Grieving Before Graduating
Grief is not an emotion I expected to experience in college. I struggled to discuss my feelings with classmates who had never considered their parents' mortality.
Grief is not an emotion I expected to experience in college. I struggled to discuss my feelings with classmates who had never considered their parents' mortality.
Melanie Deziel | Posted 05.28.2012
I slowly started to realize that this wasn't the death of an identity, but an opportunity to create an entirely new one on my own terms. Finally, as this stage promised, things were looking up.
Claire Bidwell Smith | Posted 05.10.2012
Only you know what path you need to take toward healing, and whether you accomplish this using every one of the five stages, shunning books about grief or never missing a session of your bereavement group, the key will consistently be to listen to yourself.
Dr. Cara Barker | Posted 05.21.2012
Sometimes loss is literal: the death of someone you love. Sometimes the grief involves what I have come to call a "living loss."
Allen Frances | Posted 04.29.2012
The very different experiences people have during bereavement raise three diagnostic questions. Two are quite simple to answer, the third is extremely difficult.
Claire McCarthy, M.D. | Posted 02.26.2012
We all have our trap doors of grief, we all have days or months or years when life's winds seem too much to fight. This is simply true; nothing can be done to change it.
Ashley Davis Bush, LCSW | Posted 02.19.2012
Consoling a griever can feel like a frightening task. However, if you follow these six tips designed to open your heart and offer your support, your grieving friend will be most grateful.
Diana M. Raab | Posted 02.15.2012
My father adored me. I was his sunshine, and when he died a large chunk of me died. I cannot say that the pain has dissipated, but it has softened over the years.
Stephanie Madoff Mack | Posted 02.10.2012
Last year, nearly two months before my husband Mark Madoff committed suicide, he and I were out to dinner celebrating our sixth wedding anniversary.
Katherine Dunn | Posted 12.27.2011
Helen Davey | Posted 12.24.2011
When my mother died, I turned to writing to make sense of it all. I'm hoping I can give solace to others in similar situation with an aging mother or father who for most of their life has been their only parent.
Joseph Nowinski, Ph.D. | Posted 10.08.2011
Increasingly, sudden or quick death as the norm is being replaced with a lengthy process that only begins with a terminal diagnosis that marks the beginning of a long, winding and grueling crisis.
Posted 08.23.2011
Deepak Chopra sheds some light on the grieving process, and why it works. What do you think? Share your comments below! My Weekly Newslett...
Meghan O'Rourke | Posted 08.17.2011
by Meghan O'Rourke and Paul O'Rourke When I wrote a book about my mother's death, my focus wasn't my father or his experience, though at many points ...
Brady Boyd | Posted 07.06.2011
As you and I learn to grieve properly -- and fully -- we see God show up with comfort for our weary souls.
Joseph Nowinski, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
Diseases and conditions that once proved quickly fatal no longer are. Instead, individuals and their families are increasingly likely to find themselves mired in a protracted process that only begins with a diagnosis.
Carol Jones | Posted 11.17.2011
We had taken the doctor's advice to leave Houston for home as soon as possible while Kenny could still fly on a commercial plane.
Julie Gray | Posted 11.17.2011
I have learned life's most painful and most precious lesson. Would life be the raucous, laughable, painful, unspeakably beautiful ride that it is without knowing that it can end with one nightmarish phone call?
Carol Jones | Posted 11.17.2011
It doesn't take much to get me to talk about him, to think about him, and to try to accept that he is gone from this physical world. It's the intimacy of a companion that I miss. Coming home to him or welcoming him home. Saying "I love you" and snuggling to share a good night's sleep.
Joseph Nowinski, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
When we mourn the death of a loved one we experience an intense emotion -- grief -- that we are clearly aware of. We also experience grief in our behavior:
Joseph Nowinski, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
What we call "the new grief" begins when a family member learns that he or she has a terminal or potentially terminal illness. Receiving that kind of diagnosis confronts families with a distinct type of crisis.
Carol Jones | Posted 11.17.2011
Since Kenny's death, I have become two people. One goes to work and concentrates on work matters while the other comes home and takes care of the business of wrapping up my husband's life here on earth.
Lloyd I. Sederer, MD | Posted 11.17.2011
Western medicine seems short of effective interventions with many terminal illnesses. Until there is a better way, be kind and deal with the decision-making process as early as possible.
Dr. Marjorie Blanchard | Posted 11.17.2011
Our home burned to the ground. We had 25 wonderful years in that house. When you go through a major loss of any kind, move toward it. You have to allow yourself to feel those feelings.
Roya R. Rad, MA, PsyD | Posted 11.17.2011
Like any other emotion, love has many levels to it; we can go from the shallowest form to the deepest. How far we want to go is a personal choice and depends on our level of maturity as well.
Laura March | Posted 05.30.2012