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WATCH: Gay Men Talk About What Their First Time Having Sex Was Like (NSFW)

The Huffington Post | Noah Michelson | Posted 01.09.2015 | Gay Voices

(Note: The above video contains language that may not be appropriate for work and other sensitive environments) Having sex for the first time often...

These Gay Men Are Virgins... And Waiting For Marriage?

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 10.05.2014 | Gay Voices

It may seem like a bit of a contradiction -- waiting for marriage to have sex within a culture that doesn't even fully extend those rights to queer pe...

Gay Barebacking Study Reveals Surprise Facts About The Controversial Practice

Posted 03.03.2014 | Gay Voices

A new study by England's University of Westminster found what appears to be an uptick in the number of young gay men who find unprotected sex with a s...

Sex Survey Offers New Findings About Gay Men And Promiscuity

Posted 05.05.2014 | Gay Voices

Gay men are having sex with fewer partners according to a new report. Data from the last two National Surveys of Family Growth indicated that gay ...

Guys On The 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops And Bottoms

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 06.16.2013 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

What if a guy isn't a top, a bottom or even versatile? What about gay men who have never engaged in anal sex and never will, ever? I think they deserve a name of their own. I call them "sides," and they typically struggle with tremendous feelings of shame.

What To Do With The Animal Self?

Mark Matousek | Posted 07.11.2012 | Gay Voices
Mark Matousek

The truth is that gay men are connoisseurs of pleasure and geniuses of animal satisfaction, but there's one area where we haven't moved an inch: emotional intelligence. Though sexually sophisticated, many of us are emotionally naïve. Gay men have a blind spot against self-restraint.