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Having Sex At A Halloween Party Is Impossible.

The Huffington Post | John Trowbridge | Posted 10.30.2015 | Comedy

Halloween is here which means costumes, candy, and HOOKING UP IN THE BATHROOMS OF HALLOWEEN PARTIES! We've all been there. You're drinking. Yo...

10 Steps to Getting Casual Sex Right

Em & Lo | Posted 09.30.2015 | Women
Em & Lo

At least half of all problems associated with casual sex can be traced back to its name: People think that "casual" means the sex takes no thought and fits as comfortably as sweatpants. Here are ten steps to getting recreational sex right.

Our Relationship Status With Tinder And Dating Apps: It's Complicated

The Huffington Post | Alexander Howard | Posted 08.17.2015 | Technology

After centuries of failed attempts, technology has finally, with the invention of geolocated dating apps, led to the downfall of Western civilizati...

Filter Less, Live More: 6 Social Media and Technology Rules to Live By

Alyssa Piperis | Posted 07.09.2015 | Media
Alyssa Piperis

What's funny about living in this day and age is that most of us seem to simultaneously be dependent on modern technology and be frustrated with how it's transformed areas of our lives that were already stressful enough without it -- i.e. dating, relationships, and confrontation.

This Is Why You Should Never Hook Up With Your Friends

The Huffington Post | Andy McDonald | Posted 07.08.2015 | Comedy

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What Do Women Want Men To Do In Bed? An Expert Weighs In | Posted 06.10.2015 | Healthy Living

(Credit: Getty Images) As a sex therapist and founder of as well as the author of numerous books on the subject of pleasuring, such as...

Millennial Women Are Taking a Laissez-Faire Approach to Romance

Dr. Peggy Drexler | Posted 04.01.2015 | Women
Dr. Peggy Drexler

The math is pretty simple: In the end, what social media dating does is give users -- and, most poignantly -- women more options. And more options means more freedom, and more power, too.

Relationship Resolutions

Monica Mandell, Ph.D. | Posted 03.23.2015 | Weddings
Monica Mandell, Ph.D.

If, romantically speaking, 2014 didn't go as well as you'd hoped, it's time to revamp your tactics and kick any bad decisions from last year to the curb. 

When Co-Parenting Is A Necessary Evil

Tara Fass | Posted 03.01.2015 | Divorce
Tara Fass

Putting the financial and care-taking assistance on the back burner for a moment, the impulse to reach out to share your news and the experience of parenting is part of what it means to be human. You can't avoid it.

Are You Using Tinder? Snap Out of It

Collette Gee | Posted 02.22.2015 | Women
Collette Gee

It takes more than a glance or an image to know whether we can connect with someone. However, with Tinder, or apps like Tinder, you miss the opportunity to truly connect with people because of the "appearance-based" snap judgments.

6 Ways To Turn A Fairy Tale Into True Love

Jill P. Weber, Ph.D. | Posted 01.20.2015 | Women
Jill P. Weber, Ph.D.

It is important to create a world full of more than just your romantic relationships. If you do not invest in other areas of your life -- your work, friends, outside interests -- you will lose perspective. It can begin to feel as if you will have nothing if you do not stick with your partner.

The Hook-Up Culture and Alcohol: Recent Grads Share Their Wisdom with Freshmen Girls

Kathleen Buckstaff | Posted 01.03.2015 | College
Kathleen Buckstaff

This fall I interviewed women who recently graduated from Arizona State, Cal, Dartmouth, Stanford, Tufts, UCLA and UC Santa Barbara. Each woman offered practical wisdom and heartfelt advice.

Why Some Kisses Are So Much Better Than Others

Arlene Nisson Lassin | Posted 12.30.2014 | Fifty
Arlene Nisson Lassin

After I was divorced and middle-aged and back in the dating pool, I unfortunately had to kiss a few more frogs. One I recall was a tongue-darter -- very disconcerting and unromantic. And another one was worse, he had bad breath and tasted like a dried-out steak every time I kissed him. Beef is okay to eat, but NEVER to kiss.

Sex With Your Ex: Appealing or No Way?!

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 12.07.2014 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

In certain cases, sex with an ex is sexy and fun and exciting. Temporarily, that is. I have to believe that nine times out of 10 the after effects are disappointment, hurt, sadness and regret. So, be careful.

5 Steps to Take Before Starting a New Relationship

Jill P. Weber, Ph.D. | Posted 10.28.2014 | Women
Jill P. Weber, Ph.D.

Those who are sincerely happy with their romantic choices spend more energy working on their own self-development than on appearing a certain way to attract love. Instead of concentrating on playing the game to entice a partner, put your focus on these five principles.

BuzzFeed May Not Know How Many People You've Hooked Up With, But Do You?

Rachel Ryan | Posted 10.11.2014 | Women
Rachel Ryan

"Well, it's obviously not anywhere close to 653," said my friend, "but I'm honestly not sure. First of all, it depends -- how is BuzzFeed defining 'hookup'?" Ah, semantics. How do we, collectively, define one of the most pervasive terms of this generation?

Everyone Is Hooking Up At The World Cup

The Huffington Post | Nina Bahadur | Posted 06.26.2014 | Women

Apparently, watching soccer is quite the aphrodisiac. This week, Quartz reported that dating app Tinder has seen a 50 percent increase in downloads...

'The Casual Sex Project' Reveals The Truth About Hookup Culture

The Huffington Post | Nina Bahadur | Posted 06.02.2014 | Women

Whether it was a business trip one-night stand or a "bisexual bonobo" birthday party, Zhana Vrangalova wants to know all about your latest hookup. ...

Radcliffe Women Have Always Enjoyed 'Hooking Up'

Mitch Wolfe | Posted 07.18.2014 | Style
Mitch Wolfe

I am reluctant to call into question The New York Times, and especially its relatively recent discovery that women on American campuses are driving sexual encounters. After all, it is the American paper of record. However, I must take issue with The Times' recent campus sexual revelations.

The End of Your Relationship May Already Be in Your Pocket

Marten Weber | Posted 07.02.2014 | Gay Voices
Marten Weber

People need privacy. We need our own little secrets, our hot steamy affairs, our dirty chats with perfect strangers. It helps keep life in balance. But a relationship needs trust and openness. Keeping secrets on your cellphone is too easy.

Unconditional Love and PrEP

James Loduca | Posted 06.23.2014 | Gay Voices
James Loduca

Progress isn't possible when shame is present. It's time for a more humane and loving approach. We must come together to foster compassionate dialogue grounded in scientific evidence about all of the available options to protect ourselves and take care of each other.

Drunk Party Hookups Are Way Funnier With Commentary Track

The Huffington Post | William Goodman | Posted 04.11.2014 | Comedy

We're sure at least some of you have experienced this before: you're at a bar, club or party, end up having too many drinks and hook up with someone y...

This Is the Place That 'Hurt' Created

Audrey Bellis | Posted 06.09.2014 | Divorce
Audrey Bellis

Picking up the pieces took more than a few tries. Starting over was part running away and part denial. A new life meant purging the one we built together.

Another Potential Consequence of Hook-Up Culture

Marc Barnett | Posted 06.03.2014 | College
Marc Barnett

Thinking to myself the other day, I unfortunately realized a sad truth in my life: I simply feel more comfortable, more at ease, more self-confident in bed with a girl than asking a girl out on a date.

5 Ways to Overcome Your Fear of Commitment

Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW | Posted 06.03.2014 | Divorce
Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW

It makes sense that people in their 20s and 30s might hedge their bets and see relationships as risky if they watched their parents' marriage fail, or even relatives and friends parents' marriage collapse.