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The Top 10 Bestselling Gay Sex Books of 2014

Mike Alvear | Posted 02.18.2015 | Gay Voices
Mike Alvear

Given how obsessed gay men are with gay sex, you'd think this category would be producing more titles than an automatic profile generator on Grindr, but it isn't. If you look at my list of the top 10 most popular gay-sex books on Amazon, you'll see that only one of the books was published in 2014. The rest go as far back as 1998! Take a look.

Free Your Mind Your Crotch Will Follow

Mike Alvear | Posted 09.01.2014 | Gay Voices
Mike Alvear

For many of us, bottoming isn't an opportunity to enjoy a pleasurable sexual experience but an act that threatens our sense of masculinity and the respect that goes with it.

Is Being Well Endowed a Blessing or a Curse?

Mike Alvear | Posted 07.27.2014 | Gay Voices
Mike Alvear

In, Help! I'm Hung Like A Bear And I Can't Get Guys To Pay Attention To Anything Else! a reader to my sex advice column complains that guys are obsess...

'Would You Have Sex With a Guy If You Knew He Was HIV-Positive?'

Mike Alvear | Posted 03.16.2014 | Gay Voices
Mike Alvear

Like any thinking man, I take into consideration a constellation of factors before I dive into bed with anyone. Every gay man should have a personal blueprint for deciding what to do when they meet a poz guy they're attracted to. Here's mine.

Ask MISTER CARL: 'My Boyfriend Can't Top Me! Is Our Relationship Doomed?'

Carl Sandler | Posted 08.10.2013 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

From my perspective, one of the great advantages of gay relationships is that we aren't tied to conventions and have more flexibility to create relationships that come from our own needs.

Gay Voices' Love Files: They Only Love Me When They're Drunk

Posted 03.07.2013 | Gay Voices

We, here at HuffPost Gay Voices, are super excited to present a new feature called Love Files. Gay Voices' Love Files is a love and sex advice ser...

We Need To Talk About Butt Sex

Mark O'Connell, L.C.S.W. | Posted 12.05.2014 | Gay Voices
Mark O'Connell, L.C.S.W.

Without consulting each other about anal sex, we lack the best tips for safety, cleanliness and achieving maximum pleasure, a problem for the young and/or sexually inexperienced, who may have to endure unnecessary confusion, embarrassment or pain during intercourse.