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11 Reasons You're Still a Single Gay Man (Thank God!)

David Toussaint | Posted 11.29.2015 | Gay Voices
David Toussaint

DOMA and gay marriages are making history, but there's no law that says you need to grab that guy you've been dating for a month and pick your Kelly Clarkson first dance song.

Sometimes, Holding Hands Is All You Need

Robert Kingett | Posted 11.20.2015 | Gay Voices
Robert Kingett

I arrive and instantly I feel like an ant who's lost in the colony. Gay boys splatter the small apartment as if they are awaiting a neck massage from God, or some other good looking man.

Unzipped Dallas: Single or Taken?

Tyler Curry | Posted 11.19.2015 | Gay Voices
Tyler Curry

In the premiere episode of Unzipped Dallas, get to know the all new cast as they discuss their relationship status, their turn ons, and the qualities they look for in a potential match.

Show Tackles Dating While Gay and Disabled

Christina Paschyn | Posted 11.17.2015 | Gay Voices
Christina Paschyn

How many able-bodied gay men would ask out a disabled gay man? That's the question actor Ryan J. Haddad, 23, has struggled with for most of his young adult life.

5 Reasons You Should Trade in Your Apps for a Real Matchmaker

Donovan Thompson | Posted 11.13.2015 | Gay Voices
Donovan Thompson

I'm on a quest to help highlight the issues within our community that continue to both harm and divide us. Dating is no exception. I am convinced that many of the apps we use to connect are doing us a huge disservice.

The Straight Girl Catfish Phenomenon

Aliza Polkes | Posted 10.27.2015 | Gay Voices
Aliza Polkes

Flirting with a girl who you are not romantically interested in on Tinder may seem fun and harmless. But there is someone on the other side of that cell phone screen who may actually be looking to meet girls to go on real live dates with. Crazy, I know.

How I Lost to a Bike on a Date

Robert Kingett | Posted 10.22.2015 | Gay Voices
Robert Kingett

He takes me out to the front where all the bikes rest. He introduces me to his bike, the husband I can never compete with.

I Bring A Marrige Proposal To My Apartment

Robert Kingett | Posted 10.07.2015 | Gay Voices
Robert Kingett

While a relationship is definitely something we all hope for in our lives it's good to figure out a few things in one's life. It's good to wonder what could have been, or what would be. It's healthy for the soul to think about the alternative.

Send Help! I'm Being Held Captive in a Place Called the "Friendzone."

Benjamin O'Keefe | Posted 09.30.2015 | Gay Voices
Benjamin O'Keefe

You know when you meet someone and you instantly click? They give you butterflies when you see their face. You say cheesy and romantic things to each other not to be cheesy and romantic but because they are the only words that seem to make sense to say when you're around them.

Stop Hoping for More and Start Hoping for the One

JD Stewart | Posted 09.21.2015 | Gay Voices
JD Stewart

I am most certainly not the first, nor will I be the last to feel this way. But my main question is: Where is this diverse and accepting gay community that people led me to believe existed here? We are now in a world where we have over 100 choices at our fingertips and still, we want more.

Gay Dating- Single In Your 30s

Donovan Thompson | Posted 09.16.2015 | Gay Voices
Donovan Thompson

As we prepare to enter our 30s, and for those of us that are already here, I encourage you to alter your approach to dating.

Grindr, Manhunt, Hornet??? Is This Life???

Jamie Scanlon | Posted 09.03.2015 | Gay Voices
Jamie Scanlon

I'm not sure if I am thinking old school that this type of lifestyle is somewhat concerning or are these online Casanova's just all futurists and pioneering the world of dating, sex and relationships for the future?

Why Finding the "One" Is Better Than Swiping Right

Phoebe Fox | Posted 08.12.2015 | Women
Phoebe Fox

Relationships have become an endangered species, driven to extinction by hookups and hangouts and "drinks and apps" and swiping left while everyone waits for the Great Love that is waiting for them as soon as they find their perfect soul mate.

