice Guys Finish Last and Rightfully So

Donovan Thompson | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Donovan Thompson

They are the final stop. It isn't until we have dated all the wrong guys, that we can truly see him. He is the guy that deserves for us to fully get the kinks out before occupying the spaces of his heart.

The Best Thing About Online Dating Might Just Be Its Worst

Keay Nigel | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Keay Nigel

The irony is that the plethora of choices is making our head spin, and giving us an even harder time making or sticking to a decision. We are in a constant state of anxiety where we never know if we are doing our best or having the best that we should and must have.

11 Reasons You're Still a Single Gay Man (Thank God!)

David Toussaint | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
David Toussaint

DOMA and gay marriages are making history, but there's no law that says you need to grab that guy you've been dating for a month and pick your Kelly Clarkson first dance song.

Sometimes, Holding Hands Is All You Need

Robert Kingett | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Robert Kingett

I arrive and instantly I feel like an ant who's lost in the colony. Gay boys splatter the small apartment as if they are awaiting a neck massage from God, or some other good looking man.

Unzipped Dallas: Single or Taken?

Tyler Curry | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Tyler Curry

In the premiere episode of Unzipped Dallas, get to know the all new cast as they discuss their relationship status, their turn ons, and the qualities they look for in a potential match.

Show Tackles Dating While Gay and Disabled

Christina Paschyn | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Christina Paschyn

How many able-bodied gay men would ask out a disabled gay man? That's the question actor Ryan J. Haddad, 23, has struggled with for most of his young adult life.

5 Reasons You Should Trade in Your Apps for a Real Matchmaker

Donovan Thompson | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Donovan Thompson

I'm on a quest to help highlight the issues within our community that continue to both harm and divide us. Dating is no exception. I am convinced that many of the apps we use to connect are doing us a huge disservice.

The Straight Girl Catfish Phenomenon

Aliza Polkes | Posted 02.02.2016 | Queer Voices
Aliza Polkes

Flirting with a girl who you are not romantically interested in on Tinder may seem fun and harmless. But there is someone on the other side of that cell phone screen who may actually be looking to meet girls to go on real live dates with. Crazy, I know.

How I Lost to a Bike on a Date

Robert Kingett | Posted 10.22.2016 | Queer Voices
Robert Kingett

He takes me out to the front where all the bikes rest. He introduces me to his bike, the husband I can never compete with.

I Bring A Marrige Proposal To My Apartment

Robert Kingett | Posted 10.07.2016 | Queer Voices
Robert Kingett

While a relationship is definitely something we all hope for in our lives it's good to figure out a few things in one's life. It's good to wonder what could have been, or what would be. It's healthy for the soul to think about the alternative.

Send Help! I'm Being Held Captive in a Place Called the "Friendzone."

Benjamin O'Keefe | Posted 09.30.2016 | Queer Voices
Benjamin O'Keefe

You know when you meet someone and you instantly click? They give you butterflies when you see their face. You say cheesy and romantic things to each other not to be cheesy and romantic but because they are the only words that seem to make sense to say when you're around them.

Stop Hoping for More and Start Hoping for the One

JD Stewart | Posted 09.21.2016 | Queer Voices
JD Stewart

I am most certainly not the first, nor will I be the last to feel this way. But my main question is: Where is this diverse and accepting gay community that people led me to believe existed here? We are now in a world where we have over 100 choices at our fingertips and still, we want more.