What Happens When Gay Men Miss Out on "Junior High Drama"

Nathan Manske | Posted 08.11.2015 | Gay Voices
Nathan Manske

Like many gay men, Jose Reyes didn't have much experience dating guys until he was a little older. When he was 25, he had his first date and kiss with another guy at a conference in graduate school. Jose remembers the exciting experience.

What Does It Mean To Be #Free2Love?

Tyler Curry | Posted 07.07.2015 | Gay Voices
Tyler Curry

HIV Equal Online presents #Free2Love, a new video about being empowered to love who you want through the use of Truvada.

In Search of the Unicorn

Barrett Pall | Posted 06.10.2015 | Gay Voices
Barrett Pall

In a city where there are millions of people who can cross your path at any moment, I can't help but feel extremely lonely sometimes. To feel alone would be one thing, but to feel lonely holds a much different set of emotions. I yearn for the companionship of someone who likes me, and maybe even loves me.

Dating Confessions of an Approval Junkie

Josh Sabarra | Posted 05.28.2015 | Gay Voices
Josh Sabarra

"So, what happens if you get the job you applied for in Pennsylvania?" I asked, taking a sharp turn away from the light and flirty conversation that made my second date with Alex so pleasantly compelling.

Unzipped Episode 4: 'The Condom Broke' (VIDEO)

Tyler Curry | Posted 05.15.2015 | Gay Voices
Tyler Curry

From condoms breaking to anonymous sex, Zakh, Eric, Ronnie and Anthony talk about what sometimes keeps them up at night and what the actions they can never take back.

The Ten Dating Commandments

Stampp Corbin | Posted 05.18.2015 | Gay Voices
Stampp Corbin

As someone who has been in the same relationship for 18 years, I often get asked for dating advice. Over the years, I have developed the dating commandments which I share with friends as they pursue new promising relationships.

Unzipped Episode 3: Love and Heartbreak (VIDEO)

Tyler Curry | Posted 05.12.2015 | Gay Voices
Tyler Curry

In the third episode of Unzipped, you find the guys going a little deeper into their sex and dating lives. Watch as Zakh, Eric, Ronnie and the rest of the guys talk about the first time they ever fell in love and what it felt like to have their heart broken in HIV Equal Online's web series about sex, love and HIV.

I Went to a 'Tops' and 'Bottoms' Speed-Dating Event

Metro | Posted 05.11.2015 | Gay Voices

"No one here believes I'm a top," I thought to myself while taking the first sip of my second overpriced beer. I was less than halfway through a night of gay speed dating for "bottoms" and "tops" and had already been asked three times if I was in the right group.

How to Tell Your Tinder Date You Had Cancer

H. Alan Scott | Posted 05.04.2015 | Comedy
H. Alan Scott

Before I got cancer, I thought dating was hard. Then I turned 30, got sick, and quickly learned that dating with cancer is an entirely different game. For the first time in my life, I wasn't choosy. It's hard to be picky when you're dating with cancer; you're more focused on living and less focused on his third nipple.

Online Dating: Thoughts on the Second Date

Thomas Naples | Posted 05.04.2015 | Gay Voices
Thomas Naples

Online dating is definitely a crapshoot - you've got to kiss a lot of frogs before finding your prince. So, what do you do when you think you've found him?

Online Dating: Thoughts on the First Date

Thomas Naples | Posted 06.23.2015 | Gay Voices
Thomas Naples

I grew up with the Internet and social networking, so online dating feels, somehow, more natural than walking up to a good-looking guy in public and saying, "Hey, I'm Tom. How's your week/end going?"

13 Signs You're In A Dead-End Relationship

Robin Cassady | Posted 06.23.2015 | Women
Robin Cassady

No matter what the two of you do, if other people aren't involved, you are bored out of your skull and staring at the same Instagram feed you looked at two minutes before.